ʻO ka hānauʻana o kahi kaikamahine liʻiliʻi he mea hauʻoli loa ia ma nāʻohana. Ua kūkā neiʻo Māmā a me nā kupunawahine i keʻano o ke kākoʻo o lākou. A ua poina paha koʻu makuakāne a me koʻu mau mākua kāne e kali ana lākou no ke keiki. Makemake nā hoa a me ka pilina e lilo i mau mākua'ōpiopio a me nā mea'ōpiopio. No laila, inā he lā nui no kaʻohana a pau, pono e mahaloʻia nā mea a pau. No laila, eʻikeʻoe i ka mahalo o ke kaikamahine hou i ka makuakāne a me ke kupunawahine.
Mahalo i ke kaikamahine i hānau houʻia
I mea e mahalo ai i ka pilina ma ka hānauʻana o kahi kaikamahine,ʻaʻole pono e kākau i nā mele a iʻole nā poemaka kauoha, ua lawa ka haʻiʻana i kāu manaʻo. ʻO ka mahalo i ke kaikamahine hou i hiki iā ia ke'ōleloʻia ma kāna mau'ōlelo pono'ī,ʻo ia wale nō ka heleʻana mai ka naʻau maʻemaʻe.
He aha ka mea i makemake nuiʻia e ka mea liʻiliʻi? ʻO ke ola, olakino, ka waiū o ka makuahine momona, ulu maikaʻi, hoʻolohe, i hana nā mea a pau i ke ola, eʻoluʻolu i kou mau mākua a me nā kūpuna, aʻo ka mea nui loa - ka hauʻoli nui a me ka luhi. ʻO keʻano,ʻo kēlā mau hoʻohālikeʻana o kahi kaikamahineʻuʻuku e like me ka'ānela, he kapuaʻiʻeleʻele, heʻili o ka lā, he aliʻi wahine'ē aʻe a he mau mea'ē aʻe kekahi e mahaloʻia.
ʻAʻole pono ka heleʻana o kaʻahahui a pau me nā makana a me ka hoʻohanohano e mahalo i kaʻohana me ka hoʻopihaʻana. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, me ka hikiʻana mai o ka pēpē, e hāʻawi mau nā mākua i ko lākou manawa a pau, aʻo kēlā hapa liʻiliʻi o ka manawa e hiamoe ana ke kaikamahine, a hoʻopau houʻia nā mea a pau, makemake e hoʻomaha, aʻaʻole hoʻi e hui pū me nā kamaliʻi mele. E hōʻike i kou hauʻoli no nā mākua'ōpio ma ka hoʻounaʻana i ke kāleka aloha, kāheaʻana a hoʻounaʻana i ka SMS.
No nā makana, makemake wau e hoʻomaopopo i nā mākua i makemake i nā koho kālā. No ka mea, ua manaʻo lākou uaʻike nui lākou ma mua o nā mea'ē aʻe i kā lākou mau keiki aloha. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, makemakeʻole wau e loaʻaʻekolu mau lauhuʻuʻeleʻele likeʻole aiʻole nā pēpē likeʻole.
Mahalo i ke kaikamahine hou i ka helu
ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā makemakeʻoe eʻike i waena o ka poʻe aloha, hiki iāʻoe ke kākau i ka leʻaleʻa ma keʻano mele. A iʻole ināʻaʻoleʻoe e loaʻa i kēlāʻano talent, hiki iāʻoe ke kauoha i ke kauka poemia aiʻole e huli pono ma ka Pūnaewele.
E like hoʻi me:
Aiaʻekolu oʻoe i kēia lā,
Pōmaikaʻi, a nui.
ʻO Stork mai ka lani mai
Ma nā'ēheu o ke aloha i lawe mai
ʻO kahi'āpana nui loa
Mai ke aloha alohaʻole, makemake.
E hānai iāʻoe i ke keiki,
Mai hōʻino wale hoʻi!
E ikaika ka ola
ʻO kāu pēpē nani!
No laila, he manawa maikaʻi loa!
ʻO ka hauʻoli, ke aloha a me ka hauʻoli!
E hauʻoli loa ka makuahine a me ka makua i ka heluheluʻana i kēlā mau'ōleloʻano maikaʻi ma ke kāleka aloha, a no ka papaʻi nui i hoʻonohonohoʻia i nā leka me nā poʻomanaʻo i kākauʻia.
Pehea e mahalo ai i ke kupunawahine i ka hānauʻana o kāna moʻopuna?
Aia kekahi'ōlelo no nā kupunawahine ke keiki mua a ke keiki mua, aʻoi aku ka nui o ka moopuna i lōʻihi i kakaliʻia i nā lipoma māliki. ʻOiaʻiʻo, uaʻae ke kupuna wahine i ka hoʻonaniʻana mai kona mau hoaaloha a me kāna mau hoa hana.
Holo wikiwiki ka manawa,
Ke ulu nei kēia pēpē,
A i kekahi lā, akā,
E kapaʻiaʻoe he "wahine"
E pili ana ma nāʻaoʻao a pau,
He kumuala o ka hoʻopaʻi,
E waihoʻia nā pā lepo,
I ka pī mai ka papaʻaina e amo,
Ke kali nei iāʻoe me kona kai o ka hauʻoli,
Ua pono iāʻoe,
E ola ka moʻopuna a ke keiki,
No lailaʻo ia ke paʻakai i ke ola!
Me nā palapala kāleka a me nā hōʻailona, laweʻia kekahi hana mana liʻiliʻi e nā nani nani o nā lole, nā mea hanaʻoluʻolu (palupalu, paʻa a me nā piʻi), a me kekahi mea e pono ai no ke kamāliʻiwahine (pēke, nā kīʻaha). No ka poʻe pāʻani no ka hoʻokumu muaʻia, ua hāʻawiʻia ka mākeke o nā waiwai a me nā lawelawe: nā'āpana momona, nā makana mai nā diapeka a me nā mea'ē aʻe.
No laila,ʻo ka hoʻonaniʻana i nā mea likeʻole (a iʻoleʻo kēlā me kēia)ʻo nā lālā o kaʻohana me ke kaikamahine hānau hou e like me ka mea maʻamau, a hiki ke lilo i mea holoʻokoʻa, no nā mākua, he meaʻoluʻolu loa nā mākua. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ka mahaloʻia o ka pēpē a me ka makana heʻoiaʻiʻo aʻoiaʻiʻo.