Pehea e loaʻa ai kahi kanaka aloha?

Ma nā kamaʻilioʻana o nā wahine i kēia manawa a laila e kani ana: "Makemake wau eʻike i kahi kanaka aloha, akāʻaʻole hana!". 'Ōlelo pinepineʻia e like me ia,ʻo ke alohaʻaʻole ia e lawe i ke akamai, nani a me ke kaikamahine hauʻoli e kū'ē ana i ka hōʻiliʻili i ka lehulehu o nā mea hoʻolaha maikaʻi. No laila,ʻo ka nīnau e pili ai i kaʻikeʻana i kahi kanaka i alohaʻia e pili ana i nā mea likeʻole.

Pehea e loaʻa ai kahi mea aloha - hana iāʻoe iho

He nui nā kaikamāhine e hoʻoloheʻole i kaʻoiaʻiʻo e hana nei lākou ma keʻano e kipaku ai lākou i nā moho kūpono. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo me kā lākou "makemake wau eʻike i kahi mea i alohaʻia" i ka likeʻole, he mau manaʻo likeʻole e like me:

• "He laʻa aloha wau";
• "Makemake au i nā mea inu / huhū / hulu / naʻaupō";
• "ʻAʻohe kānaka maikaʻi i ko mākou kūlanakauhale";
• "ʻAʻole wau eʻae eʻike i ke alanui / i loko o ka hale pāʻani", a pēlā aku.

Hiki ke hoʻomauʻia kēia papa inoa no ka manawa pauʻole. Hoʻomanaʻo hou aku i kēia mau manaʻo i nā manawa he nui, hana ka wahine i kahi hoʻonohonoho no ka ponoʻole o ke kanaka maikaʻi, a ināʻo ia, eʻokiʻokiʻo ia - no ka mea, ua piʻiʻo ia i kahi kūponoʻole, a no ka mea ua manaʻoʻo ia he kūponoʻoleʻo ia,ʻaʻole ua hana. Ināʻokoʻa kēlā mau manaʻoʻiʻo iāʻoe a noʻonoʻoʻoe he pono keʻae pololei iā lākou - eʻikeʻoe i kāu hōʻoleʻanaʻo kāu hana. E hōʻole i kēlā mau manaʻo, e noʻonoʻo i ka maikaʻi i loko o kou ola pono'ī, a hoʻomāhuahuaʻoe.

ʻO kahi e loaʻa ai kahi kanaka i alohaʻia?

ʻO kekahi kuhi hewaʻole o nā kaikamāhine hoʻokahi,ʻo ia ke kumu o ka piliʻana. Manaʻo kekahi poʻe he hikiʻole keʻike maikaʻi i ka Internet, ma ke alanui, a pēlā aku. (ʻoiai no ka manawa lōʻihi, aia nā hihia kūpono i ka wā i lilo ai kēlā mau hoa i loko o kaʻohana).

Eia hou, ua hoʻoikaika pinepine nā kaikamāhine e hōʻole, inā paha e hoʻokokoke ke kamāliʻikāne ma luna o ka lio keʻokeʻo, hōʻole lākou eʻike iā ia. Wehe i kēia hiki iā ia ke'āpana, ināʻoe e kamaʻilio mau me nā malihini - kuhikuhi i ka helu wahi, ka manawa, a pēlā aku. ʻO ka mea nui keʻano e loaʻa ai kahi kanaka i alohaʻia, no laila e mākaukau no kēlā hālāwai i kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻAʻoleʻoe e koho i kahi e hālāwai aiʻoe me ia - ma kahi hale kūʻai, ma kahi'ahamele, ma ke alanui, ma ka Pūnaewele, ma kahi pāʻina aiʻole ma kahi halihali. E makaʻala: ponoʻoe e nānā mau i nā wahine, nani a me nā mea maikaʻi, iʻole nā ​​kānaka kūʻokoʻa a hukiʻia i mea eʻike ai iāʻoe.

I ka nīnau o kahi e loaʻa ai kahi mea aloha,ʻaʻohe pane paneʻole - e hoʻopau wale i ka manawa ma ka home a me ka mea hiki - i nā wahi lehulehu. E mālama i kahi hana o ka laweʻana i ka pona i kahi cafe me ka wifi liʻiliʻi, aʻaʻole e noho i ka home. No laila,ʻoi aku ka manawa e loaʻa ai kaʻike, hiki ke lilo i mea hōʻoluʻolu.