No ka wā lōʻihi, ua nui ka hoihoi o nā kānaka i nā māhoe a me nā māhoe, no ka mea, ua leʻaleʻa mau lākou i ka manawa. I nā makahiki i hala iho nei, ua piʻi nui ka hānauʻana o nā māhoe a me nā māhoe. A he nui nā poʻe i makemake i kaʻikeʻana i nā māhoe a me nā māhoe, aia kekahi mau hanana kūikawā no ka hoʻohumuʻana a iʻole nā mea e kōkua ai i kēia?
ʻO nā kumu o ka makemake, e like me ka mea e nānā nei nā kānaka, pehea e like ai keʻano o ke hāpai me nā māhoe a me nā māhoe ma ke kanaka. ʻO kekahi mau moekolohe e moe i ka nui o ka hāpaiʻana, i mea e hānau ai nā keiki i kekahi lā, aʻaʻole e hoʻomanaʻo hou. Manaʻo kekahi poʻe aia he pili i waena o nā māhoe a me nā māhoe, e hiki iā lākou ke ola i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia a pau. Aia kekahi manawa i ka pilikia o kekahi mau wāhine i ka hānauʻana o nā keiki, a makemake lākou e hāpai i nā keiki i ka manawa hoʻokahi, iʻole lākou e hoʻolimalima i ko lākou ikaika a me nā kumuwaiwai ma ka manaʻo o ka lua o nā keiki.
ʻO kāu mau kumu, ma kēiaʻatikala e loaʻa ana iāʻoe nāʻaoʻao e hāpai ai me nā māhoe a māhoe paha.
Pehea e hāpai ai i nā māhoe a māhoe paha
ʻO ka nui o ka hāpaiʻana i ka hānauʻana o nā māhoe a māhoe paha i loko o nā wahine eʻai i kaʻuala. ʻO ka hānauʻana o nā māhoe a me nā māhoe ma kekahi mau kānaka,ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe ma mua o ko haʻi. ʻO kēia ma muli o kaʻikeʻana o kēia mau lāhui (ka hapanui o nāʻohana'ē aʻe), i kaʻai, aia nāʻuala ma nāʻano nui. Manaʻo nā kānakaʻepekema he loko nāʻuala kahi mea e hoʻonui ai i ka manaʻo o nā māhoe a me nā māhoe.
ʻO ka likelike o ka māhoe a me nā māhoe hoʻi e hoʻonui i nā wāhine hānai. Ke hōʻoia nei nā haʻawina o nā kānakaʻepekema mai nā pūnaehanaʻepekema i ka hoʻouluʻana i ka wā hānai e hoʻonui i ka manawa e hānau ai nā māhoe a me nā māhoe ma muli o ka pauʻana o ke kino o ka makua hānai ma hope o ka hānauʻana a me ka hoʻolālā houʻia i loko o kēia manawa e pili pono ana i ka hana o ka'ōpiopio a me ka hua ka manawa o ka hoʻohuaʻana.
Ua'ōlelo nā akamai e loaʻa i nā kaikuaʻana ka manawa e hānau ai nā māhoe a me nā māhoe, a me ka wahine kahiko,ʻo kaʻoi aʻe. ʻO kēia ma muli o ka uluʻana o nā hua he nui i loko o kēia mau wāhine ke kōkua i ka pukaʻana o nā māhoe bipila.
ʻO ka hānauʻana o nā māhoe i nā wāhine i loaʻa nā kaikunāne a me nā kaikunāne paha,ʻo ka likelike o ka hānau māhoe he kiʻekiʻe loa. I loko o nāʻohana i hānau pinepineʻia ai nā māhoe a me nā māhoe, ma kahi o ka māmā makuahine,ʻo kaʻoi aku paha ka nui.
Loaʻa i nā wāhine o kekahi lāhui kaʻoi aku o ka loaʻa o nā māhoe a me nā māhoe ma mua o nā mea'ē aʻe. Aia kekahi mea iʻikeʻia i kaʻikeʻepekema e hānau pinepineʻia nā māhoe a me nā māhoe ma nā wāhineʻAmelika.
Hiki i nā wāhine ke lawe i nā lāʻau kūikawā e hoʻonui i ka uluʻana, e hāpai pū nō hoʻi me nā māhoe a me nā māhoe. Hoʻoponoponoʻia nā lāʻau lapaʻau no nā makuahine o ka wā e hiki mai ana,
Hiki i nā wāhine ke hana i ka hoʻolaʻau momona ke hānau i nā māhoe bipepal a me monozygotic. Nā kūlana o ka momona i hoʻohālikelikeʻia i nā wāhine i hikiʻole ke hāpai i ke keiki, me ka hana kūpono, hoʻonui i nā manawa o ka hānauʻana i nā māhoe a me nā māhoe.
Hiki ke hoʻoholo i nā hopena i kēia, ināʻaʻoleʻoe no ka lāhui a no ka lāhui'ē aʻe,ʻaʻoleʻoe he māhoe a māhoe paha i loko o kouʻohana,ʻaʻole no nā wāhine, ma lalo o 40,ʻaʻole e hānai i ka pale umauma, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokaʻaʻike i kahi kikowaena lāʻau e hoʻonohonoho i ka lāʻau lapaʻau nou. . Akā, ma mua o ka hanaʻana i kekahi ana, e noʻonoʻo pono i ka pono e hanaʻia.
Ke makemake neiʻo ia me kaʻoiaʻiʻo i ka hauʻoli a me ke olakino!