I kekahi manawa, e haʻi mai ko mākou mau hiʻohiʻona i ka pehea e pale ai i ka pilikia i kaʻoiaʻiʻo aiʻole e pono paha e kali i kahi hopena maikaʻi o kahiʻoihana nui no mākou. No laila, eʻimi i ka mea a kekahi wahine e noʻonoʻo ai a me keʻano o kēia hiʻona.
He aha ka moe a kahi wahine maʻamau?
Ināʻikeʻia kēia moeʻuhane e ke kanaka, a laila i ka wā e hiki mai ana, e lilo ia i mea pōʻino a me kahiʻeleʻeleʻeleʻele, akā naʻe,ʻaʻole e lōʻihi. ʻO nā mea hoʻohenehene, nā'ōlelo hōʻino a me nā hoʻopunipuni -ʻo ia ka mea e hiamoe ai ke kanaka no ka wahineʻona i kama'āina iā lākou, akāʻaʻoleʻo ia he pili.
A no nā kaikamāhine e like me ka moeʻuhane e kū'ē ana, e hoʻolaha ana i ka pōmaikaʻi a me ka holomua, a laila e manaʻoʻoe i kaʻoihana a me ka waiwai, a me ka loaʻaʻana o kahi makana waiwai. Akā, e hiki mai kēia inā wale nō i ka moeʻuhane ka hoaalohaʻana o kekahi hoaaloha ma ka moeʻuhane, i ka manawa i ka manawa e hoʻokauʻia ai ka wahine pono i loko o ka hōʻailona wīwī aiʻole ka uēʻana, he mea kūpono ke kali i ka hakakā ma ke ola maoli. A e pili ana kēia hakakā me kēiaʻano manaʻo hae.
E nānā kāua i ka moe a kaʻelemakule. ʻIkeʻia ma ka moeʻuhane he hoaaloha kahiko a pilina paha, he hōʻailonaʻo ia e pili ana i kaʻohana a i ka hana paha. Ke pili like kēia wānana i nā kāne,
A i ka hopena, ināʻike ke kanaka i ka malihini ma ka moeʻuhane, he mea nui iā ia ke hoʻomanaʻo i kona launaʻana a me ka hakakā paha. Ke hilinaʻi nei ia i ka manaʻo o ka wahineʻikeʻole. I ka hihia mua, pono ke kali i kahi mea eʻoluʻolu ai, akā i ka lua o ka mea eʻike nei e hiki mai ana nā loli aʻaʻole e hauʻoli loa kēia mau hoʻololi. Ma ke ala, inā ua hōʻaʻahuʻia ke kaikamahine i ka hihiʻo i ke kapa keʻokeʻo a iʻole ka lole māmā, aʻoiaiʻo ia e kāhea aku ai iāʻoe, e pau koke ke kāleʻele.