ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻaʻole nā moe a pau eʻoluʻolu a hauʻoli. Ma hope o kekahi, lele mākou me kaʻoluʻolu mai kahi moe a lōʻihi loa e hoʻomanaʻo i ka manaʻo kaumaha. Mai kēia moʻolelo eʻikeʻoe i keʻano o ka pepehiʻana i kekahi kanaka.
No ke aha i moeʻuhane ai ka pepehi?
ʻO ka mea nui, ināʻoe iʻike ma ka moeʻuhane i ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailonaʻino ia e hōʻike ana i ka haunaele a me ka hikiʻana mai o nā hōʻehaʻehaʻole e hōʻoluʻoluʻole iāʻoe.
Inā ma hope o ka moeʻuhane e hoʻomanaʻo wale nōʻoe i ka mea maoli i make kekahi,ʻo ia hoʻi he pilikiaʻoe i loko o kahi kūlana maikaʻiʻole i ka wā e pono aiʻoe e kākoʻo. Eia kekahi, ma kahi o ka hohonu o kāu mau meaʻikeʻole he paio nui. Ināʻikeʻoe i kēlā mau moeʻuhane me kekahi mauʻoihana maʻamau, a laila e nīnauʻoe i kahi kanaka kālaihana a ho'āʻo e hōʻolo i nā pilikia i loaʻa a hoʻokuʻuʻia. Ināʻikeʻoe ma ka moeʻuhane peheaʻoe e pepehi ai i ke kanaka, a lailaʻoleʻike i kahi e hūnā ai i kona kino, hōʻike kēia i kahi hana maikaʻiʻole i mua e waiho ai i kahi hōʻailona ma kou ola no ka manawa lōʻihi.
No ke aha i hiamoe ai ka pepehiʻana i kekahiʻenemi?
Eia naʻe, i kekahi mau mea, eʻike i ka makeʻana o ka moeʻuhane - he hōʻailona, ma keʻano he maikaʻi. No laila, inā pepehiʻoe i kaʻenemi, he mea hoʻopōʻino a mea paha nāna e hōʻeha aku iāʻoe no ka palekana, ponoʻoe e hōʻike i ke kūpaʻa a me ke kūpaʻa o keʻano: mahalo i kēia mau hiʻohiʻona, hiki iāʻoe ke lanakila i ka hopena o nā pilikia e hālāwai aiʻoe ma kāu ala.
No ke aha i hiamoe ai ka pepehiʻana me ka pahi?
Ke hōʻike nei kēia moe i kou huhū i loko, kū'ē iāʻoe iho a me waho o ka honua. Ināʻoe e pepehi i kaʻenemi - hōʻike kēia i ka waiwai nui e ukuʻia aiʻoe. Ināʻoe e pepehi iāʻoe iho me ka pahi ma kou moe, e loaʻa iāʻoe ka hauʻoli. ʻO kekahiʻano'ē aʻe o ka ho'ākākaʻana e'ōlelo wikiwiki ana e loaʻa iāʻoe nā pilikia e lanakila aiʻoe ma kāu iho.
No ke aha i moeʻuhane ai i ka pepehiʻana i kahi keiki?
Inā ma ka moeʻuhaneʻoe e pepehi ai i kahi keiki palekana - he hōʻailona hōʻailona kēia, e hōʻike ana i nā pahuhopu paʻakikī i loko o ke ola e hikiʻole ke hoʻopōʻino i kou hopena. Akā, inā heʻenemiʻoe, he keiki hōʻeha, hoʻomaha ka hiamoe i kahi hoʻopakele mai kahi pilikia.
No nā wāhine, heʻano hewaʻole kēia moeʻuhane. Ināʻike ka makuahine, hōʻike kēia i nā keiki a nele i ka pale a mālama; inā he keiki keikiʻole - a laila,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i mākaukau e hānai i nā keiki.
No ka hoʻohaʻahaʻaʻana i nā hopena o kahi moe hiamoe, e ho'āʻo e uku i ka nānā aku i nā pilikia o kou ola, kākoʻo i kouʻohana, pono,ʻano a me ka hāmama -ʻo kēia ka meaʻoi loa e pale aku ai i nā pilikia o ke ola.