He meaʻakaʻaka nui ka makemake o nā kaikamāhine he nui e like me ke kiʻi maikaʻi a iʻole ka mea hiki ke "hana i nā maka" i ka wahine. Aʻo nā mea a pau no kaʻakaʻaka nani no ke kaikamahine, he ala ia e hoʻokipa ai i ke kanaka eʻoi aku ana kaʻoihana-ʻoiʻole ma mua o ka nānāʻana i nā hiʻohiʻona. Akāʻo ka pilikia,ʻaʻole iʻike nā wāhine a pau i kaʻakaʻakaʻana i ka nani. Hoʻohenehene kekahi me ka leo nui, he kanaka maʻalahi ke kanaka, he meaʻakaʻaka kekahi i kaʻakaʻaka a iʻole ka nalu a puni. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, heʻokoʻa ka akaakaʻoiaʻiʻo, akā pono nā kamaliʻi e hana i loko o lākou iho, no laila,ʻaʻole wale kaʻoiaʻiʻo o kā lākouʻakaʻaka, akā, he nani hoʻi. ʻAʻole ia he meaʻole ke hoʻoheneheneʻia kekahi kaikamahine i ka'ōhumu o ke kahawai a iʻole ke kaniʻana o nā bele gula. Pēlā. E nānā hou aku i ka pehea e hiki ai iāʻoe keʻakaʻaka i ka nani, ke noho mau nei i ka hoʻomaopopo i kou mau manaʻo.
Pehea eʻakaʻaka ai i kaʻakaʻaka?
Malia paha,ʻo ka mea paʻakikī ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i ka nani o kouʻakaʻaka. Ma hope aʻe, i ka manawa e hoʻomaka aiʻoe e hoʻolohe i kāuʻakaʻaka aiʻoleʻoe e hoʻoholo eʻakaʻaka i mua o ke aniani, ua hala koke kaʻoiaʻiʻo, aʻo kaʻakaʻaka henehene he meaʻole. No laila, hiki iāʻoe ke noi i ka'ōlelo aʻo mai kou hoaaloha maikaʻi, e hoʻoikaika ana i kāna pane e pono. A i ka manawa e hālāwai ai me nā hoaaloha ma kāna lumi e hūnā i kahi kamepiula vidio a hoʻopaʻa i kēia hālāwai, a laila e nānā i ka hoʻopaʻaʻana a loiloi i kāuʻakaʻaka.
Inā hikiʻoe i ka hopena e hoʻololi hou ana kāuʻakaʻaka, eia kekahi mau'ōlelo aʻo e kōkua iāʻoe e aʻo eʻakaʻaka i kaʻakaʻaka:
- Eʻike i kāu hiʻona o kaʻakaʻaka maikaʻi. Hiki iāʻoe ke nānā aku i kahi mea wahine e makemake aiʻoe. ʻO ka leka hoʻomaopopo, ma kaʻakaʻaka kilokilo he kūpono mau, no laila he mea e pono ai ke aʻoʻana.
- E aʻo i kaʻakaʻaka kokoke i ke kiko. Malia paha, no ka manawa mua o kaʻakaʻaka e hele ai i mea e hōʻeuʻeu a me ke aloha ole, akā, e hoʻohana pahaʻoe, no ka mea hiki iāʻoe ke maopopo i keʻano o kou nānāʻana, i kouʻakaʻaka a me ka pehea eʻakaʻaka ai.
- Mai wehe i kou waha i ka wa eʻakaʻaka ana, e hōʻike ana i kou mau niho a pau.
He maikaʻi keʻakaʻaka, aʻakaʻakaʻakaʻaka - ua kapaʻia kēia heʻakaʻaka wahine. A inā paha eʻakaʻaka kouʻakaʻaka, hikiʻole iāʻoe ke kūmākena e like me ka lio. - E mālama i nāʻano leo likeʻole e hāʻule ai nā mea he nui i ka wā eʻakaʻaka ai: ka'ūlū, ka uila, a me nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻAʻole lākou e hāʻawi i ka laʻa hoʻohenehene.
- Mai paʻi i kou mau lima, mai kīkē i kou mau lima ma kou mau kuli, mai hoʻoleiʻoe i kou poʻo -ʻo kēia wale nō nā hana kāne kāne a nā kaikamāhine i kūponoʻole.
- A mai poina i ka mea mua a me ka mua, he pono keʻakaʻaka, heʻoiaʻiʻo -ʻo kēia ka mea nui loa e hāʻawi ai i ka laka.
