No ke aha i honi ai ka'ā'ī?

Ua hoʻohanaʻia keʻano o nā moeʻuhane mai ka wā kahiko mai aʻaʻole hoʻi i kūponoʻole. Ma ka hoʻohanaʻana i kaʻike o ko mākou mau kūpuna, eʻike mākou i ka honi o ka'ā'ī, iʻikeʻia ma ka moeʻuhane,ʻo ia hoʻi.

ʻO ka manawa maʻamau ka honiʻana, a ma ka moeʻuhane hoʻi. A he mea maikaʻi loa ia. ʻO ka ihu i ka'ā'ī i ka moeʻuhane keʻike mau i ka aloha. Kūkākūkāʻo ia e pili ana i kahi pilina maikaʻi, ahonui i kekahi kanaka, a me ka paʻi pinepine paha. ʻO ka mea nui, he moe e pili ana i ka honi ma ka'ā'ī mai ke kanaka mai i ka hōʻoluʻolu i kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ia keʻano o ka hoʻopakeleʻana. He mea hiki paha i kēia mea ke manaʻo e hāʻawi i kēia kaikamahine i ka lima a me ka puʻuwai. E kūpono paha. A inā honiʻo ia iā ia, a laila, e hele anaʻo ia e hīmeni ma ka makemake o ka pilina pili .

No ke aha lā e honi ai ka'ā'ī o kaʻehaʻenemi?

Ināʻoe e honi i kaʻenemi ma ka moeʻuhane, a laila, e manaʻo houʻoe iā ia mai kahi'ē aʻe, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e lawe i nā mea e pale ai a hoʻohālikeʻoeʻaʻoleʻoe i kū'ē iā ia.

He aha ka manaʻo o ka honi ma ka'ā'ī i ka wā e kiss aiʻoe i kāu kāne?

ʻAʻole maikaʻi ia (ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo ke kāneʻaʻole heʻenemi) aʻo ia hoʻi,ʻaʻole lawa ka lokomaikaʻi i konaʻaoʻao. He mea maikaʻi i ka hōʻailona,ʻo ka wahine,ʻaʻoleʻo ia ka mea kuke-kahi kahu wahine-he wahine wahine, akā, he wahine maikaʻi hoʻiʻo ia ke aloha nui.

Aia kekahi manaʻo, ināʻike ka mea iʻike i ka moeʻuhane, e hālāwai kokeʻo ia i kona aloha, a inā i moeʻo ia i ka mea i hālāwai me kona aloha, a laila, e loaʻa iā ia ka pōmaikaʻi i ke ola.

E Mr. Freud, pono paha, he meaʻoleʻole ka haʻiʻana. A ua akāka loaʻo ia no ka mea. ʻO ia ke hiamoe e pili ana i kahi kāloti he moe kolohe, a laila honi, a ma ka'ā'ī hoʻi. Ua maopopo, no ka moekolohe,ʻaʻole i kekahi, akā, i ka wahine maikaʻi me ka mua.

ʻO kēia mau meaʻoluʻolu a pau (ʻoi aʻe a iʻoleʻole) mau ho'ākākaʻana mai nā mea kākau maikaʻi o nā puke moe. Aia nō, e like me nā manawa maʻamau, a me nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻO kekahi o nā mea unuhi'ōlelo no kekahi kumu no ke kumu o ke kū'ē, aʻo ka hapa nui o nā pilikia e kali ana i ka mea moeʻuhane, aʻo ka mea moeʻuhane hoʻi, i honiʻia e ka fan. Inā honiʻo ia me keʻano huhū,ʻo ia hoʻi, na kāna mau hoaaloha e kumakaia iā ia. A inā ua honiʻo ia me ka huhū, a lailaʻaʻole i kūpono: i kēia manawa,ʻo ka mea hoʻolaha nāna e kumakaia.

Akā, inā hāʻawiʻoe i ka honi i kekahi mea mai konaʻohana (makuahine, kaikuaʻana, kaikuaʻana, makuakāne, kupunawahine, kupuna kāne), a laila ua loaʻa ka luck : ma kaʻoihanaʻoi aku ka laka, aiʻole he mau hoaaloha maikaʻi paha, aiʻole he mau leʻaleʻa.