ʻO ka noho kaʻawaleʻana o ka wahine a me ke kūʻokoʻa he nānā hou

ʻOiaiʻo ka loli hale wahine hiki ke hoʻonui i ka haha'ōlelo,ʻaʻole nui ka nui o nā wahine eʻimi i ka mea kōkua a me ka mea pale i ke kanaka. Aʻaʻoleʻo ia wale nō ka nui o nā wāhine o kēia wā e hiki ke "pepehi i ka momona" iā lākou iho,ʻo nā kumu nui i hūnāʻia i ka hilahila o ka noho kāne kāne a me nā loli o ke kaiaulu.

He wehewehe haʻawina o kahi wahine wahine

Uaʻikeʻia ka nohoʻana o kahi wahine no nā kenekulia he nui i hōʻailona o kekahi "hemahema" o ka wahine, nā kaikamāhineʻelemakule, e like me keʻano he mau hoʻohenehene. I kēia manawa,ʻaʻole he mea kupaianaha ka wahine i mareʻoleʻia. Hoʻopili nā kānaka hoʻonaʻauao i ka makemake o kahi kaʻawale kahi hōʻailona e hōʻike ana i ke kumu o nā kumu e pale ai i ka wahine e hoʻomaka i kahiʻohana. I ka manawa ma mua, ua pau ka hopena o kekahi mau kumu, a ua haʻalele ka wahine i nā kānaka. I kekahi manawa, hoʻohanaʻia kekahi wahine no ka noho hoʻokahiʻana i hikiʻole iā ia ke hoʻokuʻu i kahi noho kaʻawale.

Nāʻike noʻonoʻo no ka haʻaleleʻana i ka wahine:

• "He nani wau, ua kūpono wau no ke kamāliʻikāne", "he kūpilikiʻi wau,ʻaʻole oʻu hemahema i kekahi mea";
• ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana i loko o ka manaʻo o ka wahine - "Pono wau e ikaika, hiki iaʻu ke hana i nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole oʻu hemahema ke kanaka";
• ke kauʻana ma ka makuahine - "He keiki e pono ke loaʻa i ka makuakāne maikaʻi", "ʻO ke keiki ka mea nui loa no ka wahine".

Nā kumu o ka loneli wahine

No ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i ke kumu no nā wāhine he nui, e pono e aʻo i nā kumu o ka loneliness. Ma waena o nā poʻe loiloi hoʻonaʻauao e kāhea i kēia mau mea:

1. ʻO ke ola - ke kūpono ke kumu no ka waiho waleʻana. ʻAʻole pono ka wahine e hōʻoia i kekahi mea i kekahi - mahaloʻiaʻo ia no kona holomua a me kona kūʻokoʻa.
2. ʻO nā koi i hoʻolālāʻia no ke kāne he mea ia e hoʻopili i nā moho a pau, a ke alakaʻi pinepine nei i kahi loneli wahine.
3. ʻIke kūponoʻole - pinepine nā wāhine eʻimi i kahi noho kaʻawale a hopohopo i nā pili hou ma muli o kaʻike ma mua i hōʻeha lākou i ka hewa o nā kāne. I kekahi manawaʻikeʻole kahi kaikamahine i kaʻikeʻole i kaʻohana o kona mau mākua.
4. ʻO ka mea alohaʻole kahi kumu'ē aʻe o ke kumu o ka loneli wahine. I kēia hihia,ʻaʻole pono ka wahine e noʻonoʻo i nā moho'ē aʻe.
5. ʻO ka makemakeʻole a me ka makemakeʻole e kūkulu i kaʻohana -ʻo ia mau wāhine ke makemake nei e loaʻa nā mea leʻaleʻa mai ke ola aku,ʻo ka kuleana no ko lākouʻohana keʻimi liʻiliʻi, e like me nā keikikāne kāne.

Nā hana a me nā hihia o ka noho kaʻawale o ka wahine

Keʻike nei kekahi wahine kūʻokoʻa kū hoʻokahi i ka nui o nā mea maikaʻi: uaʻikeʻo ia he lanakila, kūʻokoʻa, nani, mahalo. No kēia kiʻi nani, hoʻohaʻahaʻa,ʻaʻole hiki ke hūnā i kahi manaʻo ponoʻole. A i ka hauʻoli loa i ko lākou mau wāhine makuaʻole, i kekahi manawa eʻike lākou i ka nele o ka mahana a me ka pilina o kahi mea aloha.

