ʻO ka nīnau kahiko "ʻO wai kaʻoi aku o ke akamai ma mua o nā kāne a me nā wahine?" Hoʻopukaʻia ka naʻau kaulana, a ua lōʻihi ka lōʻihi o ka haneli e ho'āʻo ana e loaʻa i ka pane. Uaʻike nā kānakaʻepekema i ka hanaʻana o ka lolo o nā kāne a me nā wāhine i keʻano likeʻole, a no laila, uaʻano like ko lākou mau akamai. Aʻo wai lā ka mea iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o mua o nā kāne a me nā wāhine? E noʻonoʻo i kēia hopena.
No ke aha iʻoi aku ai ke akamai o nā kānaka ma mua o nā wāhine?
Malia pahaʻaʻole he kanaka likeʻole i ke ao nei e hikiʻole ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa he akamaiʻo ia. Aʻo nā mea he nui i kākoʻo i kēia manaʻo, hōʻike lākou i kaʻike kepekema e like me keʻano: ke'ōlelo nei lākou he nui ka manawa o ka lolo o ka lolo o ke kanaka iʻoi aku ka nui o ka wahine. ʻOiaʻiʻo, he meaʻole ka hakakāʻana me kēiaʻikepili, no ka mea,ʻoiaʻiʻo keʻano o ka lolo o ke kanaka, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia. ʻAʻole e nui ka nui o ka lolo i ka hopena o ka manaʻo. Mai poina i ka nui o ka lolo, no ka mea, he manawa nui kaʻele i ko ke kanaka, akā naʻe,ʻaʻole e hiki i ka'eleke ke noʻonoʻo.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, i nā manawa he nui, uaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā kānaka ma mua o nā wāhine. Aʻo ka kumu nui o ka'onalaʻau o ka hapalua ikaika o ka pilina kanakaʻaʻole i haʻiʻia pela. ʻAʻole ia he meaʻole ke'ōleloʻia nei ka'ōlelo akamai: "He kāne ke poʻo, aʻo ka wahine he'ā'ī. Ma kahi e huli ai ka'ā'ī, ma laila ke poʻo a nānā. " E lilo ka'ā'ī, a hemo ke poʻo i nā manaʻo e hana i ka mea pono.
Eia naʻe, me nā mea a pau i'ōleloʻia ma luna nei i loko o ka pōʻaiapuni i kēia manawa aia kekahiʻanoʻano o nā kāne -ʻo ka wahine akamai,ʻo ia ka wahine naʻaupō. ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻoiai,ʻo ka pilina pili i ka lōʻihi. ʻO kahi kanaka akamai ma hope e pono ai, ināʻaʻoleʻo ia he akamai, i lailaʻo ka wahine akamai. ʻAʻole e hoʻomau nā kānaka naʻauao i ka wahine lapuwale no ka manawa lōʻihi. Ma keʻano kūlana, ua hoʻokumuʻia kēlā mau kāne no ka pono wale nō o ka moekolohe. ʻO ke kanaka makemake e pāʻani i ka "papika" a hoʻokō i nā makemake a pau o kāna "'īlio nipili," akā, ma kēia hope aku, ua pilikiaʻo ia no ka hāʻawi waleʻana,ʻo ka lawe waleʻana i ka wahine wale nō, a heleʻo ia i kahi wahine akamai a aʻoʻia.
ʻO wai ka mea maʻalahi ma mua o ke kāne a wahine paha?
ʻO ka'ōlelo akamai iʻikeʻia iā mākou a pau, hōʻoiaʻo ia ma ka nui o ka wahineʻaʻole ia e hāʻawi i ka mea e manaʻo nei. Ua like like nā kāne a me nā wāhine, a no laila ke'ōlelo aku nei kekahi meaʻoi aku ka maʻalahi - ma ka nui, he naʻaupō. Eia nā mea a pau loa. Aia i waena o nā kāne, a ma waena o nā wāhine, he mauʻelele, e hōʻoluʻolu iho,ʻaʻole i hāʻawiʻia i nā mea noʻonoʻo naʻau. Akāʻaʻole mākou i kāhea aku i kēlāʻano naʻaupō a pau. No laila, ka pane a mākou i ka nīnau: "ʻO wai kaʻoi aku o ke akamai?" He maʻalahiʻole - he mau kāne a he wahine.
No ke aha iʻoi aku ai ke akamai o nā wāhine?
Manaʻo ka nui o nā 'elele o ka wahine moe wahine e pono i ka wahine ke alakaʻi i ke kāne, a inā i hanaʻo ia i ka hoʻoholoʻana, a lailaʻoi aku ke akamai o ka wahine. A i kekahiʻano ua pololei kēia. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole loa e hoʻokuʻu wale ka wahine naʻauao i kāna kāne i loko o kahi kukuiʻino, aʻaʻole hoʻi e hōʻike iā ia i kaʻoi o ka manaʻo o ka wahine. E hoʻomanaʻo i ka'ōlelo: "Ma hope o nā mea maikaʻi a pau, he wahine akamai". Aʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ke kanaka me ka wahine naʻaupō, ma hope onaʻaʻole ia e pono. E huki pinepineʻo ia iā ia
No ka nui o nā kenekulia, aia nā wāhine ma hope o mākou, e kōkua ana i nā kānaka e noʻonoʻo a akamai, ke'ōlelo neiʻoe, "No ke aha e noho ai i ka malu a ināʻoi aku koʻu akamai?", A laila, e kaʻu mea aloha, na ke kāne e lawe iāʻoe ma kona mau lima. ʻO ke kanaka i loaʻa ka wahine aloha aʻike ma hope o kona mau poʻohiwi,ʻaʻole ia e nānā i nā wāhine'ē aʻe, akā, e noho waleʻoe ma luna o kona nohoaliʻi. A he aha hou aʻe e pono ai no ka hauʻoli o ka wahine i wahine akamai a naʻauao?