Ma ka moeʻuhane me kahi kanaka e hiki ke loaʻa i ka mea maʻamau, a ma kekahi manawa kekahi mea nui. ʻO ka manawa pinepine he hālāwai me nā mea aloha a me nā hoaaloha kahiko i loaʻa kahi waiwai. No ka loaʻaʻana o ka wehewehe pololei loa e pono e noʻonoʻo ponoʻole i ka mea kumu wale nō, akā, i nā mea'ē aʻe a pau, a me ka kaumaha o ka naʻau.
He aha ka moeʻuhane mua?
Inā uaʻikeʻoe i kekahi hoaaloha mai ka wā i hala, inā paha no ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, makemakeʻo ia i kōkua, a hiki iāʻoe ke uku aku. ʻO kaʻike o ka pō, e pili ana i kahi kumu mua a haumāna paha, he hōʻailona no ka ponoʻole. Hiki iā ia keʻimi i kahi hālāwai me kahi kanaka hoihoi. Ināʻikeʻoe i kekahi hoa hana mua, a laila, e pili anaʻoe i ka manawa e hoʻolālā ai me kahi poʻe o ka wā kahiko. ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahiʻoihana mua iʻikeʻia he hōʻailona o ka huiʻana me kekahi kanaka hewa. ʻO ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana mai kahi kanaka mai ka wā i hala aku nei he hōʻailona ia o ka hoʻomakaʻana o kahi wā hou. ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoneʻe i kahi wā hou.
No ke aha i hiamoe ai ke kanaka i aloha muaʻia?
Ināʻoe i launa pū me kahi mea aloha wale nō, a laila,ʻikeʻia nā hihiʻo o ka pō i kekahi manawa kūponoʻole, no ka mea,ʻaʻole i hala mua nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo. He mea hoʻohālikelike moe, ka mea iʻike muaʻia e ka meaʻona lama, e kuhikuhi ana he hōʻehaʻo ia a makemake e hoʻihoʻi i ka pilina . Kissing a kekahi hoa ma mua i loko o ka moeʻuhane keʻanoʻoe e kali nei i kekahi mea e kahaha ai. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka pilina pili me kekahi kanaka mua i'ōlelo mua e pili ana i ka hoʻomau houʻana i nā kūlana hakakā o mua. Inā he mau mīkaʻu kekahi ma mua, ponoʻoe e manaʻo i nā pilikia he nui i ke ola. ʻO ka hihiʻo pō, kahi kahi a ke kanaka aloha aloha e kau nei iāʻoe, e wānana ana i ka puka o nā mea kupanaha, a he mea maikaʻi paha paha.
No ke aha i hiamoe ai kahi kāne aloha mua?
Ināʻoe e hakakā ana me ka wahine ex-hoa, he mea maʻamau ia no ka hoʻololiʻana i ka ola no ka maikaʻi. ʻO ka moe, kahi i hoʻi hou aiʻoe me kahi kāne aloha mua, wānanaʻoe i kahiʻike hou, akā e pau ia noʻoe me ka nele. ʻO ke kāne mua ke moe mau nei,ʻo ia hoʻi, ma ke ola he nui nā mea i pauʻole. Inā kāhea ka wahine mua ma ka moeʻuhane - he hōʻailona kēia o kaʻike aia heʻano o ka pilina ma waena oʻoe. Aʻike i keʻano o ka mareʻana o kekahi wahine aloha i kekahi wahine hou, a laila, e kala koke anaʻoe iā ia. ʻO ka make o ka wahine mua ma mua he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia e'ōlelo nei i ka maluhia a me ka nohona maikaʻi i loko o kaʻohana.