ʻO ka makuahōnōwai a me ka hūnōna wahine

Ua piha nā pūnaewele pūnaewele i nā hua'ōlelo e like me: "ʻO koʻu makuahōnōwai wahine he monster," a ma nā hui likeʻole,ʻaʻole e ho'ōki nā kaikamāhine i ka "holoiʻana i ko lākou mau iwi" me ko lākou "mau luahine." He hewa maoli paha ka kāne o Mama, a ua paʻa paha i ka paʻaʻana i ko mākou mau hoʻopunipuni e pili ana i ko kāua makuahōnōwai wahine? Eʻike i nā kumu no ka hopena o nā pilikia i ka pilina ma waena o ka makuahine a me ka hūnōna wahine a me ke kumu e likeʻole ai ka makuahōnōwai wahine i ka hūnōna wahine. E hoʻomaopopo i keʻano.

Hoʻokahiʻaoʻao o ka medal

No laila ua hālāwai lōʻihi kekahi me kekahi kanaka āu e kali nei i kou ola. Maanei lākou e'ākoakoa ai, e haʻalulu ai i ka umauma, i ka ihu, i nā hōʻailona, ​​i ka haʻihaʻi ... A mai hoʻopoina i ka lā i hoʻolilo aiʻo ia iāʻoe i mea noi e lilo i wahine nāna. ʻO ka manawa kēia e haʻi aku i kēia lono maikaʻi i nā mākua, akā he nui ka poʻe, ma mua, eʻike mua iā lākou. Hele mākou eʻike i nā mākua o kaʻu kāne ...

ʻO ka hauʻoli a me ka makemake nui e like me nā mākua o ka makua kāne i loko o kēlā me kēia wahine wahine. No ka makemake nui eʻoluʻolu i kona makuahine, mai hōʻino iā ia, no laila ua hoʻomaikaʻiʻo ia i kāna keiki no kāna koho. Akā no ke aha mākou e hana ai i kēia? Noʻoe iho,ʻo ia? A iʻoleʻole, ua hoʻohui ka hui i kēiaʻano o ka hana ma luna o mākou, me ka hopohopo i nāʻano hilinaʻi e like me ka makuahine o ka wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana e like me ka mea hoʻonaʻauao,ʻaʻole ia e hiamoe,ʻaʻole ia eʻai, akā e manaʻo ana he mea "hoʻoweliweli" iāʻoe ma kēia hōʻike. Me kēiaʻano o loko,ʻo kahi kaikamahine i hele ma luna o ka paepae o ka home makua o ka makua kāne, e hoʻopaʻiʻiaʻo ia e "nele", no ka mea, he mea likeʻole konaʻano mai keʻano maoli. Ma ka hua'ōlelo, e hōʻikeʻia ka hoʻopaʻi ma nā heluʻelua aʻo kēia ke kumu o ka hōʻoleʻole i nā mākua o ka mea aloha.

ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e "pale", no ka mea ua kohoʻiaʻoe, ua hilinaʻi ke kanaka iāʻoe,ʻo ia ke kumu i kono aiʻo ia iāʻoe i ka hale o kou makua kāne e'āpono iāʻoe, i ka hana nui a kāu wahine. ʻAʻoleʻo ia i noi i kaʻae mai kona mau mākua mai, ua hoʻoholo muaʻo ia i nā mea a pau. No laila, he mea'ē aʻe ke hōʻailona i kekahi mea aiʻole e hiki iāʻoe ke noho wale a mālama i nā poʻe i hāʻawi i ke ola i kahi āu e aloha nei.

