ʻO ka loina,ʻo ka piliʻole i ka nohoʻana o ka wahine ua aneane hiki ke ola, akā, aia a hiki i kēia manawa,ʻo nā kaikamāhine i hikiʻole i kekahi mau makahiki ke mareʻia (ʻo ka mea i piliʻole i ka wā lōʻihi) me ka poʻe'ōpio. Aʻo kēia inoa i hoʻohanohanoʻoleʻia,ʻaʻohe kūpono i ka hanohano, keʻike nei nā kānaka i kēiaʻaʻole maʻemaʻe a me ka pololei, akā,ʻoiai he kaikamahine palupalu a me kona kūponoʻole i ka olaʻana o kaʻohana. He mea weliweli loa ia i ka luahine wahine?
ʻO wai nā kaikamāhine kahiko?
I ka wā ma mua, he kaikamahineʻaʻole i male (a no laila ua mālamaʻo ia i ka virgin virgin physio) a hiki i ka 25 o ka makahiki i manaʻoʻia he kaikamahine puʻupaʻa. Ua alohaʻiaʻo ia e nā wāhine a pau i mareʻia, no ka mea,ʻo ka laweʻana i kēlā wahine he wahine kāne make wale ia, a no laila, ua halaʻo ia i ka wā i lilo aiʻo ia i mea uku. I kēia lā, kapaʻia nā kaikamāhine kahiko i ka poʻe i loaʻaʻole ka manawa e mare ai a loaʻa nā keiki i ka makahiki 30-35. He mea maopopo ia i kēia manawa, hiki ke kapaʻia ka luahine'ōpio i ka mea i loaʻa i nā mea moekolohe he nui,ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻo kaʻaoʻao physiological o ka pilikia ke hopohopo nui loa i ka hapū. Akā, ua hoʻopaʻi mauʻia nā wāhine i mareʻoleʻia me ka inoa inoaʻino. Ma muli o nā kaikamāhine a me ka noʻonoʻo, nohea e noho ai i kahiʻelemakule kahiko, a ho'āʻo e huki i kā lākou poʻe i loko o ke keʻena reikena. Aia kekahi mau poʻe e hele ana ma ka uku a hiki i ka 30 makahiki male. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka pilina, a ola mākou i ka hemoʻana i kekahi mau makahiki (aiʻoleʻo nā mahina), akā, ua'āponoʻia ke kīpili ma ka manamana lima. He maikaʻi no ka nui o nā mea i loaʻa i ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu, no ka mea, hiki i kaʻelemakule ke hele a pili i ka moekolohe, a ua mare, a ua hānau i nā keiki heʻelua. ʻO nā mea a pau e pili ana i keʻano loiloi o ka luahine, heʻano hōʻailona, he maʻi e pono aiʻoe ke kaua ināʻaʻole i nalowale kahi makemake e hoʻokipa i kaʻohana hauʻoli ma kahi'ē aʻe.
Hoʻonaʻauao o nā kaikamāhine
ʻO ka makahiki, kahi i manaʻoʻia ai kahi kaikamahine i mareʻoleʻia he kaikamahine'ōpio, he paʻakikī ke kapaʻana, no ka mea,ʻaʻole ia heʻano kūpono. Ke hoʻololi nei kekahi i ke alelo e kāhea aku i kahi wahine wahine kālepa maikaʻi a me ka wahine o 40-45 makahiki. Aʻaʻole i loko o ka physiology - he mau kaikamāhine he nui,ʻo ka lōʻihi o ka heleʻana me ka hewa halaʻole,ʻaʻohe kumu e hui pū ai me ke kiʻi o ka luahine. ʻO nā mea a pau e pili ana i keʻano, keʻano o ke olaʻana o ia wahine, aia nō ka mea i kapaʻia he maʻi o ka luahine. Hōʻikeʻia ma kahiʻano kūikawā i kekahi poʻe, ma keʻano o ka launaʻana. ʻO nā wāhine i kēia manawa he nui ke kūkākūkā nui, eʻakaʻaka i nā mea a pau e hiki ai iā lākou,ʻo ia hoʻi nā kāne. Ke hoʻomana nei lākou i ka wānanaʻana i ka hopena hopena o kā lākou mau hoaaloha a me nā meaʻike a me ka hauʻoli i ka wā e kō ai ka wānana. Ua hoihoi nui nā kaikamāhine i ka nohona pili pono o ke ola. ʻElua mau koho hiki ke kohoʻia: inā paha e kamaʻilio pinepine ana ka wahine i ka hala o ka pono, ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā pale, ka pūnaewele a me nā ponokala pilapila, aiʻoleʻo ia e like me ke kāne guru, e ho'āʻo ana e hāʻawi i kāna mau hoa kōkua ma kēiaʻaoʻao, eʻike i kaʻike mai nā puke wahine.
Pehea e nohoʻole ai i kahi kaikamahine kahiko?
Inā palekanaʻoe i ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo
Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e noʻonoʻo ponoʻoleʻoe ma muli o ka nele o ka hoa paʻa mau,ʻaʻoleʻoe e pono. ʻOiaʻiʻo, e nānā pono iāʻoe iho no nā hōʻailona o kahi luahine wahine, e puhi iā lākou me ka hao wela. ʻAʻoleʻoe e makemake e lilo i kahi'ā'ī keʻoki? No laila, mai hoʻopoina e hahai i kou helehelena, keʻano o ka kamaʻilioʻana me nā mea'ē aʻe. A mai makaʻuʻoe e pili me ka wahine'ē -ʻaʻole eʻehaʻoe i kēia pāʻani, keʻoleʻoe e ulu i loko o ka puke.