He nui nā mākaʻi o ka wahine maikaʻi e manaʻo nei i kaʻike kūlohelohe maikaʻi e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana i ka holomua o nā kāne. ʻOiai, i ka wā ma mua, nānā ke kanaka i keʻano o ka wahine, aʻaʻole ia he mea ma ka manawa hoʻokahi, he lahilahi a he pyshechka paha, heʻulaʻula a he nani paha, heʻokoʻa a lōʻihi paha - aia nō he mea hoʻomaopopo no kēlā me kēia wahine. He mea nui loa kaʻikeʻana i nā mea e like me nā kaikamāhine i hope o ko lākou puʻupuʻu waho, i nāʻano maʻalahi e hiki ai ke hāpai i kahi kanaka.
Kaʻikepili waho
ʻO ka hapa nui o mākou e nānā wale waleʻia me ka manaʻo o ka liloʻana o ke kaumaha a me ka meaʻoi loa eʻike i nā hōʻailona o ke kaumaha a me nā hemahema. Me kēia mea,ʻaʻohe mea e hanaʻia,ʻo ko mākou holoʻokoʻa kēia, akā,ʻaʻole mākou e like me supermodels mai nā podium. ʻAʻole iaʻo kēlāʻano wahine e hoʻonāukiuki i nā kāne i ke ola. E nānā i nā mea e like me nā wāhine e like me keʻano o ka wahine, a me nāʻike i waho e hiki ke kau i kou manaʻo iāʻoe.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ehia mau kānaka - nui nā manaʻo. Ua loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kanaka kona leʻaleʻa a me kāna mau makemake. Eia naʻe, ma muli o nāʻikepili,ʻaʻole kekahi o lākou e hele aʻe ma nāʻano nani o ka wahine. Ināʻoe he pahu nui a me nā pūpū ākea, akā, me ka'ōmaʻomaʻo lahilahi -ʻo kēia keʻano o nā kaikamāhine i loko o nā kaikamāhine, no ka nui o kou kaumaha.
No nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi loa, e hōʻailona ana kēia i nā manaʻo o nā kānaka. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole maikaʻi nā'ōpio a pau. ʻAʻole ka waiwai nui o kaʻikepili waho e loli koke ai ke poʻo o kekahi kanaka. Hiki i nā maka ke lilo i naʻaupō aʻaʻole loa e lōʻihi, a no ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i kēia,ʻaʻole paha e hoʻolohe ka mea i ka pākeke. Eia kekahi, e hoʻohana wikiwiki ka nani, a ināʻaʻole he kūpono o ke kaikamahine, e kaumaha loa ana ka hopena.
I loko o ka honua
ʻO ka mea nui aku,ʻo ka mea nui i alohaʻia e nā kāne,ʻo ia nāʻano pono o ka wahine, nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi o konaʻano. ʻO ka mea mua,ʻo kēia mauʻano me kaʻike a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ka maʻalahi o ka naʻau a me ka leʻaleʻa, ka naʻau maikaʻi a me ka manaʻo maikaʻi. Inā'ōlelo kekahi kaikamahine e hiki iā ia ke mahalo i ke kanakaʻaʻole he mea e pili ana i ka hana pilina kāne, akā, no ke kanaka, me nā mea a pau a me nā mea maikaʻi a pau,ʻo ia ka mea a nā kānaka e hoʻolohe nei.
No nā mea e pili ana i nā poʻe e pili ana i ka pilina, nāʻano koʻikoʻi maʻaneʻi ka makemake e hoʻomaopopo a kākoʻo i kahi manawa paʻakikī, e hoʻolohe a hōʻoluʻolu, e hōʻoluʻolu. Ma hope o kēlā kaikamahine,ʻaʻole makaʻu ke kanaka i ka hōʻoleʻia, uaʻikeʻo ia i ka loaʻa pono o kona hope, e hiki iā ia ke ho'āʻo a holo i mua i nā pahuhopu nui. ʻAʻohe hewa inā he kaikamahine i konaʻano keʻano o nāʻano like me ka hoʻomaopopo a me ka makemake, ka hiki ke kala aku a nānā hou i nā hemahema - pili kēia i nā mea a nā kāne e like me nā kaikamahine.
ʻO wai kahiʻaʻole pono?
E hele kāua mai kahi'ē aʻe aʻike i nā mea makemakeʻole i nā keiki o nā kaikamāhine,ʻaʻole lākou makemake eʻike i ka mea i waeʻia. Ma waho aʻe o nāʻano maikaʻi loa, e like me ka huhū, ka inaina, ka hae, ka manaʻo nui, a me nā mea'ē aʻe, he nui nā hemahema liʻiliʻi, akā, ua loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kaikamahine. No laila, ināʻoe i nāʻano hemahema, pono e ho'āʻo e hūnā iā lākou i ka mea hiki ke hiki i kāu koho. A hoʻomau mau i ko lākou mau hewa, hiki iāʻoe ke kipaku loa aku iā lākou! No laila, 'aʻole makemake nā kāne i nā kaikamāhine:
- ka makaʻala a me ka haʻaheo;
- eʻimi ana e hōʻike i ko lākou kūlana kiʻekiʻe;
- ole, me ka manaʻo kiʻekiʻe loa;
- nui kūʻokoʻa a kūʻokoʻa;
- ke hoʻohala mau nei i ke kāne;
- nui a pololei loa;
- haaheo a me ka hoopunipuni;
- nā mea huna a me nā kīʻaha;
- eʻimi ana i ka hoʻonele nui i ke kanaka;
- alohaʻole a alohaʻole;
- nā mea pessimists, me ke kaniʻuhū mau, me kaʻoluʻoluʻole a me ka'ūpuni;
- unfeminine.
I ka hanaʻana i kēia, hiki iāʻoe ke hūnā pono i kou mau hewa a hōʻoia i nāʻano a pau i ka hanohano, a e hāʻawiʻia ka manaʻo o ka wahine ikaika iāʻoe!