Keʻikeʻoe i nā manaʻo ikaika no ka mea i alohaʻia, makemakeʻo ia e hauʻoli mau i kekahi mea: e haʻi i nā mahalo nui, hāʻawi i nā makana a hana i nā mea mahalo. No laila, uaʻikeʻia ka hōʻailona o ka nui o nā manaʻo, a he waiwai ka hoʻololiʻana e pili ana i ka pae o ka pilina. I ka hoʻomakaʻana, uaʻoi aku ka hōʻailona ma mua o ke kūlana maʻamau, no ka mea, he mea pono ia i kēlā me kēia manawa e hauʻoli a pilihua kekahi i kekahi. A laila ua emi iho ka nui o ka ikaika, a ua hele mai ka hoʻomanaʻo o ka mea punahele i kekahi manawa. Akā,ʻaʻole e nalowale ka makemake e hauʻoli mau, e like me ke aloha .
He nui nā wāhine e noʻonoʻo nei pehea e leʻaleʻa ai i kā lākou kāne aloha, a pane pinepine aku iā ia mai ka manaʻo wahine. Akā,ʻaʻole kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka e like me ka'ōpiopio maikaʻi, kahi hoʻopiliʻana i ka piluna o ke poʻo, aiʻole ka waiʻauʻau pīpī me nā pua. ʻOiai, no ka holoiʻana, e lilo kēia koho i kāu mea makemake, inā e lanaʻo ia i kahi mea alohaʻole.
Ma mua o keʻoluʻolu i ke kāne?
Eʻike kākou i ka mea e hauʻoli ai ke kanaka:
- ʻO kahi meaʻai . Inā he makemake e kuke i kahiʻahaʻaina aloha no ke kāne, pono pono ke noʻonoʻo i kāna mea iʻoluʻolu ai. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke makemake i nā huamāmā a me ka huapalapala ice cream. Akā,ʻo ka puaʻa i'ūʻena i ka umu, kāpīpīʻia me nā mea kanu a me ka waiʻona - e makemakeʻia.
- ʻO ka ahiahi ahiahi . E kau i nā kukui i ka papaʻaina, e kū iʻelua mau aniani a me kahi hue waina. Hiki kahi wahine punahele i kahi kanaka ma kahiʻaʻahuʻaʻahu nani a me nā kāmaʻa, a laila eʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka hopena. Hiki ke hoʻonohonohoʻia nā ahiahi i nā lā mua o ka pilina. Akā ma hope o ka manawa pono e hoʻokomo i nāʻano likeʻole - e hoʻololi i ka pāpiina no ka waina, a me kaʻaʻahu ahiahi no kahi kahu hānai.
- Nā makana . Pono ke koho e kohoʻia ma muli o nā meaʻono, nā pono, a me nā manaʻo hoihoi. Inā makemake kekahi kanaka i ka pāʻani, aʻikeʻoe i kahi hui āna i komo ai, hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai i kahi mea pili e like me kāna makemake.
Pehea eʻoluʻolu ai i ke kanaka ma kahi moe?
E noʻonoʻo i nā koho he nui e hiki ai iāʻoe keʻoluʻolu i ke kanaka. Ma mua o keʻoluʻolu i ke kāne:
- E kau i ka lole lole nani . ʻO nā kāne e like me ke kīne, a me nāʻaʻahu me nā pale. Inā heʻeleʻele a heʻulaʻula nā lole. ʻO nā heli ma luna o ka mea aloha i hoʻopiha i ke kiʻi me ka moekolohe nui.
- Mai hoʻopau i ke kukui . Makemake nā kāne eʻike i nā mea a pau e hana ana. Hāʻawi nā kiʻi kiʻi iā lākou i ke kani a me ka maʻalahi.
- E noi i kāna mea e makemake ai . ʻO kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka i ka liʻiliʻi me nā manaʻo liʻiliʻi, makemake wau e unuhi i ka mea maoli.
- E neʻe . Makemake kahi kāne i ka hana a kāna hoa i ka wā o ka wahine .