I ka hāpai hāpaiʻoleʻia, hoʻomaka koke nā wāhine i ka noʻonoʻo -ʻo wai ka mea e hānauʻia: he keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha? Hiki nā mākua a me nā hoaaloha i nā nīnau "aʻo wai kāu e makemake ai?" A "peheaʻoe e hea ai?". ʻAe, aʻo ke kāne i kēia manawa a laila e pili ana i ka hoʻoilina a iʻole e pili ana paha i ke hoʻoilina o ka makua kāne. Pehea eʻaʻaʻole ai e ho'āʻoʻia aʻaʻole hoʻi e ho'āʻo i nā hōʻailona likeʻole iāʻoe iho?
E lawe, e hoʻoholo i ka hoʻoholoʻana i ke kaikamahine āu i hānau aiʻole keiki, he nui loa. Aia kekahi o lākou i kahi kumu no ke kuhiʻepekema no ka hanaʻana i kekahi mea ma Malmö,ʻo kekahi poʻe e hoʻonāukiuki. Akā, ua manaʻoʻiʻo ko mākou mau kupuna wahine iā lākou, malia pahaʻaʻole e pōʻino iā mākou? I kēlā me kēiaʻano,ʻo kēia mau mea hoʻokipa maikaʻi e hoʻonui i nā mahina lōʻihi o ka kaliʻana.
No laila, he mau hōʻailona o ka hāpaiʻana i ke keiki me ke kaikamahine:
- ʻO Toxicosis - inā pilikia nui ka wahine i ka toxicosis i ka makahiki mua, hiki ke kiʻekiʻe loa ka hānauʻana o kahi kaikamahine. Manaʻoʻia he poʻe maʻalahi nā keiki i kēia papahana.
- keʻano o ka'ōpū - ināʻeleʻele ka'ōpū, e hānauʻia ke keiki, inā loheʻia ka'ōpū ma kaʻaoʻao, e kali i ke kaikamahine;
- nā kohoʻono - i ka wā o ka hāpaiʻana,ʻo kahi wahine e huki i kahi wahine i kahi paʻakai,ʻoiʻoi,ʻai; i ka manaolana o ke kaikamahine i ka makuahine a laila ua haki i ka meaʻono a me ka palaoa;
- ke helehelena - inā he momona ka wahine i ka wā o ke kōʻana, a laila ua nani ke kaikamahine i kona nani. Ke hānauʻia ke keiki,ʻo nā wāhine, ma keʻano'ē aʻe, lilo i mea nani.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua kānaluaʻia kēia mau hōʻailona a me nā hōʻailona'ē aʻe, no ka mea hiki keʻikeʻia nā meaʻino i kēlā me kēia kūlana,ʻo ka makemake o ka makuahine keʻano maʻamau, aʻo keʻano o ka'ōpū e pili ana i ke pelvis a me nāʻano'ē aʻe o ka anatomia o ka makuahine a ma ke kahi e moe ai ke keiki. Akā,ʻaʻohe mea eʻaʻaʻole e huki i kēia mau hōʻailona i mea maikaʻi no ka mea.
Nāʻano a me nāʻano hana hoʻohālike o kahi kaikamahine a'ōpio paha
No nā kāne ma ka wā o ka hoʻolālāʻana i ka'ōpū, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i kekahi mau'ōlelo kōkua i kekahiʻaoʻao aiʻole kekahi e hiki ke kōkua i ka hoʻolālā i ka wahine o ke keiki i hānauʻoleʻia.
No laila, no ka hāpaiʻana i ke keiki o kekahi wahine - he kaikamahine a he keikikāne paha, ponoʻoe eʻike i ka lā o ka pale waleʻana. Inā makemakeʻoe i kahi keikikāne e hānau, hoʻonele i ka manawa ma mua aʻaʻole ma mua o 24 mau lā ma mua o ka hoʻomakaʻana o ka'ōpiopio. He māmā ka sperm male, akā ola lākou, no laila,ʻaʻole lōʻihi. No laila, e loaʻa iā lākou ka manawa e hiki ai i ka hua liʻiliʻi, me ka kaliʻole o ka lōʻihi o kona hoʻokuʻuʻia. ʻO ka hoʻonuiʻana i ke kūlana o ka hoʻouluʻana o kahi keikikāne eʻoi aʻe ka hiki ke hiki ke hana i ka wahine ma keʻano o ka wahine.
Me ka noʻonoʻo o ke kaikamahine, heʻokoʻa nā mea. Pono hou, eʻike i ka lā o ka'ōhūʻana, akā, e moe i nā lā ma mua o kona. ʻO ka spermatozoa wahineʻaʻole i liʻiliʻi ke kaʻa, akā paʻakikī loa. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke mālama i nā kāne, akā,ʻaʻole lākou e pono ke hoʻomanawanui. Hiki iā lākou ke noho i loko o ka'ōpū no 5 mau lā, e kali ana i ka hoʻokuʻuʻiaʻana o ka hua manu, akā, ua nalowale ka spermatozoa male mai ka heihei (ua make).
Ma kahi kūlana no ka hāpaiʻana i ke kaikamahine, kūpono ke kūʻana o kahi pāpaku. He mea e pono aiʻaʻole ka wahine eʻike i kaʻona, no ka mea, he mea hiki ke hoʻolōʻihi i ke ola o ka sperm male,
Aia kekahi mau'ōlelo manaʻo no ka meaʻai no ka manaʻoʻana o kahi kaikamahine a keiki paha. No kaʻikeʻana o ke kaikamahine, hānai i kāna kāne i kekahi mau mahina ma mua o ka hoʻopiʻiʻiaʻana me ka meaʻono, nā hua, nā mea kanuʻole, nā huaʻai hou, nā hua, nā wai hua. Inā makemakeʻoe i kahi keikikāne, eʻai iāʻoe iho a hānai i kāu kāne me nāʻano meaʻai a pau, kalekalekaʻeleʻele, ka iʻa, ka cafe, kukama paʻi.
ʻOiai paha he mea hikiʻole kēia ke nānāʻia, akā,ʻo nā haʻawina e hōʻike ana i ka 80% o nā hihia,ʻo nā mākua e pili ana i nā'ōlelo kūpono kūpono i loaʻa i ka hopena he keiki o ka wahine "hāpai".