Loaʻa kāu mau hoaaloha e mare, a aiaʻoe i waena o ka mea i konoʻia? ʻOiaʻiʻo, eʻoluʻolu nā mea likeʻole i kēia poʻe, a ma ka kakaliʻana i nāʻahaʻaina hauʻoli, eʻike lākou i kahiʻino nui o nā manaʻo hauʻoli. Akā, aia kekahi mau kaikamahine i keʻano maoliʻaʻole lākou iʻike i ka mea eʻaʻahu ai.
ʻO ka mea eʻaʻahu no nā malihini?
Inā loaʻa iāʻoe kahi konoʻana i kaʻainaʻana a loaʻaʻoe iāʻoe ma waho o ka kiaʻi, mai hopohopoʻoe, e kiʻiʻoeʻaʻole i maʻalahi kaʻaʻahu. Inā hoʻomākaukauʻia nāʻahaʻaina male, ua hōʻikeʻia nāʻaʻahu hoʻokipa e ke kāʻei lole no nā mea malihini. I kēia kūlana,ʻaʻole pono ke kohoʻana i nā kapa i nā pilikia.
Ināʻaʻole i hoʻokomoʻia kaʻaʻahuʻaʻahu, a laila pono e alakaʻiʻia e ko lākou mau makemake a me ko lākou makemake. Akā me ka 'aʻe' ana i kekahi mau rula. No laila he aha kāu eʻaʻahu ai no ka maleʻana?
I nā kāne,ʻaʻole e kū i kēia nīnau. ʻO ke keʻokeʻo, ka mīkini ulaula, nā kāmaʻa poli - nā mea a pau, maikaʻi kona. Akā i ka mea e komo ai i ka wahine mare, e ho'āʻo mākou eʻike.
I ka hapanui o nā manawa, he mauʻaʻahu nani a me nā kapaʻaʻahu paha ia mau hana. ʻO ka malu o kaʻaʻahu e hiki ke lilo i kekahi mea, akā he mea pono e hoʻomaopopoʻanaʻaʻole pono ke keʻokeʻo. ʻO kēia kele no ka wahine mare wale nō. ʻOiaiʻeleʻeleʻole kaʻeleʻele, koe wale nō ka nani o kaʻaʻahu, ka guipure a me ke kapaʻili.
Ke kohoʻana i kahiʻaʻahu no ka heleʻana ma kaʻainaʻana, e hele ma mua o nā hiʻohiʻona'ōwili, me ke kaʻaahi a me ka nui o nā mea kiko'ī o ka hoʻoulu. Pono pono e hoʻopau loa i ka hohonu hohonu . ʻO ka lōʻihi, hiki ke liʻiliʻi, liʻiliʻi a maxi paha, ke hilinaʻi nei ia mea iāʻoe a ma nā hiʻohiʻona o kāu kiʻi.
Inā hoʻoholo ka poʻe kāne hou e mare,ʻaʻole pono e wehe. I loko o ka hale pule, he mea pono e lawe i kaʻaʻahu a me kaʻaʻahu.
ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻopauʻia kekahi kiʻi, ināʻaʻole e hoʻohālikelike ia me ka nani a me nā mea nani. Mai hoʻopau wale i ka mea iʻole e like me kahi lāʻau Kalikimaka.
ʻO kahi pahu piha, hui pūʻia me nā kāmaʻa a me nāʻaʻahu, e hoʻonui i nā manaʻo i kou pōmaikaʻi. E nānā aku i ka pahu pute - he mea kūpono ia no kēlā mau hanana.
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