He nui ka poʻe iʻike i ka poʻe i make i loko o ka moeʻuhane, akā,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e makaʻu i kēia mau kiʻi, no ka meaʻo ka mea pinepine he mea hōʻailona kēia. No ka weheweheʻana i nā mea āu iʻike ai, pono pono e hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea kiko'ī o ka'ōpana a me ka halihaliʻana o ka naʻau. Eia kekahi, no ka loaʻaʻana o kaʻikeʻoiaʻiʻo loa e pono ai ke kahakiʻi i kaʻike ma waena o nā kiʻi i loaʻa a me nā hanana o ka mea maoli.
He aha ka mea e hiamoe ai ke kupunawahine i hala?
Ināʻoe iʻike i kahi kupunawahine i hala koke aku nei e ola ana i loko o ka moeʻuhane,ʻo ia wale nō ka hōʻailona o kaʻiʻini i ka mālamaʻana o kahi mea aloha. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻololi i kekahi mau loli o ke ola. No ka wahine maikaʻi, ua moe ka moeʻuhane i ka mare muaʻana. Inā ola ka kupunawahineʻelemakule i kahi ola, a laila, ua hewaʻoe iā ia. ʻO ka poʻe i make ma ka moeʻuhane he mea hoʻomanaʻo ia he pono ke hahai i nā hua'ōlelo a me nā hana i'ōleloʻia, no ka mea, hiki iā lākou ke hōʻino i ka inoa o kaʻohana. ʻO nā hōʻailona maikaʻiʻole,ʻo ia ka moeʻuhane, kahi e kāhea ai ka mea make me ia, a heleʻoe me ia. ʻO iaʻano hoʻolaha i ka make.
ʻO ka hihiʻo o ka pō, kahi i ulu aiʻelua mau mākuawahine i make, he hōʻailona ia no ka palekana a me ka hoʻomanaʻana i kaʻuhane. ʻO ka moeʻuhane i ka moeʻuhane ke kupuna wahineʻehiku me ka makuakāne he mea nui o nā hana a me nā kuleana hou. Peneiʻo Sopnik i hiki koke mai i kekahi mea no ke kōkua, aʻo ka mea pili loa i ka pili kālā. No ke kāne, he kupuna wahine make i loko o ka moeʻuhane keʻano o nā manawa i hala. ʻO ka mea nui loa,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻoluʻolu i kou ola pono'ī. Ināʻike kekahi kaikamahine i kēia hihiʻo pō, a laila, kānaluaʻo ia no ke kūlana maikaʻiʻole i lilo ai i meaʻole i ka wahine.
I ka manawa e moe mau ai ka kupuna wahine i hala, e kiaʻi ia, akā,ʻaʻole weliweli ma ia hihiʻoʻaʻole i wānana. ʻO ka hapanui pinepine o ka hōʻailona ia ma ke ola heʻoihana i pauʻole a me nā kuleana i hanaʻoleʻia. Makemake ka hoʻomaha manawalana i kahi manawaʻoluʻolu e ho'āʻo e hoʻomanaʻo i nā pilikia a pau e kau ana ma luna oʻoe. Ma kēia mau mea e pau ai nā moeʻuhane weliweli. ʻO ka moeʻuhane, kahi eʻoliʻoli ana ke kupunawahineʻelemakule, he hōʻailona ia ua komoʻoe i ka hoʻonāukiukiʻino i kaʻoiaʻiʻo, a he mea kūpono paha kēia i ka kaulana a me ka mea āpau. I ka wā e hiki mai ana, he pono ke kiaʻi aʻaʻole hoʻi eʻae aku i nā manipona o kaʻike. Ināʻoe i kamaʻilio me ke kupunawahine kua make - he hōʻailona hōʻailona kēia e pai ana e pili ana i ka hoʻomakaʻana o ka pēleʻele "ʻeleʻele". ʻO kahi moeʻuhane kahi i hāʻawi ai ke kupuna wahine i ke kālā i hōʻailona hōʻailona e hiki i ka make keʻike maka. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe i lawe i kekahi mea,ʻo ia hoʻi, e hiki iāʻoe ke kū i nā maʻi a me nā hana a nāʻenemi e kū nei. Eia kekahi, hiki i iaʻano hana ke hoʻohiki i ka poho waiwai. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o kahi kupuna wahine e noi nei i ke kālā,ʻo ia hoʻi, e noho likeʻoe me ka hauʻoli. Ināʻoe i hopu i kahi kupunawahine make - he hōʻailona ia o ke olakino maikaʻi a me ka lōʻihi. ʻO ka moeʻuhane, kahi a ka kūpuna i hāpai ai iāʻoe, kuhikuhi i kekahi kuhihewa i kēia manawa,
He aha ka manaʻo e honi i ka kupunawahine i hala i ka moeʻuhane?
ʻO iaʻano hana e lilo i hōʻailona o ke aloha i hōʻikeʻoleʻia. Ināʻoluʻoluʻoe i kou kupunawahine ma mua o ka kanuʻana i ka lae, a laila, e hoʻokuʻu kokeʻiaʻoe i nā kuleana e noho nei. ʻO ka moeʻuhane, kahi i honiʻia ai ka kupunawahine i make e kekahi o kaʻohana, e hōʻike ana i ka palahoʻole.
He aha ka manaʻo e hānai i ke kupunawahine i make i loko o ka moeʻuhane?
Inā noi ka mea kanu i kaʻai,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hewa i mua o ia a ua maopopo kouʻike. ʻO ka moe, kahi āu i hana ai i kou makuahine makua, e lapaʻau nei no ka hoʻopunipuni. No nā kaikamāhine, he moʻolelo kēia e hiki ai ke hōʻoia he maikaʻi ke noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kaʻoiaʻiʻo o ka hoa.