He aha e hāʻawi i ka makuahōnōwai wahine?

ʻAʻole hiki i ka nui o nā'onikalaʻumiʻumi e pili ana i ka pilina me kona makuahōnōwai wahine, akā,ʻo ia nō ka pili pili loa iāʻoe, a he meaʻoluʻolu ia i kekahi manawa i ka hōʻike. Me keʻano o ka pilina o ka pilina me ka makuahine, loaʻa iā mākou he mau manaʻo maikaʻi no nā makana e hiki ai iāʻoe ke leʻaleʻa i kou makuahōnōwai e pili ana a me waho.

He aha kaʻu e hāʻawi aku ai i koʻu makuahōnōwai wahine?

ʻO ka'ōlelo a kekahi,ʻo ka makuahine ka wahine,ʻo ia hoʻi ka mahalo i nā makana e pili ana i ka mālamaʻana iā lākou iho. ʻO kahi hāmama o ka wai a me nā mea holoi, ka meaʻala maikaʻi me ka meaʻalaʻoleʻole (ināʻaʻoleʻoe eʻike i nā koho hoʻohanohano o ka pilina), ka lole lole maʻemaʻe a me ke kāwele, nā mea hana e hoʻonani ai i ka honua a me nā kaki uila kahiko ka papa inoa o nā makana nui loa. Iʻole e'a'ā ma luna o ke kumuhana o ka makana, hiki i ka makuahine ke hāʻawi i nā meaʻoihana ma ka hāʻawiʻana iā ia i kahi hōʻike no ka heleʻana i ka lumi hoʻonani. E aʻo mai kāna wahine mai i nā pua nani e hāʻawi aku i kona makuahōnōwai wahine, a me ka makana, e hōʻike mai i kahi palapala hōʻailona maikaʻi.

Hiki i nā wāhine aloha i ka kuke ke hoʻomaopopo i ka maikaʻi o nā kīʻaha - kahi papa o nā papa nani, nā mīkini lima, nāʻokiʻoki a me nā aniani, a me nā pīpī kāpili, nā mea hōʻailona hānau.

ʻO ka lā hānau hānau mua no ka makuahōnōwai wahine he mea pena nani ia kiʻi o nā kiʻiʻohana, nā kiʻi oʻoe, kāu wahine a me kāu mau keiki ma ke kāʻei, kahiʻohana, a iʻole ka leka pilikino e hiki ai iā ia ke ho'ōla i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi loa i kona ola. ʻO ka makana maikaʻi loa a kahi makuahine e hahai i kona ola pono'ī he mokuahi, he multivarker, he kuhinu kukū, he koko , he kī nui keʻakeʻa (ināʻaʻole piha piha) aʻo kahi mea waiā. ʻAʻoleʻo ia ka mea lawelawe o ka umauma hou e waiho i kahi papa lole wīkeke, nā pads a me nā kākoʻo no ka wela, a me kahi papa hana kīʻaha i hoʻolakoʻia i nā hopena me ka hoʻohanaʻana i ka pūnaewele hou.

ʻO ka poʻe e mahalo ana a aloha i kaʻoluʻolu, eʻoluʻolu lākou i ka pāpale pālahalaha, kahi pale no ka hiamoeʻana, kahi hulina maikaʻi maikaʻi, kahi puʻupuʻu kukui, nā lole pahee a me ka lole moe.

Ināʻoluʻolu kou hoahānau i kahi māla a me ka mālaʻai,ʻo ka nīnau i ka mea e hāʻawi ai i ka makuahōnōwai wahine e nalowale wale iho: nā momona pua nani a me ke kuʻiʻiaʻana no lākou, nā kiʻi kālai lāʻau a me nā pūnāwai, nā mīkina, nāʻauwai wai, nā mokuahi a me nā pua no nā mea kanu aiʻole hiki ke maʻa i ka moa ʻoihana.