No ke aha i'ōwili ai nā keiki liʻiliʻi i nā kui?
No laila, i waena o nā kumu nui o kēia hana palekana a maikaʻiʻole, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaopopo i kēia mau mea:
- kahi pilikia, kahi e ho'āʻo ai ke kuhū (e makaʻu i ka heleʻana i ka māla, ke kula, pane i ka papa, a pēlā aku);
- ka hanaʻino i loko o lākou (inā pilikiaʻole kekahi keikikāne a kaikamahine paha iā lākou iho, a iʻole he haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa paha );
- ʻo ka ho'āʻoʻana e mālama iāʻoe iho ināʻaʻohe mea e hana ai;
- ka lāʻau lapaʻau (inā ua nāwaliwali nā kui o ke pēpē a ua wāwahi pinepineʻia, pēpē ai ka pēpē iā lākou iʻole e'aʻahia);
- (he pinepine nā mākua a me nā makua o ia mau keiki pono'ī i ka wā kamaliʻi).
Hoʻokumu nā keiki i nā kui - nā hopena
Ma waena o nā hopena koʻikoʻi o ka'ōniuʻana i nā papa kui, hiki iāʻoe ke inoa:
- piʻi ka māmā o ka maʻi me nā palapilikia a me nā maʻiʻeha i laweʻia i loko o nā lima lepo;
- ka maʻi o ke kino a pau ma o ka maʻiʻeha;
- ka hoʻolakoʻana a me kaʻona.
Eia kekahi,ʻo nā lima o kēia mau keikikāne a me nā kaikamāhine ke nānā mauʻole nei.
Pehea e hoʻoleiʻia ai ka pilikia?
No ke kōkuaʻana i kāu keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha, hiki iāʻoe (a me ka hemahema) e ho'āʻo i nā ala a pau. E kōkua maoli kekahi mea.
- ʻo ka mua, ponoʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu a ho'āʻo e hōʻoki.
Inā loaʻa ke kumu i loko o kahi neurosis, a laila,ʻaʻole e hiki i kekahi ke hana me ke kōkuaʻole o ke kauka; - ʻO ka lua,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e'ōhumu. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e nānā i ka mea āna i hana ai, a hiki paha iā ia e hana pēlā, no ka mea,ʻo ka hua i kapu waleʻia heʻono;
- ʻO kaʻekolu, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohana i kahi papa hana kūikawā no nā keiki, a me nā kui. He leʻaleʻa loa aʻawaʻawa kona. Hiki i nā keiki ke kōkua i ka hana maʻamau (mau kaikamāhine paha - me ka hoʻohanaʻana i ka varnish), ka mea e koi ai iā lākou e nānā i keʻano o ko lākou mau lima.