Kāʻahu no ka papa hoʻolaʻa no ka momona

ʻO ka heleʻana mai ke kaikamahine a iʻole ke keikikāne, he pilina hoʻomaha a hoʻomaha loa ia! Ma keʻano liʻiliʻi, he aha keʻano o ka makuahine e uē i ke nānāʻana i kāna keiki ma ke kahua e loaʻa ai kāna palapala hōʻailona, ​​e hōʻike ana i ka'ōpiopioʻana a hoʻomaka ke ola o nā mākua. ʻO ka hoʻomākaukau no kēia lā ua aneane hoʻokahi makahiki. ʻO ka mea nui loa,ʻo ke kūʻai a kūʻai paha i ke kāʻei hana maʻamau no kahi keiki, akā, mai hoʻopoina iāʻoe iho a e kiʻi i kahiʻaʻahu nani ma kaʻaoʻao o ka papa no kou makuahine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua nānāʻoe i nā haʻawina home i ke ahiahi, hele i nā hālāwai o nā mākua, hoʻopiʻiʻia i mua o ke kumu a hoʻopaʻiʻia no nā hōʻailona. A'ānō, kou kuleana e haʻaheo i kāu keiki ma kēia lā hoʻomaha.

ʻO keʻano maʻamau, mai hoʻopoinaʻoe he wahi hoʻomaha kēia no nā keiki'ōpio, a pale wale i ka nani a me ka houʻana o ka'ōpiopio, no laila,ʻaʻoleʻoe e koho i kaʻaʻahu ahiahi no ka mom, e paʻa i kou maka. ʻO ke kapa komo no ka makuahine, he mea mua loa, he nani, he nani, he nani, he nani.

Pehea e koho ai i kahiʻaʻahu no ka makuahine o ke kula puka a puka kula paha?

  1. ʻO ka mea mua, he mea kūpono e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia he lā hoʻomaha no kāu keiki aʻaʻoleʻoe e koho i kahi lole nani. ʻOiai inā he helehelena maikaʻi kou, e koho i kahi kapa no kou makuahine i kāu kaikamahine aiʻole keiki paha, ponoʻoe i nāʻano kī a me nā lau. Hiki iā ia ke leo a iʻole i hui pūʻia paha, no laila e nani nā kiʻi o kaʻohana.
  2. Mai koho i ka'ōpiopio'ōpiopio. ʻO ka mea pili i nā pāpale no ka makuahine o ke kula. No laila, e nānā akuʻoe me he wahine punahele o kāu keiki, akā,ʻaʻole like me ka makuahine i hānai i ke keiki akamai.
  3. ʻO nā meaʻaʻahu nani i nā kau a bolero paha,ʻaʻole i hāmama a me kaʻaʻaʻole o nā mea hoʻonāukiuki, e kū pololei. ʻO ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana he lā hoʻomaha ia i kahi kūpono e hōʻike ai he makuaʻoe o kahi keiki makua a ponoʻoe eʻaʻahu e like me kou kūlana.