"E'ōlelo lākou,ʻaʻohe aloha ma waena o nā wāhine ..." A heʻoiaʻiʻo, e'ōlelo lākou, akā, uaʻike mākouʻaʻole ka launa aloha o nā wāhine he mea mele wale nō,ʻaʻole he mele,ʻaʻole he mea i hanaʻia, akā, he mea maʻamau. ʻO ka manawa pinepine,ʻo kahi hoaaloha pili e kākoʻo, eʻoluʻolu, hauʻoli a kāhea paha me mākou. A,ʻoiai, he manawa hoʻomaha ko kāua hoaaloha, nīnau mākou iā mākou iho, he aha kāu makana e hāʻawi aku ai i kāu hoaaloha? ʻOiai,ʻo ka hemoʻana o kekahi wickknackʻaʻole ia he koho, aʻo ka nīnauʻanaʻaʻoleʻo ia ke ala maikaʻi loa. He aha keʻano e hoʻohāhā nei? Ma kēia hihia, ponoʻoe e noʻonoʻo a piʻi mai i kahi makana momona i kāu hoaaloha loa. I kekahi, eʻoluʻolu loa kēia hana:ʻoiai, he mau hoaalohaʻoe no ka manawa lōʻihi,ʻikeʻoe i nā pono a me nā makemake o kekahi i kekahi, no lailaʻaʻole e paʻakikī ke koho i kahi makana. Akā,ʻaʻole nā mea a pau i maʻalahi, a ua loaʻa kekahi mau pilikia: nui i hāʻawi muaʻia. Inā he hoaaloha'ōpiopio ia a uaʻike pahaʻoe i kekahi i kekahi no nā makahiki he nui,ʻikeʻia ua hoʻohanaʻia nā manaʻo a pau a ua pauʻoe i kou palena o ka "mea hana kiʻi i nā makana."
Ma mua o kēia, pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia he makana maʻamau i kahi hoaaloha a me nā hiʻohiʻona o kāna kohoʻana he pilikia nui loa ia. Mai ka hoʻopuka houʻana, hiki ke mālama i nā makana kūikawā a me keʻano kumu o kā lākou hōʻike.
ʻO nā manaʻo mua no kahi makana i kahi hoaaloha maikaʻi
Inā makemake kāu wahine i ka leʻaleʻa, a laila,ʻo ka makana i keʻano o ka liʻiliʻi o nā mea'alala e hoʻomaʻamaʻa loa ia. Hiki paha ke hana i ka pōpō me nā mea kākau, nā kiʻi a me nā hōʻailona. Hiki iā ia keʻano o nāʻano likeʻole, nā lau a me nā mea hoʻokiha.
Inā he mea hōʻoia ka hoaaloha o ka hana lima, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoluʻolu iā ia me ka'ulaka i kāhikoʻia a me kaʻulaʻula, kahi e hoʻolālāʻia ai kāu mau hua mua. Hiki iāʻoe ke kākau iā ia i kahi mele a he mea kākau paha i kālai naniʻia a he mea ia e hoʻonaniʻia ai ma ka paia a he hōʻailona maikaʻi i ka lā lālani no kāu pilina. Ināʻaʻole kāu mau taleni a iʻoleʻoe iʻike mua iā lākou, e hoʻokae i kāu hoaaloha me kahi kiʻi puke me nā kiʻi pūnaewele, e lawe ai i nā manawa hoʻonani o kou aloha. He makana kumu ia i kahi hoaaloha e noho mau ma ka hoʻomanaʻo nui. ʻO kahi koho maikaʻi loa paha he kiʻi kūpono o ka kaikamahine hānau lā a iʻoleʻo kāu hui, e hiki ke kauohaʻia e ke kauka hana akamai.
He makana kupaianaha kēia puke no kahi kaikamahine e makemake nei i nā puke, heluhelu. Hiki iā ia ke kākau moʻolelo o kāna mea punahele punahele a iʻole he hōʻuluʻulu o nā hana. I loko, hiki iāʻoe ke kau i kā kāleka a me nā makemake maikaʻi loa.
ʻO kahi koho maikaʻi loa - nā hōʻailona makana: kahi nani, kahi kūʻai, kino , kahi kaukau, he spa. Ke kohoʻana i kahi mea e kahaha nui ai, e hahai i ka makemake o ka kaikamahine hānau, e noʻonoʻo i konaʻano, keʻano o kānaʻoihana makemake.
Inā he kuke ka hoa a makemake e kuke i nā meaʻono, a laila e mālama i nā hoaaloha a meʻoe ma mua, a laila, ma keʻano he makana, hāʻawi iā ia me kahi pukeʻai nui, nāʻano mīhiniʻano'ē a iʻole i hoʻonohonohoʻia no kaʻokiʻana i nā mea kanu a me nā hua.
ʻO nā mea he nui e like me nā makana pilikino: he kīʻaha me kahi inoa, he uluna me kahi kiʻi, he T-shirt me kāu pūnaewele. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole e waiho ka makana i kāu kaikamahine lā.
Inā he mea maikaʻi a he nani nā hoaaloha, a laila,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻonele i kahi kālā eʻoluʻolu ai iā ia. ʻO kahi makana maikaʻi i kēia hihia, he mea hoʻopalaʻau waiwai, meaʻala maikaʻi loa,ʻeke, lole lole a me ka moenaʻula. Inā hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i nā mea, hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai i nā mea waiwai, ma mua o ka hikiʻole i kahi wahine ke kū.
E hāʻawi i nā makana mai ka naʻau maʻemaʻe, e hoʻopiha iā lākou i ke aloha a me ka mālama.