I kekahi manawa, hanaʻia nā mīharo kupaianaha,ʻaʻole hiki ke maʻalahi ka hoʻomaopopo; no ka laʻana, he paʻakikī ke hoʻomaopopo i nā'ōmaʻomaʻo'ōmaʻa hou.
Pehea e hoʻohanaʻia ai kēia moe?
I loko o nā puke moemoea, ua mālama nuiʻia kēia māhele, akā, ma keʻano he kūlana, hoʻololi lākou i hoʻokahi - he moeʻuhane maikaʻi ia:
- ua manaʻoʻia ua hōʻike ka moeʻuhane i ke olakino maikaʻi loa, a inā i moe ke kukoma i ka mea maʻi, a laila e ola kokeʻo ia;
- hiki keʻikeʻia he hōʻailona maikaʻi, e hoʻomaopopo ana i nā hanana maikaʻi e hiki ai i kahi manawa pōkole;
- Manaʻo lākou i kaʻikeʻana i nā kukama ma ka moeʻuhane no ka holomua o kaʻoihana nui i hoʻomakaʻia aiʻole i ka hopena maikaʻi.
He nui ka poʻe hōʻuluʻulu i nā puke moe, e wehewehe ana i nā kukama'ōmaʻa hou e moeʻuhane nei no ka wahine, ke'ōlelo neiʻo ia moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kona hōʻehaʻeha moe kolohe a me kahi makemake huna no ka pilina me ke kanaka.
Aia kekahi mau ho'ākākaʻokoʻa: ua manaʻo nā mea kākau i kekahi mau moeʻuhane eʻikeʻia ana nā kukama i loko o ka moeʻuhane, e hoʻomaopopo i ka hopena a me nā pilikia e pili ana i ka hōʻailonaʻana o nā malihini e hiki koke mai ma ka puka. Manaʻo kekahi e hoʻolaha lākou i nā manaʻolana nele no ka hoʻoholoʻana i nā pilikia.
He aha ka hana o ka'ōmaʻa'ōmaʻomaʻo hou me kahi kaikamahine?
ʻO ka hapanui o nā mea hōʻailona o ka moeʻuhane eʻae like me ka moeʻana i kēlā moeʻuhane, ma kekahi mauʻano, ka piʻiʻana o ka nui o nā mea mahalo, a me nā mea'ē aʻe - heʻike mua a me ka mareʻana.
ʻO ka poʻe Lunamaka'āinana o ka hapalua o ka moe e hāpai i ka pōmaikaʻi i kaʻoihana, ke olakino maikaʻi, nā hopena hoʻopau maikaʻi.
Ināʻoe eʻohi i nā kukama ...
Ke hanaʻia neiʻaʻole wale ka kukama, no laila, ke moeʻuhane nei, akāʻo kaʻohiʻana i kā lākouʻai. I kēiaʻano, e nānā i ka nui o nā nuances e pili ana i ka unuhi,ʻo ia mau moeʻuhane e hōʻiliʻili i nā kukama'ōmaʻomaʻo hou. He mea nui keʻano o ka kukumba i moe:
- manaʻo kekahi kekahi eʻohi ana i nā kukama hou, akā'ōmaʻomaʻo - i ka mea liʻiliʻi, akā i nā pilikia maikaʻi;
- ʻO ka poʻe i ke au o kaʻohiʻana i ka'ōlelo kūkō he kūlana lōʻihi aʻelemakule me ke olakino maikaʻi;
- he mau kukama hou e like me keʻano o nā'ōleloʻano kūlohelohe e hiki koke mai ana i mea e hauʻoli ai ka laweʻana i ka hauʻoli.
Nui ka poʻe i ka noʻonoʻo o nā kukama hou, inā lākou e hōʻiliʻiliʻia e kahi wahine. ʻO kaʻohiʻana i nā kukama hou i loko o ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona o nā hanana maikaʻi, akā, ināʻaʻole nā one o ka māla i hanaʻia i ke one. I kēia manawa,ʻo nā mea maikaʻi a pau i loko o ke ola i kēia manawa, koiʻia ka hana e hoʻoikaika ai a mālamaʻia. A ināʻaʻole kahi'āpana kūmākoi i ka wā kahiko, pono pono ke nānā pono aku i nā hanana kokoke e hiki ai ke hōʻoia i ka hopena i ka nohoʻana o ka wahine.