Ma hope o kaʻikeʻana i ka mea e lilo i makuahine, e hoʻomaka ana ka wahine e noʻonoʻo -ʻo wai ka mea eʻikeʻia, he keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha. Uaʻikeʻia nā manaʻo likeʻole a me kona hoa pilikino, a me nāʻohana a pau. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, a hiki i ka lā o ke ultrasound, ka mea hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i ka wahine o ke keiki hānai, e mamao loa aku ia, aʻaʻole i ka manawa eʻae ai ka pēpē e huli i hiki ai i kekahi keʻike i kāna wahine. No laila, ma muli o ka moeʻana o nā mākua no kā lākou kaikamahine, uaʻoluʻolu nā mākua eʻike i nā hōʻailona o ka'ōpūʻana o kahi kaikamahine i kahi kohoʻia i waena o nā kānaka, a inā paha e like mau me kaʻike.
Nā hōʻailona mua o ke kaikamahine hāpai
ʻO ka mea mua, ua manaʻoʻia ua laweʻia e ke kaikamahine "ka nani o ka makuahine ma hope. ʻO ka manawa koke, me ka hoʻomakaʻana o ka'ōpū, eʻikeʻia nā hōʻailona o ka hāpaiʻana e like me ke kaikamahine, e like me keʻano puffy a pāhūlū, keʻano o kaʻili i hoʻololiʻia, keʻano o nāʻili o kaʻili a pēlā aku. ʻO kēia mau mea a pau ma muli o nā kumu noʻeau a me nā kumuhana, a hiki nō hoʻi ke kuhikuhi aku i ka mea e kali nei ka makuahine ma hope o kāna kaikamahine.
ʻO ka makepū i loko o ke kaikamahine'ōpū
ʻO ka heleʻana o ka meaʻawaʻawa i ka wā o ka hāpaiʻanaʻaʻole ia e pili i ka wahine o ka pēpē, akā hiki i kona lōʻihi ke hōʻike i keʻano o ka mea e kali nei. Manaʻoʻia he hoʻomehana lōʻihi a hoʻonāukiuki ka lōʻihi no nā mea e kali ana no ke kaikamahine, pinepine ka hopena a me ke olakino maikaʻi me ka makuahine i ka'ōpū. E maʻalahi ka kaliʻana no kahi keikikāne e pili ana i kēia. Ua'ōleloʻiaʻo nā wāhine hāpai me nā kaikamāhine e hilinaʻi ana ma luna o ka momona a me ka hauʻulu, aʻo ka mea e kali ana i nā keikikāne, ma keʻano'ē aʻe, makemake lākou i kaʻiʻo. ʻO kekahi kekahi e huki i ka beer a me ka waiʻona'olika, a, no ka mea, ua pāpāʻia kēia kūlana.
ʻO keʻano o ka'ōpū ke'ōpū kekahi kaikamahine
ʻOiai, i ka manawa e hāpai ai ke kaikamahine, heʻano paʻakikī ka'ōpū,ʻaʻole kokoke i ka pūhaka ka'ō, a mai ka hope mai, uaʻike maopopoʻia ua hāpaiʻo ia. Akā, he manawa kūpono ia e hoʻoholo ai i kahiʻano o ka'ōpū o ka makuahine he naʻaupō a he naʻaupō paha ia, no ka mea, nona iho ka piko o kēlā wahine kēia wahine nona iho, a no laila e ulu ana ka maha o ka'ōpū ma nāʻano likeʻole. ʻO ka'ōpū i ka wā e hāpai ai ke kaikamahine, hiki ke palekana nuiʻia, akā,ʻo ka hoʻopihapiha i loko o ia manawa e lilo nō ia i mea pōkole.
Nāʻano'ē aʻe o ke kaikamahine hāpai
Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole i lawa kēia mau mea, a keʻimi nei nā mākua i ka wā e hiki ai i nā'ōuli o ka'ōpū ke hoʻokūpaʻa i kā lākou mau manaʻo. Nui nā poʻe i waena o nā leo o nā kānaka i hikiʻole ke weheweheʻia. Ke laʻana, inā makemakeʻo makua i ka loleʻaʻahuʻole, a laila e loaʻa iā ia he kaikamahine, aʻo kekahi poʻe'ē aʻe. ʻOiai,ʻo ka hopena, e like paha ka manawa i kēlā me kēia manawa.
He maʻalahi loa ka hoʻoholoʻana i ka mea e loaʻa i ka wahine, he keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha, e hānau pinepine. Ināʻaʻole iʻokoʻa ka'ōpū ma kāna papahele mai nā mea i hala, a laila,ʻo ka mea like paha,ʻo ka wahine keʻano hoʻokahi, inā manaʻo ka wahine i kekahiʻano likeʻole eʻikeʻia, a laila, e kū'ē ke kāne. ʻO nā hōʻailona o ka'ōpū o kekahi kaikamahine a me kahi keikikāne e hōʻikeʻia ana i nāʻano likeʻole,
Ma kekahiʻaoʻao,ʻo nā hōʻailona a pau o ka manaʻoʻana o ke kaikamahine, he kūlana paʻa loa ia. Hiki ke hoʻopunipuniʻia ke kahapona, a keʻano pinepine nei nā mākua e kali ana no ke kaikamahine, a ma mua i ka hānauʻana, uaʻikeʻo ia he keiki kāne kā lākou. Akā, i ka manawa like, ua noʻonoʻo koʻu makuahine i ka mea inā pēlā, no laila inā hoʻohālikelike nā hōʻailona a pau, a maopopo iāʻoe ke kali neiʻoe no ke kaikamahine, hiki iāʻoe ke hilinaʻi me ka hilinaʻi i kouʻike. He mea hikiʻole paha iā ia ke hāʻule. A ināʻo ka ultrasound i ka wā o ka'ōpū e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ke kaikamahine, eʻike nōʻoe ua manaʻoʻiʻo lākou i ko lākouʻike.