He pūnanaʻohana hoʻomalu? ʻAʻole paha, heʻano paha, ke kahua, kahi i piha ai kaʻohi. Kūʻai, holoi, hoʻomaʻemaʻe, manaʻoʻole nāʻohana o kaʻohana e pono e holoi i kīʻaha no lākou iho. He pilina kūlohelohe? ʻO ka pilikia o ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana i nā kuleana o kaʻohana,ʻaʻole he mea hou, he nui nā kāne me nā keiki a loaʻaʻole ka hopena i kēia kūlana. I ka wā e pili ana i nā pono a me nā kuleana o nāʻohana, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻokōʻia ma o nā pā hale, a he aha ka mea e hanaʻia me nā pilikia o ka home? ʻAʻoleʻoe e kū me ka lāʻau hahau ma luna o nā mea a pau, e koi ana e komo i ka hana o ka hale.
Pehea e hāʻawi ai i nā kuleana ma kaʻohana?
Eia kekahi, aia nāʻohana i hoʻokaʻawaleʻia nā kuleana a me nā kuleana o kā lākou mau lālā,ʻaʻole pono e hoʻoikaika i ka hoʻonohonohoʻana i loko o ka hale. Akā,ʻaʻole pinepine kēlā mau hui, aʻaʻole hikiʻole i nā kānakaʻelua keʻae like i ka mea nāna i lawe kaʻaila i ka lā, a i ka pukaʻana o nā keiki, ua pau loa ke kūlana. Akāʻo nā ala e puka ai i ka wā pilikia, eia kekahi mauʻano e māhele ai i nā kuleana i loko o kaʻohana, ponoʻoe e koho i kahi i kūpono no kouʻohana ma kaʻano a me keʻano.
- Hiki iāʻoe ke hele ma ke ala o ke kū'ē kūʻokoʻa - hana i nā mea a pau, hoʻokahi pule, kekahi pule'ē aʻe.
- Aia kekahi mahele o ka māhele maʻamau o nā kuleana ma kaʻohana - he paʻa ka wahine ma ka home, he kālā ke kāne. ʻAʻole he koho maikaʻi, aia ke kāne ke poʻo o kaʻohana, ka pā pōhaku, ka mea pale a me ka mea kūʻai. Akā, hikiʻole i kēia kauoha ke kūlike i nāʻohana i noho aliʻi ai ka male a iʻole ka kaulike.
- Inā hana ka wahine i kaʻoihana a lawe i ka hapa nui o ka waihona kālāʻohana, he kūlohelohe ia,ʻaʻole kokoke i ka manawa e hana ai a hoʻomaʻemaʻe. Ma kēia hihia,ʻelua wale nōʻaoʻao -ʻo ka liloʻana o ke kāne i wahine wahine a me nā hana o ka home
hāʻawiʻia i ka limahana. - Me ka kaulike i loko o kaʻohana (ʻo ia hoʻi, pale ka waiwai ma nā poʻohiwi o nā wāhineʻelua), aʻo nā kuleana e pono ke māhele likeʻia. E hana i nā mea a pau o kaʻohana e hana i ka mea ā hiki a hiki iā lākou. ʻO ke kuke ka mea nāna eʻike i ka hana, hiki i nā mea a pau ke holoi i nā kīʻaha (koe wale no nā keiki liʻiliʻi a me nā poʻe maʻi moe), hiki ke komo i ka hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻana a me ka hānaiʻana i nā keiki a me ka kāne.
E kūkākūkā e pili ana i kaʻaha kūkākūkāʻohana no ka hoʻoiliʻana i nā kuleana, akā, maiʻae hou aku i ka lokomaikaʻi no ka laweʻana i ka manaʻo nui o ka home.