I ko mākou'āina nui a lapuwale, ma ka hoʻolimalimaʻana i ke kālā a me nā mea waiwai'ē aʻe, nānā nā kānaka i kekahi manawa aʻike lākou he kaʻawale wale nō lākou. Me nā kelepona, ka pūnaewele a me nāʻoihana'ēhana'ē aʻe,ʻo ka nīnau i kahi e loaʻa ai nā hoaaloha e wehe mau ana. Eia naʻe, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e noho i loko o ka hale paʻahao a hoʻoikaika,ʻaʻole e paʻakikī ka loaʻaʻana o nā hoaaloha.
Ma hea e loaʻa ai iaʻu nā hoaaloha?
Loaʻa mākou i nā hoa ma laila, kahi e hele mau ai mākou: ma ke kula, ke kulanui, ma kahiʻoihana aiʻole ma nā papa'ē aʻe. Inā hiki iāʻoe keʻike i kekahi kanaka kūpono i kēia mau wahi kokoke, mai hopohopoʻoe e komo aku me ia. E nīnau e pili ana i kāna mau hana, eʻimi i kahi mea likeʻole ma waena oʻoukou, e hāʻawi i ke kōkua a noi i ke kōkua. Ināʻoluʻoluʻoe i ka manawa, ke aloha a me ke aloha, no ka mea,ʻaʻole ia he pilikia i ka loaʻaʻana o nā hoaaloha.
Eia naʻe,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi loa e ho'āʻo e loaʻa nā hoaaloha ma nā pono. No ka hanaʻana i kēia, hoʻoholo i kāu mau makemake a kau inoa no nā papa kūpono. Hiki iā ia ke hele aku i ke kula, ka hale kiʻi kiʻi, ke hula a me ka hoʻoikaika kino, nā papa'ōlelo'ōlelo'ē aʻe a iʻole ke kuʻiʻana a me ke kāhili. E koho i kahi kahi nui o nā kānaka o kāu kāne me nā pono like. Ma kēia hihia, e maʻalahi ka maʻalahi iāʻoe e hoaaloha, no ka mea, he mau mea maʻamau ia. He ala maikaʻi kēia eʻike ai i nā hoaaloha ma nā makahiki.
Eia hou, hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa nā hoaaloha no ke kamaʻilio pololeiʻana ma kahi e noho aiʻoe, keʻole ināʻaʻoleʻoe e noho ana ma kahiʻoihana kūikawā, akā, ma kahi hale kūkulu hale. Mai hopohopo eʻike me nā hoalauna a aloha aku iā lākou i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e hui ai. Inā hōʻikeʻoe i ka hoihoi i kahi kanaka, pono iā ia ke makemake loa iāʻoe.
Pūnaewele a me nā hālāwai ma ka Pūnaewele e hāʻawi i ka manawa he nui e loaʻa ai nā hoaaloha ma nā leka. ʻO ke ala maʻalahi loa e hana i kēia kahi kahi e noi ai nā kānaka i ka'ōlelo aʻo a kōkua paha: ma ka'ōlelo maikaʻi i kahi kanaka, eʻikeʻoe i kona aloha a me kona hoihoi iāʻoe, a ma
Pehea e loaʻa ai kahi hoaaloha maikaʻi?
Hoʻokaʻawaleʻia kekahi puka ma kēia wahi. ʻAʻoleʻoe e koho i kahi e hālāwai aiʻoe me kahi kanaka e lilo i hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, kākoʻo a kākoʻo iāʻoe. Eia kekahi, no ka paʻakikī e koho pehea e loaʻa ai nā hoaaloha pono. Hiki i kēia mau mea wale nō ma ka ho'āʻo a me ke kuhi. A ināʻaʻole kekahi - e hele wale.