Nā mea nui o kahi noho wahine

ʻO ka pane i ka nīnau, no ke aha e koho ai nā wāhine i kahi kaʻawale, i hāʻawiʻia e nā poʻe loio. I ko lākou manaʻo, ua maʻalahi ka nohoʻana o nā wāhine i kēia wā ma mua o kaʻohana. ʻO ka wahine i loko o kēia hihia he kuleanaʻuʻuku kona a me kāna mau hopohopo, loaʻa iā ia ka manawa e nānā ai i kona helehelena a mālama i kona olakino, e hoʻoikaika i ka pilikino, hele a hoʻokipa. ʻO kekahi o kēia mau mea e hōʻike i ka infantilism o kahi wahine. ʻO ka manawa pinepineʻole ka wahine i makemakeʻole e hana i kekahiʻohana e koho i nā mea likeʻole me ka mea hiki ole ke mare, no ka mea, ua mare.

He aha ka lonelio pilikia no kahi wahine?

Hoʻohana ka wahine i ka loneli a haʻalele i ka pilina -ʻo ia ka pilikia nui o kēia kūlana. Eia kekahi, no ka hoʻomaʻamaʻaʻana i ke kuokoa, hiki i kahi lede ke nalowale i nā mākaukau o ke kamaʻilio me ka wahine'ē. I kēia hihia,ʻoiai makemakeʻole e lilo i ke kūʻokoʻa,ʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine ke kūkulu i nā pilina, e hana i kaʻohana ikaika.

Hiki i ka ululahi o kahi wahine hoʻokahi ke ala mai:

• me ka haʻihaʻiʻana i ka lima o ke kāne - a laila, e kapaʻiaʻo ia "kāne no ka hora" a noi mai paha i kahi kōkua mai kekahi hoa a pili paha;
• ma ka hui o nā kāne male - inā i loaʻa i nā hoaaloha a me nā hoaaloha o kekahi wahine he mauʻohana, e emi mai ana a emiʻole ka konoʻana i kahi hana pili;
• me ka makemake nui no ka moekolohe - me ka hoa hana lōʻihi e paʻakikī ka heluʻana i ka wahine maʻamau , aʻoi aku ka nui - i ka manawa e makemake maoli aiʻoe,ʻaʻole naʻe i ka wa e loaʻa ai kahi manawa kūpono.

Pehea e ola ai i kahi wahine makeʻole?

ʻO ka nīnau no ka mea e hana ai me kahi wahine hoʻokahi, hiki ke ala wale mai i kahi mea i nele i ka manaʻo. ʻAʻole ponoʻo ia e noʻonoʻo i kekahi mea,ʻo ka loneli i loko o kēia hihia e like me ke kūʻokoʻa. ʻOiaʻiʻo, me ka loaʻaʻole o nā kumu waiwai waiwai nui,ʻaʻole e loaʻa nā haʻawina i ka wahine. Eia nō naʻe, he nui nā manaʻolana no ka waihoʻana o nā wāhine i:

• ʻike haʻahaʻa;
• ka hanaʻana i kānaʻoihana pono'ī;
• hele nā ​​huakaʻi hele;
• hoʻokani i nā haʻuki;
• e kamaʻilio me nā hoaaloha;
• nā hāmeʻa;
• 'ikeʻano;
• ke kūkuluʻana i kahiʻoihana.

ʻO nā wāhine lanakila i ka manawa hoʻokahi wale nō, akā inā pili kēia kumu i ka waiwai a me ka hilinaʻi pono'īʻana , uaʻike mau kēia mau wāhine i kā lākou makemake e ola. ʻO ka ikaika, i hiki ke kuhikuhiʻia i kahi kanaka a mau keiki paha, ma kēia hihia e lilo i kekahi mea'ē aʻe. Ma waena o nā kūlana a hoʻonaniʻia me nā poʻeʻike kiʻekiʻe, he nui nā kānaka i loaʻa ka hauʻoli i ko lākou mau ola pono'ī. Nā wāhine i koho i kahi kaʻawale:

1. Uaʻikeʻo Sophie Germain - ka mathematician, mechanic, philosopher, "ʻo ka hihia mua loa" o kā Fermat.
2. ʻO Sofya Kovalevskaya - ke kāpekema, ka mea kākau, ua hanaʻo ia ma keʻano he polofesa o ka 'Oihana o ka Makemakika ma ke Kulanui o Stockholm.
3. ʻO Barbara McClintock - he geneticist, iʻike i ka neʻeʻana o nā moʻo, Nobel laureate.
4. ʻO Camilla Claudel he mea kālai kiʻi,ʻo iaʻo Auguste Rodin.
5. ʻO Grace Murray Hopper he mathematician, he mea papahana, hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia i ka'ōlelo mua o COBOL.

