Keʻikeʻia kahi keiki ma kaʻohana, e hoʻololi nui ke ola. Hiki iāʻoe keʻike i kēia ma ka nānā 'ana i kēia koho koho'oniʻoli.
Ma ke ola o kekahi kanaka nui nā hanana i hiki ke hoʻololi maoli. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki iāʻoe ke lawe i ke kulanui a iʻole e hele e hana, e mare a pēlā aku. Ma ka manawa like, e like me ke koho,ʻaʻole e hoʻololi iki i ke ola o kekahi kanaka, e like me ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki. Uaʻikeʻia kēia mea e kekahi makua kāne hou i kapaʻiaʻo Michael Giulianell, nāna i hoʻoikaika i nā mākua'ē aʻe i kāna mau hiʻohiʻona e hōʻike i nāʻano o ka neʻeʻana o ko lākou ola maʻamau ma hope o ke keiki i loko o ko lākouʻohana. Laweʻo ia i kahi blog kahi i hāʻawi aiʻo ia i nā kiʻi pilikino, makemake e haʻi aku i kāna mea hoʻonani a hōʻike i ka hoʻoikaikaʻana i nā mākua i ka pilikia i ka hānaiʻana i kā lākou mau keiki.
1. Ma mua, aia nā mea a pau ma kou wāwae, a aia ke kaikamahine e noho nei ma luna o kona poʻo me ka hilahila ole.
2.ʻAʻohe mea makemake e kaʻana aku i kā lākou meaʻai, ināʻo kāu keiki pono'ī nō.
3. Mai ka nani maikaʻi i ka minute e huliʻoe i makuahine hānai o nā māhoe.
4. He mau mākuaʻaʻole i haʻalele i kā lākou mau mea maʻamau a hoʻokomo i kā lākou mau keiki i loko o ia mau mea.
5.ʻO nā kaumaha o ka'ōlohelohe o ke keiki ma kaʻohana pili i nā mākua wale nō, akā, nā meaʻai pū kekahi.
6. I ka wā he makuaʻoe,ʻaʻohe manawa e noho ai me ka leoʻole aʻoliʻoli i ka waina maikaʻi.
7. Karmic boomerang: ma mua o kou paleʻana i ka hope o nā mea'ē aʻe, a holo nei i luna ou.
8. He kūlohelohe no nā mākua ka hoʻolāʻauʻana ma hope, a ua hoʻohanaʻia nā minuke a pau no ka hiamoeʻana.
9.ʻO ka minoʻaka a me ka lama i kona mau maka, aia wale nō ma nā kiʻi mai ka wā i hala.
10. Inā ma muaʻoe he wahaheʻe, i kēia manawa he kanaka maoliʻoe.