ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua moe kēlā me kēia kanaka no ka noho muaʻana i ka hoa hana moekolohe o kāna mea i waeʻia, akā,ʻaʻole kēlā wahine kēia wahine e hauʻoli i kaʻikeʻana he wahine puʻupaʻa kāna kāne . No ke aha e like me ka pololeiʻole? ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, no ka hapalua o ka hapanui o nā kānaka, he mea nui kaʻike o ka hoa pilikino, no ka mea, ināʻaʻole he kaikamahine a me kahi kanaka iʻike, eʻoi aku ka paʻakikī iā lākou e aʻo i ka mea e leʻaleʻa ai kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ke kaikamahine me ka hauʻoli nui e hilinaʻi i ke kanaka akamai iʻole e hāʻawi iā ia ma ke akamai o nā pāʻani aloha.
Pehea eʻike ai i kahi wahine puʻupaʻa? No ka pane pololeiʻana i kēia nīnau, pono ia e hoʻolohe i kekahi mau hanana i loaʻa i ka wā e kamaʻilio ai nā mea aloha a, ma mua o ka moekoloheʻana.
Pehea e maopopo ai he kanaka puʻupaʻa ke kanaka?
- Hoʻohaʻahaʻa a me ke koʻikoʻi i nā hana. Pehea e hana ai kekahi wahine puʻupaʻa? ʻOiaʻiʻo, ma keʻano kūpono, no ka mea e ho'āʻoʻo ia e hūnā, makemake nui loaʻo ia iā ia, a ināʻoe e nānā pono aku, eʻikeʻoe i ke koʻikoʻi o kāna mau hana, e haʻalulu a makaʻu.
- Ka paʻakikī wahaʻole. Ke makaʻu nui nei ke kaikamahine puʻupaʻa e hōʻike i konaʻano hoʻokahi, no laila eʻaʻaʻoleʻo ia e kamaʻilio i kēia "ma nāʻano a pau. ʻAʻoheʻano'ē aʻe o keʻano'ē, a ma kāna mauʻahaʻaina,ʻaʻoleʻoe e lohe i nā meaʻino.
- Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai i ke kāne'ōpiopio? ʻOiaʻiʻo, no nā nīnau'ē aʻe. Eia kekahi laʻana, penei: "Ua maopopo aneiʻoʻoe ka mea pono e hana ai?" "ʻAʻoleʻoe e manaʻo he mea naniʻole ke hanaʻana?" "No ke aha e hana ai?" a pela like. A e nīnau mai kekahi kanaka'ē iāʻoe, "He wahine puʻupaʻaʻoe?" ʻO kekahi mea'ē aʻeʻaʻole makemake, akā, lawe wale i nā mea a pau i loko o ko lākou lima pono'ī a nānā.
- ʻO ka'ōpū piha i ka moe. Ua hōʻeaʻoe i kēia wahi a, i ka manawa, ua hoʻohilahilaʻoe, no laila ua'ōloheloheʻoe i mua ona a he hana wale nōʻoe, akā eʻike kokeʻoeʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻike pono i ka hana a me keʻano. Ponoʻoe e hōʻike a haʻi i ka mea pehea.
- Pehea e hoʻoholo ai he kanaka puʻupaʻa ke kanaka? Keʻano maʻalahi, like
ʻO ka rula, ua wikiwiki loa ka wahine puʻupaʻa, i mea e hiki ai i ka moekolohe ke hala i kekahi mau kekona. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻohe mea e hopohopo ai, aʻaʻole paha e like me kēia. Ma hope o ka manawa, aʻoʻo ia e mālama iā ia iho aʻo kou kokoke e lawe iāʻoe i ka leʻaleʻa muaʻole.
E nā wāhine aloha, ināʻoe e hopohopo e pili ana i ka nīnau: "Pehea e nānā ai i ka wahine puʻupaʻa?" E noʻonoʻo, pono anei? No ke aha e hoʻomaopopo a hoʻomaopopo i nā hewa i loko o kāu mea i aloha ai? No ka manawa mua,ʻaʻoleʻo ia wale no ka lanakila ma luna o kona hopohopo a me ke kūlana palekana , mai hanaʻoe i kahi pilikia mai ka'ō'ō. ʻAʻole pono ka wahine ke nānā aku i ka wahineʻokoʻa me nā tausani o nā mea ma hope ona. ʻO nā mea a pau e hiki iāʻoe ke aʻo a me kahi wahine aloha hoʻokahi,ʻaʻole loa e hoʻokuʻu i kona kānalua.