ʻAʻohe'ōlelo kūpono o nā moe e pili ana i ka luahine, no ka mea, he mea nui e noʻonoʻo i nāʻike'ē aʻe o keʻano, no ka mea, he aha keʻano o ia,ʻo ia he maikaʻi, heʻino paha, pehea kāu hana, peheaʻoe e launa pū ai me ia, a pēlā aku. Ma hope o ke kākauʻana i kahi kiʻi kūpono e hiki ai iā mākou ke hele i ka weheweheʻana.
No ke aha i moe ai kaʻelemakule?
Inā huhū kekahi wahine me ka uē - he'ōlelo aʻo kēia e pili ana i ke ola o kekahiʻano pilikia. I ka wā e hiki mai ana, he pono ke noho ma ka makaʻala aʻaʻole hoʻi e komo i nā hanana kūpono. I ka moeʻuhane i ka moeʻuhane, heʻelemakule ka wahine e noi ana i ke aloha manawa,ʻo ia ka waiwai o ka nalowaleʻana o ke kālā , no laila he mea pono ke hoʻolohe. ʻO kaʻelemakule i loko o kaʻaʻahu keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia,ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻaʻole e liʻuliʻu e hoʻokōʻia nā mahele kahiko.
ʻO kaʻikeʻana i loko o ka moeʻuhane he wahineʻelemakule weliweli i kahiʻeleʻeleʻeleʻele he hōʻailonaʻino ia, e hōʻike ana i ka hopena o kahi maʻi lōʻihi. Hōʻike ka mea unuhi'ōlelo moe i kēia hoʻohanaʻana a mālama i kāu olakino. Inā heʻeleʻele keʻokeʻo kaʻelemakule, a laila, e hiki koke mai ana nā hanana hauʻoli, a hiki i ka mea moeʻuhane keʻoliʻoli me kona mau hoaaloha. ʻO ka moeʻuhane i hōʻikeʻia e ka wahine kahiko i kapaʻia i kaʻaʻahuʻeleʻele, he hōʻailona ia e kūpono ana ka hoʻomākaukauʻana no kekahi mau pilikia e hāpaiʻia ma ka hana.
Ināʻoliʻoli aʻelemakule kaʻelemakule, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke manaʻo e hoʻonui i ke kūlana ma ka pae honua. ʻO ka moeʻuhane i hōʻikeʻia e ka wahineʻelemakuleʻeleʻele a me kaʻelemakule,ʻo ia hoʻi, ma ke ala e hiki ai ke hoʻokō i ka hana e pono ai ke pale i nā pilikia. No kaʻikeʻana i kahi kupuna wahine i make i loko o ke pahu kāwili, a laila e manaʻoʻoe i nā meaʻino. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o kahiʻelemakule e noi ana i ke kōkua, he hōʻailona ia e wiki koke ana i kahi hoaaloha. Inā makemake kaʻelemakule i nā manaʻo maikaʻi, a laila, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka holomua i kaʻoihana.