Ma hope paha, lohe nā kaikamāhine a pau i ka leo hoʻokipa e pili ana i kahi kanaka ma ka kamaʻilioʻana o nā wāhine kahiko: "Ponoʻo ia e aʻo, he wahine akamai loaʻo ia." A i kēia manawa no ka manawa mua o kona olaʻana e noʻonoʻoʻo ia i ka pehea e lilo ai i kaikamahine maikaʻi. He aha ka manaʻo o "wahine akamai a noʻonoʻo", a aia kahiʻoihana e haʻi i keʻano e lilo ai i wahine akamai maoli - e kamaʻilio pū kākou no kēiaʻatikala.
Nā hiʻohiʻona e pili ana i nā wāhine
ʻO ke kumu o ka manaʻo wahine e piha piha i nāʻano hilinaʻi e hoʻomaka ai lākou e kū'ē i kekahi i kekahi. Hiki ke loaʻa kaʻoiaʻiʻo ma ka nānāʻana iā lākou aʻike i ka māhele o kaʻoiaʻiʻo i loko o kēlā me kēia.
Hōʻike i ka mua. ʻO ka pōʻino, heʻano akamai - kūkā, he naʻaupō
ʻAʻole e holomua ka wahine akamai me nā kāne -ʻo ia ka manaʻo nui o kēia māhele. ʻAʻoleʻo ia i keʻokeʻo,ʻo ia ke anu a me ka hauʻoli. He mea hōʻoluʻoluʻo ia, heʻaʻahu uliuli, heʻoluʻoluʻole i kona ola pono'ī. Aʻo ka mea nui,ʻaʻohe mea makemake. ʻO ka hōʻike hope loa e hōʻike ana i ke kumu o kēia kuhi maʻamau: mai ka papa o ka nui o nā kāne, e ana i ko lākou pono pono'ī ma ke kūkokoʻana. A ināʻaʻole pono kēia mau mea - pono e hoʻohewaʻia kēia mau wāhine akamaiʻole,ʻo lākou wale nō,ʻae.
ʻO ka mea e pōmaikaʻi ana i kēiaʻano koʻikoʻi: nā kānaka palekana me nāʻike haʻahaʻa.
Ke kuhi o ka lua:ʻaʻole e noho ka manaʻo wahine
ʻO ka helu o nā aphorisms ma kēia kumuhana he pauʻole. ʻO kahi kānalua naʻauʻau - e ho'āʻo e hōʻoiaʻaʻoleʻoe he moku o ka wao akua. Ua hōʻikeʻia ka haʻawina i kākauʻia e nā haumāna wahine i mau hoʻonaʻauao me nā haumāna'ōpio. Akā, i ka wā i ka manawa e aʻo ai ka mea aʻo ma mua o ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana i nā hana i loaʻa iā ia iho ka'ōmeʻa-kānalua i ka manaʻo wahine - ua hōʻike nā kaikamahine i nā hopena maikaʻi. I kekahiʻaoʻao'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole e paʻakikī ka loaʻaʻana o kaʻike e pili ana i nā wāhine akamai loa i hoʻonui i ke ola kanaka i loko o ka moʻolelo.
ʻO ka mea e pōmaikaʻi ana i kēiaʻano hiʻona: nā kānaka me nāʻike haʻahaʻa.
ʻO ke kolu o ka wahine:ʻo ka wahine wahine he akamai wahine
Aʻo ka wahine akamai,ʻo ia ke hūnā i kou manaʻo, eʻoluʻolu i nā kāne. ʻO ka wahine akamai a me ka naʻauaoʻaʻole loa eʻae i nā kānalua i ka mea nui loa o ke kanaka, ka mea naʻauao, ua hoʻoholoʻo ia i nā mea a pau a ua hanaʻo ia iā ia iho. ʻO ka wahine akamaiʻaʻole loa ia e hilinaʻi i kāna mau mea i hana ai,ʻo kona pono -ʻoʻoe! He hana naʻaupō loa ia, a laila e mihiʻo ia. ʻO ka wahine akamai e nānā pono iā ia iho: pono iā ia ke nani, ke aloha, ka mākaukau a hānai i nā manawa a pau o ke ao, a me ka mea e pale ai. Hiki wale i kahi kaikamahine maikaʻi a akamai ke lilo i ka maikaʻi - e mare mua, ae mālama i kaʻohana.
ʻO ka mea e pōmaikaʻi ana i kēia mau manaʻo: nā kānaka pilikino me nā kūlanaʻike.
ʻO ke kolu o ka stereotype e kākoʻoʻia e nā wāhine ma mua o kaʻelua. I loko o kēia māhele nā'ōlelo a nā mākua, nā mākuahine, nā kupunawahine - e hāʻawi i loko, e hoʻomanawanui, e lawe i nā mea hou, a koi aku i ka mea liʻiliʻi. ʻAʻole he mea kānalua - no nā kenekulia, uaʻaeʻole kēia wahine i ka wahine a me ka'ōpiopio, a ma kahi iki paha kahi kūlana pili e noho ai.
He aha ka manaʻo o ka wahine akamai?
E hoʻi kākou i ke kaikamahine eʻimi ana i ka pane i ka nīnau "pehea e lilo ai i wahine akamai." ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona, ua hoʻohemoʻia mākou,'ānō e nānā a puni i kaʻimiʻana i nā mea nani a me ka noʻonoʻo, a no laila hauʻoli, nā wāhine. A
No laila, pehea e lilo ai i wahine akamai: e noho me he wahine wahine holoʻokoʻa, aiʻole e huki i ka māhele wahine a me nā mea e pono ai ka manaʻo - e manaʻo ana e kapaʻia kēia he wahine akamai maoli? Hoʻonohonoho kēlā mea kēia mea nona iho.