E makemake ana mākou a pau eʻike i kahi mea huna o ka hauʻoli . ʻOiaʻiʻo, he mau mākua kāne likeʻoe i noho pū me nā makahiki he nui, me nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i loaʻa i ko lākou ola.
Kākau, wehe!
I kēia mau lā, no laila, manaʻo nā kānaka he nui ka hauʻoli a me ka leʻaleʻa o kaʻohana. A ma hope iho o ka māmāʻana o ka mareʻana. No ka loaʻaʻole o ke kālā no ko lākou makemake. No ka mea, ponoʻoe e aʻo e pili pū me nā hana a kekahi mea'ē aʻe. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo kēlā me kēia punahele ma kāna iho. ʻIkeʻoe i ka hoa mai kēlāʻaoʻao, e hoʻomaopopo i nā hemahema a me nā mea liʻiliʻi e hoʻonāukiuki iāʻoe. A laila loaʻa iāʻoe nā keiki aʻaʻohe ikaika i koe. ʻAʻole pono ka pīʻani. Akā, nā poʻe a pau e nānā i kēia. ʻO ka nīnau, hiki iāʻoe ke pale aku?
No laila, he mea koʻikoʻi ke hilinaʻi i kāu kohoʻana, eʻike i ka hoa o kou hoa, e nānā i kāna hana ma nāʻano likeʻole, eʻike i nā hemahema a me ka mākaukau eʻae i ka meaʻoluʻoluʻole o kekahi i kekahi.
E pane noʻoe iho i ka nīnau - hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohana i kou ola a pau me kēia kanaka? E hiki anei iā ia ke hoʻolako iāʻoe a me kāu mau keiki, heʻoiaʻiʻoʻo ia, uaʻoluʻoluʻoe i konaʻano a me konaʻano? Ponoʻoe eʻike kokoke i nā mea a pau e pili ana i kāu mea i koho ai iʻoleʻoe e hōʻeha.
ʻO ka mea huna o ka hauʻoli wahine maoli e kauʻia ana ma ka ponoʻo ka wahine he wahine maikaʻi,ʻo ia kekahi makua aloha a me kāna hoa kūpaʻa.
Nāʻike o kaʻohanaʻoliʻoli
Ma hope o kēia mau'ōlelo maʻalahi,ʻaʻole e hiki ke wehe i ka hauʻoli o kaʻohana.
ʻO kaʻohana hauʻoli, ka mea huna o ka mua
Ke kūpaʻa. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo -ʻo ke kumu o ka mare ikaika, a pēlā mai ka manawa lōʻihi. No laila, e hoʻohui i kāu hopena, ponoʻoe e mālama pono i kāu hoa noho, hiki iāʻoe ke kūkākūkā me kēia mea āu e koho ai. A hoʻomanaʻo i kaʻahaʻole o ke kīʻaha kīʻaha.
ʻO ka lua o ka mea huna.
E mahalo i kāu wahine. Ināʻoe e huhū i ka hapa lua o kouʻuhane, e ho'āʻo e kamaʻilio kūkākūkā i ka pilikia ma kēia manawa - hiki i ka hōʻino ke lilo i mea ikaika i ka manawa. Eia kekahi, he mea nui e hiki ke loaʻa i kahi kuʻikahi. No laila, e ho'āʻo e hoʻohana i kēlā lā i kēia lā e like me kēia ka lā hope o kou ola, e mālama i kāu kanaka a aloha iā ia me kou naʻau a pau.
ʻO ka mea huna ke kolu.
Maiʻoki i ke aloha i ke ola. ʻO ka hakakā pinepineʻana i nā hakakā o ka home a me nā māhele. No laila,ʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi e hoʻokaʻawale i nā hana o ka home i ka hoʻomaka mua o ka pilina. Eia kekahi laʻana,'ā'ī ke kāne i ka'ōpala, a lawe ka wahine i ka lumi. Inā hana nā kāneʻelua, aia i nā mea a pau ke kuleana e hoʻomaha, e ho'āʻo e kōkua kekahi i kekahi. E nānā pū no nā hoʻoponopono - hiki i nā mea hana hou ke hoʻoponopono i kāu mau hoʻopaʻapaʻa a mālama i kāu mau kuleana. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, me ka loli hou o ke ola me kaʻole o ia, ua like mākou me ka limaʻole.
ʻO ka hāhāʻike.
E kākoʻo i ka wahine. Inā loaʻa iā ia kekahi pilikia i ka hana, aiaʻo ia i loko o kahi pilikia a iʻoleʻo ia wale nō kaʻano - e ho'āʻo e kākoʻo a hoʻomaha iā ia, e hāʻawi iā ia i kekahi'ōlelo aʻo nui a iʻole e hāʻawi iā ia i ke kōkua a ke aloha a hoʻolohe iā ia. A he pono kēia hana. ʻO ka mea hūnā o ka hauʻoliʻo kaʻohana maoli,ʻo ia ka manaʻo o kekahi kanaka ināʻaʻole hiki i konaʻohana keʻaʻa -ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻonāukiuki iā ia, ae hanaʻo ia i nā mea a pau e lilo ai ka mea i alohaʻia e ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli.
ʻO ka lima o ka mea huna.
Hana pū. I loko o kaʻohana, he mea nui i ka loaʻaʻana o nā mea like, nā māhele no nā kūkaʻikaʻi hoihoi. E ho'āʻo e hoʻolimalima i kahi manawa kū kaʻawale, hana i nā mea likeʻole aʻoluʻolu i ka hui pū kekahi. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe eʻae me kēia, no ke aha i kūkulu ai i kahiʻohana?
ʻO ke ono o kaʻike.
No ka pili. ʻO ka wahine kekahi o nā mea nui loa o ka olaʻana o kaʻohana, a he mea nui nō hoʻiʻaʻole e lawe maʻalahi. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ma kahi o ka manawa,ʻo ka pilina pili pono i waena o nā hoa kāne e lilo i mea nui a me nā mea maikaʻi, no laila, eʻaeʻole e ho'āʻo hou i kahi mea hou e hoʻololi i kāu ola wahine . E hauʻoli!