Ka makaʻu i ka wahine

ʻO ke kōkua i ka poʻe e hoʻokokoke aku, e leʻaleʻa a hāʻawi aku i kā lākou hoa. ʻO ka pilina koʻikoʻiʻoi aʻe ma keʻano o ka seminal. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole ia he mea hūnā no ka mea e ola ke ola ma hope o ka maleʻana mai ka moʻolelo pilikino i maʻa mua iā mākou i kaʻikeʻana i loko o ka pana puana mai ka wā kamaliʻi mai. He mea nui ka mālamaʻana i ke aloha a me kaʻike ma waena o nā hoa noho me ka piliʻole i ka pilina pilikino he paʻakikī loa e hana. No ke aha e hopohopo ai i ka moekolohe (sexophobia) - ke kumuhana o kā mākou kūkāʻana i kēia lā.

"ʻAʻole au makemake,ʻaʻole wau e"

ʻO ka makaʻu i ka moe mua ma muli o ka meaʻikeʻoleʻia. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻololi i nāʻike kūpono. ʻO ka mea mua mai kēia hope mai he meaʻokoʻa loa. Hiki iāʻoe keʻike e pili i ka moekino a pau, akā, i ka wā e hele pololei mai ai i ka moekolohe, hiki i ka wahine (ma ka hapanui) ke lanakila i ka makaʻu. Aia nā kumu i kēia mau mea:

ʻO kaʻike o ka pilina pili mua e hana nui i ka hana o ka wahine ma hope. ʻO kēia phobia e like me ka hopohopo i ka wahine ke ala mai ma hope o kaʻikeʻole o ka male mua, a ma kēia mua aku e lawe mai nā pilikia i kou ola pono'ī.

Hiki ke hoʻopaʻa i ka makaʻu i ka wahine i ka manawa o ka manawa o ka wahine. Ka hānauʻana, ka hānauʻana a me ka hānau keiki - ka pilikia nui loa no ke kino a me ka psyche. Inā paʻakikī ka hānau, hopohopo ka wahine no kekahi manawaʻaʻole e hānau hou, akā, e hāʻawiʻia hoʻi i ke aloha i ka hauʻoli. Hikiʻole iā ia ke hōʻoluʻolu i ka manaʻo o ka moekolohe wale. ʻO kēia a pau,ʻoiai, ua hala ka manawa. Loaʻa wale ka manawa - e like nā mea a pau ma mua.

Aʻo kekahi kumu nui'ē aʻe, no ka mea he hopohopo i ka moekolohe, he maʻi i hoʻololiʻia , laweʻia i ka wahine. ʻO nā hopena maikaʻiʻole, hiki i ka lōʻihi a me ka ikaika o ka olakino hiki ke alakaʻi i ka sexophobia. ʻO ke aloha a me ka manaʻoʻiʻo i kāu hoa kōkua e kōkua iāʻoe e hōʻoki aku.