ʻO kekahiʻaoʻao o ke kālā

ʻO ka aloha o ka makuahine no kāna keiki he ikaika maoli a hikiʻole ke make. He aha ka manaʻo o kekahi wahine,ʻaʻohe keiki nāna e pono ke kōkua a mālama iā ia? I kēia manawa i kona olaʻana he mea'ē aʻe a he mea nui loa iā ia he wahine - he wahine. Ma kēlā a me kēiaʻaoʻao, hiki i kekahi makuahine keʻike i ka nalowale, ke lili i ka hūnōna wahine a me ka hauʻoli. Mahalo i ka hauʻoli a me ka nohona maikaʻi o kāna keiki. ʻAʻole ka huhū a me ka huhū, akā, he kuleana paepae no kāna keiki,ʻo ia keʻano. ʻOiaiʻo ia ka makuahōnōwai wahine e alualu nei i ka pahuhopu e hōʻino ai i kāna hūnōna wahine,ʻo ia wale nō ka makemake e hoʻopaʻa i kāna keiki i nā lima pono a mālama. A mai kēiaʻano, e ulu ana i loko o kaʻohana a ke keiki,ʻo ka hana a ka makuahōnōwai wahine e pili ana i ka pilina me ka hūnōna wahine.

I ka manawa pinepine, hana hewa nā kāne i ka wā e haʻi aku ai i ko lākou makuahine i ka hopena o lākou i loko o nā manaʻo. Inā i loko o kou ola kekahi mauʻano like, pono e kamaʻilio i kāna kāne, i mālamaʻo ia i kona makuahine mai nā hōʻike kūponoʻole no nā pilikia o kouʻohana. Ua haʻiʻo ia a poinaʻo ia, no ka mea, aiaʻo ia ma kahi paepae, i nā manaʻo, akāʻo kona makuahine -ʻaʻole. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e poina i kāna'ōlelo, no ka mea ua "hanaʻino" kāna keiki, no laila e pono iā kāua e mālama iā ia. ʻO ka hopena, e hoʻopaʻiʻia ka hūnōna wahine e like me ke aʻoʻana a me ka hoʻopunipuniʻana, aʻo nā kumu o kona makuahōnōwai wahine e aloha ai i kāna hūnōna wahine e ho'ēmiʻia. Mai hoʻokaʻawaleʻia a kū'ē iā ka makuahōnōwai wahine, akā, makemake waleʻo ia eʻoliʻoli kāna keiki.

ʻAʻole hiki ke paneʻole nā ​​hakakāʻohana, no laila, he mea nui e puka i waho o ke kaua. E hoʻoholo i nā mea a pau i loko o kāu iho, no ka mea, heʻohanaʻoe. Nohea e makemake a makemake, aʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā mākua - no ke aha lākou e makemake ai i nā mea kaumaha, aʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka hiamoe ...

ʻOkoʻa ka makuahōnōwai wahine ...

E hoʻolālā -ʻaʻole he mau makuahine, a he likeʻole nā ​​wāhine. ʻAʻole i ka lehulehu kaʻike hoʻonaʻauao a me ka nohona kaiaulu. ʻO ke kūlana o ka makuahōnōwai i hana houʻia,ʻaʻole ia e hana i kekahi wahine'ē aʻe o ka wahine,ʻo iaʻo ia. Pēlā lākou i hānai ai, ae loaʻa iāʻoe. Ināʻaʻohe kanaka iʻike i nāʻano maikaʻi a'ōwili wale i kona ihu i nā mea e pili ana i nā mea'ē aʻe, a laila ināʻaʻole pahaʻo ia kāu hoaaloha, makuahine, makua kāne, a hoa paha. No laila, mai lawe i nā mea a pau no kāu uku pono'ī a hōʻehaʻoe iāʻoe ihoʻoʻoe ke kumu no ka lawaʻole o kāu mau makuahōnōwai wahine. ʻO ia ka mea aʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻololi. E hoʻololi maikaʻi i kouʻano e pili ana iā ia a me ke kūlana.

Ma lalo o kekahi hale ...

I kēia manawa, hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻoluʻolu me ka poʻe i loaʻa ka pōʻino weliweli o ka nohoʻana me nā mākua o ka wahine, a ke hōʻike nei i ko lākou mahalo i ka poʻe i hoʻopaʻa i ko lākou male. Akā no ka poʻe, no nā kumu likeʻole, ua koiʻia lākou e noho me nā mākua o kā lākou kāne, a ua hāʻawiʻia nā "'ōlelo aʻo no ka hoʻohana"ʻana:

E mahalo i kekahi me kekahi a mālama i kāu mea i aloha ai.