Nui ka nui o nā wāhine e haʻalulu nei a he haʻalulu paha i nā kāne. ʻO ke kumu o nā manaʻo'aloiho he mea ia eʻike ai i ka maikaʻi o kona moeʻana. He mea nui e hoʻomaopopo he nui nāʻano e hiki ai i nā wahine hānai nani keʻike i kaʻike o kā lākou hoa i ka moekolohe. A no ka poʻe e pili nui ana i kēia paʻi, eia nā hōʻailona 5 o ka mea maikaʻi a me ka hewaʻole.
Nā hōʻailona o kahi mea alohaʻole
No laila, ke hoʻolako nei mākou no kāuʻike i kahi papa inoa e hōʻike ponoʻole ai i ka meaʻole i Kazanova, kahi e hiki ai iā ia keʻaeʻa i nā hōʻailona o ka mea lanakila o nā naʻau o nā wāhine, a he meaʻano'ē paha,ʻo ia nā kino.
- ʻAʻoleʻo ia e like me ka manaʻo, phlegmatic,ʻo ka paʻiʻanaʻole o kona pāʻani iāʻoe i ka hāʻawiʻana i kahi haʻahaʻa. Akā ma hope o nā mea a pau, e paʻi ma ka mua, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i keʻano hoihoi o ke kanaka. Pono ke kūlike o ka kino, e like me ka mea iʻikeʻia, i mea e hoʻokuʻu ai, e ho'āla i ka mea aloha. No laila, inā eʻaeʻo ia i ka piliʻana i kāu mau lā, e hōʻike ana kēiaʻaʻoleʻo ia i maikaʻi loa i ke aloha i ka hauʻoli. E hoʻomanaʻo: he kanaka maoli e hana i nā mea a pau āu e makemake ai iā ia.
- ʻAʻohe haʻahaʻa a me ka ikaika. Ināʻaʻohe kanaka iʻike i keʻano o ka haʻalulu,ʻoluʻolu ke nānā aku. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e hoʻolana i nā manaolana no kona akamai i nā mea akamai. ʻO ia,ʻoluʻolu, e lilo i hoʻokahiʻaoʻao aʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻonui i nāʻano o ka pāʻani hoʻonani i kahi moe. ʻO kahi kanaka hauʻoli a naʻaupō wale nō e hiki ke hoʻopiʻi i ke kūlana, a no laila, e kahakiʻi i kou manaʻo.
- Ua hopohopo nui ke kanaka no kona helehelena. Inā kūkā waleʻo ia e pili ana iā ia iho a i konaʻano paha, he hōʻailona hoʻi kēia ma ka moe e hikiʻole iā ia ke hōʻike i konaʻano, e hoʻokomo iāʻoe i loko o ka honua o ka leʻaleʻa a me kaʻoliʻoli. ʻO ke kanaka i ukali iā ia iho, he maikaʻi, akā, he kūpono wale nō. E nānā anaʻo ia i kona helehelena,ʻaʻoleʻoe,ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻike ana i ka piliʻana o ka wahine me ia i kona mau pono iho,ʻaʻole iāʻoe. ʻO ka mea nui, ka wahine me ka wahine wahine,'ōlelo,ʻaʻoleʻo ia ka meaʻoi loa.
- Ke huli nei a me ka wikiwiki i kēia hana. Inā "wikiwiki" ka hoa hana a makemakeʻo ia e hana i ke aloha i kēia manawa, a laila ua nui ka loaʻaʻana o konaʻano pilina. No laila, i ka manawa e kali ai kahi mea aloha iāʻoe i kēlā manawa, e noi aku iā ia a noi aku iā ia e noho pū me ia. Uaʻikeʻo ia eʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o kona kaliʻana,ʻo ka momona ka makana.
- ʻAʻoleʻo ia e honi maikaʻi. E manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu, kokoke i ka hōʻailona nui loa o ka mea aloha alohaʻole ka hikiʻole ke honi. Inā makemakeʻole ke kanaka iā ia me ka honi maikaʻi iāʻoe, a laila, ma nāʻano'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole maikaʻiʻo ia aʻaʻoleʻoe e lilo iāʻoe iho i nā manaʻolana lapuwale. 'Ōlelo ka honi i nā mea a pau.
E hui me Kazanov
A he 5 mau hoailona o kahi mea aloha loa:
- He kanaka wiwoʻoleʻo ia aʻaʻoleʻo ia e kaena. Inā hoʻokūpilikiʻi kekahi kanaka me ka hīmeni moe moe,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka'ākau a me ka hema, e hōʻike ana i kona mau akamai. ʻAʻoleʻo ia he kanaka kūʻokoʻa e kaena ana no kāna moekoloheʻana,ʻaʻole ia e hoʻohālike iāʻoe i kekahi poʻe'ē aʻe, akāʻikeʻoe i nā mea a pau e like me nā mea i hala. He nani loa kēlāʻano kāne, e hoʻoheneheneʻoe, e manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu.
- ʻO nā maka a me nā maka. ʻO kaʻike maka i ka pilina, he mea nui ka hula. ʻO ia ka hiʻohiʻona o ka mea lanakila o kou puʻuwai, i kekahi manawa, hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i kaʻoiaʻiʻo maoli noʻoe. Ke'ōlelo nei kēia manawa kuhi. No laila e noʻonoʻo i ka nānāʻana o kou hoa iāʻoe. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻike kaʻike i kāna hōʻike pono'ī ma kahi moe.
- Keʻano o ke kino e like me keʻano pilikino. Hiki i ke kino o ke kino ke'ōlelo nui loa e pili ana i kona hilinaʻi ia ia iho aiʻole i ka hopohopo, i ka kānalua a me ka hōʻailona. ʻO ke aloha aloha iā ia iho e hōʻike iāʻoe i kēia ma ka hana a me nā hiʻohiʻona . He mea paʻakikīʻole kaʻikeʻana i nā hōʻailonaʻano'ē aʻe o ke kino (pehea e paʻa aiʻo ia i kona mau lima, pehea e hoʻopā aiʻo ia iāʻoe, pehea e kulou ai, e hawanawana i kekahi meaʻono i kou pepeiao). Hiki i kēia a pau ke kuhikuhi i kahi hōʻailona o kahi mea aloha.
- He hoʻomanawanuiʻo ia a hehena.
ʻIke kēlā kanaka i ka hoʻonāʻana i ke aloha a hana i kēia mau hana me ka mālie, me ka mālie, eʻoluʻolu iāʻoe i kēlā me kēia manawa o ka hoʻolimalima manawa me ia. E hoʻoikaikaʻo ia iāʻoe e lilo i mea makemake iā ia ae wikiwiki i ka holomua o nā hanana. ʻAʻole kēia he mea kānalua. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo ke kuko wale nō i kēlā kanaka ke kī. - Hoʻokipa hou. ʻO ke kiʻekiʻe ke aloha, ka lalo i nā honi. Penei hou mākou e'ōlelo hou ai: honi nui nā kisses no ke kanaka. Inā nui nā honi, e hoʻokaumaha i kou puʻuwai i ka wikiwiki, a kuʻi nā kuli - ua hōʻike kēia he mea maikaʻi loa kāu hoaaloha a hāʻawi aku iāʻoe i ka hauʻoli nui.