Pehea e hiki ai i kahi wahine ke hoʻokuʻu i kahi noho kaʻawale?

No nā makahiki he nui, hiki i ka wahine e noho nei i ke ola olaʻole ke hoʻomaopopo i kona nele i ke aloha a me ke aloha, i ka nele, ka maluhia a me ka palekana i hiki i kahi hoa pili pono. A laila hiki mai kahi wā e pane ai ka nīnau - pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i ka noho haʻahaʻa o kahi wahine. No ka hoʻokuʻuʻana i kahi noho kaʻawale, ponoʻoe:

• ʻike i nā kumu o ka loliʻole - hiki iā ia ke kōkua i ka mea kālaikala, he hoaaloha;
• hoʻololi i nā manaʻo e pili ana iāʻoe - e hoʻomau i ka noʻonoʻoʻole i nā pono a me nā pono kūlohelohe, e hāʻule wale i ke aloha iāʻoe iho;
• e nānā pono i nā kānaka a puni - kokoke paha i kahi kanaka e hoʻopau i ka lonu wahine.

ʻO ka lonelike o nā wāhine he Orthodox

Ua hoʻohewaʻia a hōʻoluʻolu paha ka noho hoʻokahi o ka wahine ma Orthodox. Ua paʻa nā manaʻo o nā kāhuna Orthodox i ka hikiʻole i kahi wahine ke noho mehameha, aiʻole eʻike i kona hopena - e lilo i wahine a makuahine - hiki iā ia ma kahi kokoke i kahi mea pono. ʻAʻole ia he mea pōpilikia no ka manawa lōʻihi e pono ke mare ke kahuna Orthodox - mahalo nui ka halepule i ka waiwai o ka halepule.

Nā wāhine kaulana

ʻO keʻano nui o ka kaulana a me ka waiwai,ʻo ia ka hauʻoli, akā,ʻo ka waihona a me ka kaulana i koho pinepineʻia he mau hoa noho kaʻawale. A me ka nui o nā mea mahalo a me nā kāne,ʻo kēia mau wahine wahine nui loa keʻano huhū a me ka waiwaiʻole i kekahi:

1. ʻO Gia Maria Karanji he supermodel o nā makahiki he 70, i make i ka maʻi AIDS.
2. ʻO Marilyn Monroe he wahine'anikua i make i ka loiloi piha o nā pila moe.
3. ʻO Maria Callas - ka mea mele, ka mea aloha iā Aristotle Onassis, i make i 53 mau makahiki i ke kaʻawaleʻole.

He nui nā kaulana kaulana o ka mea wahine e makemake nei i ka noho kaʻawale:

1. Charlize Theron -ʻelua manawa i mareʻia, akā ua koho i kahi kaʻawale.
2. ʻO Catherine Deneuve - he lolie i loko o ka mare hoʻokahi, ma ka hānauʻana i hānau iʻelua keiki.
3. ʻO Sharon Stone - moeʻuhaneʻo ia i kaʻohana, akā ma hope oʻelua mau māhele liʻiliʻi, kohoʻo ia e hānai i nā keiki hānai.
4. Susan Sarandon - hoʻopau lōʻihi loaʻo Tim Robins me ka haʻalulu, a ma hope iho ua hele ka wahine i ka "mahuka lele".

Nā kime e pili ana i kahi kaʻawale wahine

Nā kime e pili ana i nā wāhine kū hoʻokahi e makemake i ka lehulehu:

1. ʻO ka Red Desert / Il Deserto Rosso (1964). Ke hōʻike nei ka pīkī e pili ana i nāʻehaʻuhane o ka mea koʻikoʻiʻo Juliana.
2. ʻEkolu mauʻaʻahu: Blue / Trois Colors: Bleu (1993). Ma hope o ka makeʻana o kaʻohana, ua hoʻomauʻia ka heroine i loko o ka hilahila. Akā,ʻo ke mele ke ola ia.
3. Nā Hours (2002). ʻO nā ola oʻekolu mau heroine o nā wā likeʻole e pili i kahi puke - ka puke moʻolelo na Virginia Woolf "Mrs. Dalloway".
4. Malena / Malena (2000). ʻO kahi wikiō e pili ana i kahi wahine i lilo kona nani i mea hōʻino loa.