Ua hakakā nā wāhine no kā lākou mau kuleana no nā kenekulia he nui. No ka pono o ke kaulike, keʻike nei mākou ua loaʻa iā lākou. Akā, me nā kuleana, ua loaʻa iā lākou he mau manawa'ē aʻe'ē aʻe. I kēia manawa, mai nā wāhine a me nā kaikamāhine, ka hana i loko o kekahi hale aʻaʻole wale nā hihia wale nō i hoʻomaka e hele pinepine aku. Eia kekahi,ʻaʻole e kahaha kekahi i ke kūlana i ka manawa e hāʻawiʻia ai kekahi mea hōʻike male kūpono i ke kāne i male. Akā, ma kēiaʻano he nui nā nīnau a ke kaikamahine,ʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻike pehea e hāʻawi ai i ke kanaka e hui. ʻO ka nui o ka nuiʻana o ka poʻe kāne i ka hana pinepine,ʻoi aku ka waiwai o lākou ma kēia wahi. I nā kūlana nui, e kōkua mau ko lākou makua kāne iā lākou i nā'ōlelo aʻo. A he aha ke kaikamahine e hana ai? Ia wai iā ia e huli ai? ʻAʻole hiki i ka mama ma kekahiʻano likeʻole ke kōkua, mai ka wā'ōpiopio mai, he mau mea kūpono loa kēia. ʻO ia ka mea i hōʻehaʻeha i ka kaikamahine e noʻonoʻo ai e kono i ke kanaka me ka nani a me ke konoʻole e hālāwai ai, a pehea paha e hana aiʻo ia i hāʻawi aku iā ia. E ho'āʻo mākou e kōkua i kēia pilikia.
Pehea e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hāʻawi aku i kahi kanaka e hui?
Inā loaʻa iāʻoe ka manaʻo wela no kahi'ōpio, akāʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i keʻano e hana ai i nā ala mua i mua ona, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke hahai i kā mākou algorithm.
No ka hoʻomaka, pono eʻike ke kaikamahine i ka mea i konoʻole ai ke kanaka iā ia e hui. Hiki i nā kumu ke nui, e like me ke kūpono, a me nā koho no ka hoʻonuiʻana i nā hanana.
ʻO ka kumu mua loa e hana paʻa ana ke kanaka me kekahi kaikamahine'ē aʻe. I kēlā manawa, hiki iāʻoe ke ho'āʻo e pale aku, akā, pehea ka pōmaikaʻi i kāu hana,ʻike paha,ʻo ia wale nō ke kanaka.
ʻO ka kumuʻelua,ʻaʻoleʻoe e pili iā ia. ʻAʻole,ʻaʻohe mea i'ōlelo he mea maʻalahi aʻaʻole i maopopo ia kou manaʻo. Akā, ma kēiaʻano,ʻaʻole i pau nā mea a pau. I kēia lā,ʻaʻoleʻoe e pili iā ia, aʻapōpō hiki iā ia ke makemake nui iāʻoe. Aʻo kāu hanaʻana,ʻo ia ka hōʻoia eʻikeʻo ia i ka mea hiki e pili ana i kou mauʻano maikaʻi.
A o ke kolu o kona kumu he hilahila. Ma kēia hihia,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi iāʻoe e hana, no ka makemake maoli o ke kanaka e hālāwai meʻoe, akāʻaʻoleʻo ia eʻaʻa e hōʻike i ka manaʻo. No laila, aia nā mea a pau i loko o kou lima, kono iā ia e hālāwai me ia iho, akā i ka manawa likeʻole,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e'ōlelo hōʻoia, hōʻeha paha i ke kanaka e makaʻu.
I kēia manawa, e hāʻawi mākou i nāʻano pehea e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hāʻawi aku i kahi mea e hui ai.
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- Ināʻaʻole āu mau hoaaloha e hiki ke hoʻokō i kahi misionariʻoi aku, a laila e hele mai nā leka uila a me nā pepa e kōkua iāʻoe. A ināʻo ka ihu o Valentine's Day, hiki i kēia hanana e maʻalahi ai kāuʻike. Kūʻaiʻoe i kahi valentine, aiʻoleʻoe e hana iāʻoe iho, e hōʻailona a hoʻouna. Inā he leʻaleʻa ka manaʻo o kekahi kanaka iāʻoe, a laila e hoʻomaopopoʻo ia i kou hōʻailona ma ia manawa. Akā, e noʻonoʻoʻoe, no ka mea, i kēlā lā,ʻaʻoleʻoe e lilo i mea e hoʻopuni ai i ka puʻuwai o kou aliʻi.