ʻO ke kohoʻana i kahi makana no ke kanaka he mea paʻakikī, i kekahi manawa ka hanaʻeha no ka hapanui o mākou. ʻO ka mea mua, he kumu kēia i ka likeʻole o ka manaʻo nui o ka hapalua o ka lāhui. Akā, i ka manawa like, ua like nā kāne i nā makemake i nā haʻawina like me nā wahine, akā naʻeʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohui nui iā lākou. ʻO keʻano, heʻuʻuku lākou i ka noʻonoʻo a pinepine i ka hoʻomaluʻana i nāʻano like. No ka poʻe a pau i makemake, ma lalo nei e haʻi aku iā mākou kahi makana e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hana i kekahi kanaka i kona lā hānau aiʻole i kahi hoʻomaha'ē aʻe.
He aha kāu makana e hāʻawi aku i kahi kanaka?
Ke koho i kahi makana, hoʻomanaʻo ke kanaka i nā kumu he nui:
- he manawa no ka makana (ke kanaka a iʻole ka lehulehu);
- keʻano o ka pilina me ke kanaka (friend, friend, colleague, close or relative);
- nā makahiki o ke kanaka;
- nā pono a me nā makemake o ke kanaka.
ʻO nā mea kokoke loa, ua hāʻawiʻia nā makana nui, i ka lā nui o ka lā hānau, nā lā hoʻomaha o ka makahiki hou, a iʻole e pili ana i nā hanana nui i loko o ko lākou ola. Ma waena o kēia mau makana: nā mea nani, nā wati , nā meaʻala nui, kahi'ōnaehana hou a papa papa. Hiki i ke kanaka hoʻokipa , hiki iāʻoe ke koho: he mea kani - he synthesizer a he percussion, he kaʻa kaʻa - he mea kani leo lekiō aiʻole he DVR, he mea hoʻokipa o nā pāʻani kelepona -ʻo kahi helu kālā. Hiki i kahi kauā kauā ke lawe i kahiʻekeʻili no nā pepa, kahi pīkoʻa paʻa, a iʻole nā pūmole puna.
ʻO kahi makana i kāu kanaka aloha e pono loa. ʻAʻole pono ka kūʻaiʻana i kahi meaʻoi loa. He mea nui aku -ʻo ka laweʻana i kahi mea e leʻaleʻa ai i kāu mea i aloha ai i kona lā nui. E noʻonoʻo mua e pili ana i nā koho a pau, e hoʻomaopopo pono i nā makemake o ke kanaka, ka manaʻo i nā makana pili a me nā meaʻoluʻolu, iʻole e hoʻonāukiuki iā ia a me ia iho i ka lā nui.
No kekahi kanakaʻoluʻolu, he makana maikaʻiʻo ia ke kukui kukui i hoʻomākaukauʻia eʻoe, aiʻole i ka hala hope loa mai ka nohona. Ma keʻano he makana no kāu lā i ka lā a iʻole ka lā o nā mea aloha, e hoʻonohonoho i kahi kiʻi kiʻi me kahi kākau pilikino,ʻelua mau mīkini aiʻole nā mīni'ālohilohi no nā mea aloha.
ʻO ka waiwai nui loa i kāu kanaka aloha, i kekahiʻano, he mea a iʻole ka hopena i hanaʻia eʻoe. E kahakii i kahi kiʻi o kahi mea aloha, hoʻopaʻa iā ia i ka lole lole, e hana i kahi pilikino kiʻi pilikino mai kāu mau kiʻi aiʻole e hana i kahi pahu likeʻole o nā makemake. ʻO ka mea hope loa e mahaloʻia e kēlā me kēia kanaka, no ka mea, inā makemakeʻo ia e hoʻokōʻia ana kekahi makemake mai ka pahu a hiki i ka wā e holo ai.
Ma waena o nā makana kūʻokoʻa no kahi'ōpiopio e like me: nā kukui uila, ka hale hula, nā pūkohu nalu, puzzle-handle, ka mea hoʻokalakino, ka magic magic, i paʻa no nā mea liʻiliʻi, ka mea huli keychain-key. Melomanov e loaʻa i kahi mīkini pāʻani maʻamau, nā'ōpiopio'ōpiopio - he mīkini kamepiula i keʻano o kahi kaʻa a me ka papa uila me ka mālamalama, nā limahana o ke keʻena - kahi hamo no nā wāwae, a me kahi alakaʻi kūpono - he kāʻei no nā pili. E mahalo ana nā pake no ka mea kākau puka (hoʻoponopono i nā helu puka) a me ke aniani i keʻano o ke kīʻaha.
Pono ka mea hele e pono i kahi piluna no ka'ā'ī, kahi hāmeʻa thermo a me ka lula lā. Hiki i ka mea hoʻolimalima ke hōʻike i kahi mea aʻo lima lima a iʻole ka pae pale no ka home. E makemake ana ke kanaka makamae i kahi pakuhiʻekolu-ʻole, kahi hiki iāʻoe ke huki i nā mea nuiʻekolu i ka lewa.
ʻO ka makana kaiaulu āpau no ke kanaka he mea kelepona a me nā mea kelepona. Eia kekahi laʻana, nā pepeiao pepeiao, nā leka uila, nā mea'ōlelo, nāʻiole pili, nā meaʻikepili a me nā peʻa laptop. Hiki i nā poʻe pāʻani pāʻani ke koho i kahi hoʻonohonoho no ka poker, ka pāʻani pīpeka a iʻole ka golf, kahi mafia kaulana a iʻole ke aloha lele. ʻO ka mea nui - e nānā pono i ka kohoʻana o ka makana a hāʻawi iā ia me ka manaʻo nui, a laila e hoʻomanaʻoʻia ka makana e ke kanaka no ka wā lōʻihi.