ʻO ka hoa hana maikaʻi ka moe a kēlā wahine kēia wahine. Eia nō naʻe, i ka nohona iki loa o ka poʻe e hālāwai ana i kā mākou mau koi a pau, a hiki mai ka manawa e maopopo aiʻaʻole i loko o lākou, akā i loko o mākou iho. Pehea e loaʻa ai ke hoaʻoi aku, inā iʻole kekahi manawa iʻikeʻoleʻoe i kāu mea e makemake ai? ..
Ke kiʻi o ka hoa kūpono kūpono
No kaʻikeʻana i ka hoa kūpono no ke ola, ponoʻoe eʻike i kāu mea e makemake ai. He like ia me ka kūʻai: inā e hele waleʻoe i ke kūʻai, me kaʻole o kahi hoʻolālā maikaʻi, e loaʻa paha iāʻoe ka mea āu e ponoʻole ai. A inā hoʻoholoʻoe e ponoʻoe eʻaʻahu i kaʻaʻahuʻulaʻula, a laila e hoʻolohe waleʻoe i nāʻaʻahuʻulaʻula a loaʻa wale i kāu mea makemake.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, me kaʻoi aku o ka paʻakikī me ka hoa pilikino, no ka mea,ʻaʻole maopopo nāʻano a pau o keʻano o ka helehelena o ke kanaka. Akāʻo kaʻike i kāu mea e makemake ai, hiki iāʻoe ke kānana i nā mea āu iʻikeʻole ai.
No ka hanaʻana i kēia, e hana iāʻoe iho i kiʻi no ke hoa lōʻihi: ma lailaʻoe e koho i nā mea a pau e pili ana iāʻoe. Eia kekahi laʻana, kāu kāne punahele, nā hiʻohiʻona o ka helehelena, nā hōʻailona zodiac e pili ana iāʻoe, he mea e pono ai ke hoʻoweliweli iā ia, pehea e hoʻolohe ai, kahi e hele ai. E nānā wale i ka papa inoaʻo "taboos": no ka mea, inā he wahaheʻe kahi kanaka,ʻaʻaʻole i ka kumakaia a inu paha, aʻaʻoleʻoe makemake nui iā ia,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi ke hoʻokuʻu koke i kēia koho. Inā ponoʻoe he hoa pili hoahele maikaʻi, pono ia eʻike i kona mau palena i ka moekolohe (ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole hiki i nā mea a pau ke hana i nā wāhine a me nā mea).
No laila, eʻike nui loaʻoe i ka mea āu e makemake ai eʻike iāʻoe, aʻo nā kānaka a pau eʻike mai ana i kou ola, e maʻalahi paha iāʻoe he "koho" aʻaʻole paha he koho.
Loaʻa i ka hoa kūpono
Hiki iāʻoe ke hālāwai me kahi hoa kūkaʻi maikaʻi loa ma kahi āpau. Eia naʻe, inā he hana kāu hana-home home, a ke hana neiʻoe i kahi
Eʻimi i kahi kanaka kūpono i kēlā me kēia wahi, akā ponoʻoe e nānā i ka nani i kēlā me kēia manawa o kou ola a ma kahi'ē aʻe. E kipa i nā hale kūʻai, nā hīmeni, nā hoʻolāʻau i kahi e hele ai nā kānaka o ka wā āu i makemake ai. E ho'āʻo pinepine e hele pinepine ma ke alanui aʻaʻole hoʻi e hōʻole i ka poʻe pilikino mai nā hanaʻino. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo kēia kanaka kūleʻa paha he hoa kūpono loa ia noʻoe.