He nui nā kaikamāhine ma hope o kaʻahaʻainaʻana i kekahi mau pule hou aku i nā moeʻuhane i loko o kaʻaʻahu mare. Ke nānāʻia nei heʻano maʻamau, no ka mea, he pane ia i nā manaʻo iʻikeʻia. Akā, no ke aha i moe ai kahi moe mare mare no ka wahine i mareʻia a ua lōʻihi ka manawa i mareʻia? No ka ho'ākāka he pono pono e noʻonoʻo i kaʻikepili kūpono.
No ke aha i moe ai kahi moe mare mare no ka wahine i mareʻia?
ʻO ia moeʻuhane i loko o nā puke mīkaʻe likeʻole uaʻikeʻia i nāʻano likeʻole, e like paha me ka hoʻolauleʻaʻana i kahi pāʻina mare i nā mea hou a iʻole i ka hālāwaiʻana me nā hoaaloha. ʻO kekahi mahele'ē aʻe paha ke nānā aku i ka heleʻana i kahi hoʻokipa o kekahi. Ināʻoe eʻaʻahu i kahiʻaʻahu me kāu kāne - he mea maʻalahi kēia o ka hoʻomakaʻana o ka wā hou i nā pilina a ma keʻano'ē aʻe. No ka ho'ākākaʻana i ka manaʻo o ka moe, hiki iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i nāʻike'ē aʻe, a inā heʻanoʻole ia, a lailaʻaʻoleʻoe e manaʻo i nā loli maikaʻi.
No ke aha ka moeʻuhane e kūʻai ai i kahiʻaʻahu mare?
ʻO ka moeʻuhane i ka wā i kūʻai ai kekahi wahine i loko o ka hale lole i kaʻaʻahu i loaʻa iā ia i ka lā o ka maleʻana he hōʻailona maikaʻi iaʻaʻoleʻo ia kānalua no kāna kohoʻana pēlā aʻaʻole ona makemake eʻimi i nā mea ma kaʻaoʻao. E hoʻomaopopo mākou i ka moe o ka kūʻaiʻana i kahiʻaʻahu mare hou no ka wahine i mareʻia he mea hoʻokaumaha i nā pilikia i loko o kaʻohana e hiki ai ke alakaʻi i ka maleʻana. ʻO ia moeʻuhane keʻano o ka manaʻo o kekahi wahine no kaʻimiʻana i kahi kanaka'ē aʻe.
No ke aha i moe ai ka moeʻana i kaʻaʻahu mare?
Inā ho'āʻo kahi wahine ma kānaʻaʻahu mare - he hōʻailona ia e hiki i ka manawa e hou hou ai i ka pilina me kāna kāne. ʻO ka moeʻuhane pinepine nō ia i nā kānalua a me nā hōʻeha. ʻO ka nānāʻana i ka pō, kahi aʻu e ho'āʻo ai i kaʻaʻahu mareʻana o kekahi, haʻiʻia keʻano huhū pinepine o ka mea moeʻuhane i nā mea'ē aʻe a hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i ka hakakā me ka wahine.