Pehea e wehewehe ai iāʻoe iho i ke aloha i ka wahine -ʻike nā mea a pau: no kēia mea e ponoʻoe e lawe i kahi'āpana nani, e kū ma kahi o nā kuli, e haʻi i nā hua'aneʻe a hāʻawi i nā pua. Eia nō naʻe, he nui nāʻano'ē aʻe, akā, ua manaʻoʻiaʻo ia ka "ʻoihana" loa. Akā, he aha ka wahine e hana ai? ʻO ka weheweheʻana o ke aloha i ke kanaka, he manawa paʻakikī kekahi manawa, no ka meaʻaʻohe kūlana.
E wehewehe i ke aloha i ka mea aloha
I kekahi manawa paʻakikī ka haʻiʻana i kou mau manaʻo i ke kanaka, akā, ināʻaʻoleʻoe i kekahi mea, koe wale nō kou manaʻo. Inā ua hoʻoholoʻoe e wehewehe iāʻoe iho i kahi kanaka āu i huiʻole ai me ia, e aho e hana ia i hīmei,ʻaʻole i'ōlelo pololei. E hoʻomanaʻo i kā Pushkin Tatiana mai "Eugene Onegin" i loaʻa i kona wā i wehe mua ai i kona mau manaʻo. Makemake pahaʻoe i ka hopena like. No laila, mai kākau i ka weheweheʻana o ke aloha i kekahi kanaka, aʻaʻole pahaʻo ia e pane mai iāʻoe.
He mea maʻalahi kēia: he poʻe hunona nā kānaka, a inā makemakeʻoe iā ia i ka mālamaʻana i ka pu'ū,ʻaʻole ia he mea e hāʻuleʻole ai kēia hoihoi ināʻoe e hōʻike i kou manaʻo. No laila, ma mua, e aho eʻaeʻole i ka pololei:
- "He meaʻono ia meʻoe"
- "He mea kupaianahaʻoe"
- "ʻAʻoleʻoe i launa pū meʻoe,
- "Ke aloha nei au i nā kānaka e like meʻoe."
Hōʻike kēia mau'ōlelo e hōʻoluʻoluʻoe, akāʻaʻoleʻoe e hōʻike i nā kāleka. I kēia kūlana,ʻo ka kohoʻoi loa kēia.
ʻO ka weheweheʻana o ke aloha i kāna kāne
E maʻalahi ka hōʻoiaʻana i nā manaʻo i kahi kanaka āu i pili ai, a inā paha ua haʻi muaʻo ia - a uaʻike pahaʻoe i kona manaʻo noʻoe a me ka'ōleloʻole. Inā he kanaka aloha kou kāne, e makemakeʻo ia i ka nani o ke aloha, āu e kākau ai ma kāu kiʻi maʻamau a kahakaha paha ma luna o ke kumu.
Inā kākauʻoe i ka mele, he manawa kūpono nui kēia e hōʻike ai i nā manaʻo ma keʻano hoʻokipa maikaʻi. Akā,ʻo ka weheweheʻana o ke aloha i ka hoʻolahaʻana eʻike nuiʻia ka nohona, a inā makaʻuʻoe i kāna paneʻana,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kohoʻana i kahi koho maʻamau.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, no ka hoʻomaopopo nuiʻana, ponoʻoe i ke kūlana maikaʻi - no ka laʻana, heʻahaʻaina aloha, he hele wāwae, he lā nui, he ahiahi i kahi cafe hauʻoli. E noʻonoʻo i nā kiko'ī - ināʻoe e hoʻonohonoho i ka ahiahi i ka home, hiki ke hoʻomālamalamaʻana, heʻano'ē aʻe iʻikeʻoleʻia, mele mele. Nui wale nā kaikamāhine e hoʻohilahila i ka hōʻoiaʻana i nā manaʻo - no ka mea, e hiki iāʻoe ke inu i ka hue waina.
ʻO ka nīnau nui loa ka'ōlelo? Ināʻoe i loko o ka pilina, hiki iāʻoe ke'ōlelo kūpono. E hoʻohui i kēia mau mahalo a mahalo i ka hopena!
ʻO ka weheweheʻana o ke aloha i kāna kāne
Ma ka maleʻana, he mea nui ka mālamaʻana i ka kamaʻilioʻana i ka pilina, aʻaʻole he ala maikaʻi e hana ai i kēia ma mua o kēlā me kēia manawa e hoʻomanaʻo i ka hoa o nā manaʻo. He mea nui loa kēia no nā kāne e hana ana a mālama i nā keiki i ka manawa kūpono.
Hoʻokuʻu i ka ahiahi mai nā hihia, e hoʻouna i nā keiki i ke kupunawahine a hele pū i ka haleʻaina. Eia kekahi, hiki iāʻoe ke hele i kahi kauhale kokoke kokoke
Inā makemakeʻoe e hōʻike i ke aloha i kahi ala mua, hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kahi pilikino o nā kiʻi maʻamau a kākau i kahi hōʻike i kēlā me kēia. A ināʻaʻoleʻoe he poʻe malihini i ka hoʻoponopono wikiōʻana ma ka hoʻohanaʻana i nā polokalamu maʻalahi e like me ka mea paʻi kiʻi kiʻi, e hiki iāʻoe ke hana i ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni a pau mai kāu mau kiʻi a me nā meleʻoluʻolu, a me keʻano o nā aloha o ka hopena. ʻO kēlā makana i hāʻawi muaʻia heʻoiaʻiʻo no kouʻohana a me ka hoʻomanaʻo mau iāʻoe i nā manawa maikaʻi o kou noho pūʻana.