ʻO ka manawa maʻamau, aia i loko o hoʻokahi lumi lumi, hiki i nā mākua ke waihoʻelua keiki i ka manawa hoʻokahi. Aʻo kēia keʻano o kēlā me kēia o lākou e pono i ko lākou wahi pono'ī, kahi locker no nā mea likeʻole a me nāʻaʻahu, a, heʻoiaʻiʻo, he moe kaʻawale. Akā, no ka mea maʻamau ma kahi lumi hoʻokahiʻaʻole lawa kahi no kēia mau pono a pau, ponoʻoe e huli i kahi koho'ē aʻe e mālama i kahi kūpono. No ka hanaʻana i kēia, he nui nā mākua e kūʻai ana i nā moopuna no nā keikiʻelua. Hāʻawiʻia i nāʻano likeʻole he nui loa, hiki iāʻoe ke koho no kāu mau keiki i nā wahi hiamoe maʻamau e lilo i mea hilinaʻi a me ka maikaʻi.
ʻO ka pāʻaniʻana i kēia manawa, nā moena moe no nā keikiʻelua e kāhāhā ana i kā lākou hana. Eia hou, ua pili a maʻalahi lākou. Ma kēiaʻatikala, e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i kekahi mau manaʻo o ia mau mea "lua", i kēia lā iʻikeʻia heʻano kūpono loa.
He mau kiʻi kūpono no nā keikiʻelua?
ʻO ka mea mua, ma ke kūʻaiʻana i kēlā māhele koʻikoʻi o ka lumi o nā lumi, ponoʻoe e koho i nā huahana wale nō mai nā mea maikaʻi. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki ke hōʻino i nā keiki i kaʻawa me nā meaʻawaʻawa a me nā lole i paʻiʻia me ka pena kala.
Nui nā mākua i ka hilinaʻi i ka makemake o nā moopuna no nā kaikamāhine aʻelua paha keiki kāne, akāʻo ka hana hou o ia mau mea hana i nāʻano kūikawā loa e kauoha.
He nani a nani i loko o ka lumi no nā keiki e like me ke keiki moe moe no nā keikiʻelua. Ua hāʻawiʻia kona inoa i kēia kumuhana no ka hoʻolālāʻokoʻa, kahi haʻahaʻa o kahi haʻuki, kahi e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻohana i kēlā me kēia lumi a me ka papa e mālama ai i nā mea likeʻole. ʻO kēia hana a me ka hoʻolālāʻokoʻa o nā moena moe kiʻekiʻe no nā keikiʻelua e hoʻolilo iā lākou i mea nui loa.
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He like hoʻi nā mea kaulana i kēia mau lā, he pahu pahu puka huki no nā keikiʻelua. ʻO kēia kahi ala'ē aʻe e mālama ai i kahi. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, uaʻike mākou i hoʻokahi moe, akā, me he mea kilokilo lā, i ka'ōwiliʻana i kaʻaoʻao lalo o kahi moe, loaʻa iā mākouʻelua mau moena e pili pono ana e hiki ke maʻalahi i ke kāohiʻia.
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E pono i kahi keiki e kāwili ana i nā kapa moe no nā keikiʻelua. Hiki ke kūnā, inā ponoʻoe e hoʻolālā i loko o ka lumi i kahi manawa kūpono, a like me ka maʻalahi e kau i loko o ka neʻe hoʻokahi. Eia kekahi, kokoke i nā hoʻohālike a pau i kūpono i loko o kekahi keʻena.
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