Ua laweʻia ka hua'ōlelo "mau mīkini lua" mai ka puke Pelekane maiʻo Elizabeth Claire, "Kindred Souls and Twin Flames". Wahi a ka mea kākau, i ka wā mua, he kāne a he wahine, i hanaʻia kekahi i kekahi. ʻO lākou ka māhoe ahi o kēlā me kēia a me kahi aʻa hoʻokahi. ʻO kēia hiʻohiʻona o ka cosmology hou - no ka hāʻawiʻana i ka hoʻohākiki i nā ho'ākāka mua a me nā mea iʻikeʻoleʻia - uaʻikeʻia ma ke aʻoʻana i nā welaʻelua, iʻikeʻia he mau kāne kāne a wahine paha ma kekahiʻano nui.
Aia nā hōʻailonaʻelua me nā hōʻailona e hōʻike ana. ʻO kēia mau kānaka, he kūponoʻole i ko lākou mau hiʻohiʻona a me ko lākouʻano hoʻokahi i loko o kaʻuhane (ʻoiai he palapala kekahi i kekahi manawa,ʻo ia keʻano likeʻole). Ua pololei lākou i kekahi i kekahi, me heʻelua hapa o ka lōkahi. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, pēlā nō, mai ka nānāʻana i ke aʻoʻana o nā welaʻelua.
Makemake nā kānaka e noʻonoʻo i nā ahi ahi - pehea eʻike ai?
Aia kekahi manaʻo eʻike maikaʻi nei kēia poʻe i kahi mamao aku, ke nānā nei lākou i ke kiʻi hoʻokahi, e hoʻolohe i kahi mele hoʻokahi. I kekahi manawa,ʻike lākou i kaʻoliʻoli a iʻole ia e like me ko lākou lālā māhoe,ʻoiaiʻaʻole he kumu no ka hanaʻana i kēia.
ʻO ka pilina ma waena o nā ahi ahi he alohaʻole. ʻOiai aia kahiʻano likeʻole he ahi mau māhoe,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hui pinepine, no ka meaʻaʻole lākou i ola i ka manawa like, keʻole ia e makemakeʻia no kekahi mauʻoihana kiʻekiʻe aʻe. No laila, aia nō ke kālolina o kēia ao i kāna pono pono'ī.
Pehea eʻike ai i kāu lālā māhoe?
ʻAe, i ka lua o ka manaʻo, he meaʻole ka nānāʻana iā ia. A i ka wa mua - hiki a me ka pono. Eia ka waiwai o nā maka o ka maka. Ma laila eʻikeʻia ai kaʻuhane.
Keʻike pinepineʻia nei nā ahi ahi e like me kaʻike i ko lākou ola a pau. Inā, i kaʻike,ʻike kekahi kanaka i kekahiʻano like me ia, pono paha ua hālāwaiʻo ia me kāna ahi māhoe.
Keʻikeʻoe inā paha kēia he māhoe luaʻoe, ponoʻoe e hilinaʻi ma kaʻike . Hiki iā ia ke haʻi inā he kanaka a heʻole paha.
Inā loaʻa i kekahi kanaka kāna kukui māhoe, e hiki ke hōʻailonaʻia nā hōʻailona o ka hōʻoia:
- Aia kekahi manaʻo uaʻikeʻo ia i kēia kanaka i kona ola a pau.
- ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke aloha iā ia,ʻaʻole naʻe ma ke aloha, akā, no kaʻikeʻia o keʻano pilina o ke kino.
- Kūpono nā kūlana i ka hui.
No laila, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻopau i ka wā e hui aiʻoe i kāu māhoe, eʻike koke kekahi kanakaʻo "noʻu kēia," aʻaʻohe mea'ē aʻe e makemake eʻike hou.