Hiki i nā wāhine ke kamaʻilio a noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā kāne no nā hola. A makemake lākou e hoʻomaopopo - pehea ka manaʻo o kānaka e pili ana i nā wāhine a pehea ko lākou manaʻo no lākou?
ʻOiaiʻo ka wahine ikaika ka manaʻo a me ka manaʻo paʻa,ʻaʻole hiki ke'ōleloʻia he manaʻo like nā kānaka a pau. Loaʻa i nā kānaka a pau ko lākou mau waiwai, ko lākou mau pahuhopu a me nā makemake. A ua loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kanaka ko lākou iho pono'ī. No laila, hiki iā mākou ke kamaʻilio wale no kekahi mau mea maʻamau no nāʻano a pau. No laila, he aha ka manaʻo o nā kāne nui e pili ana i nā wāhine likeʻole?
Pehea ka manaʻo o nā kānaka no nā kaikamāhine a he aha kā lākou e noʻonoʻo ai iā lākou?
No nā kāne he nui,ʻo ka wahine puʻupaʻa ka mea koʻikoʻi nui loa a me ke koʻikoʻi loa o ke kaikamahine. Kōkuaʻo ia no konaʻano maʻalahi a me ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe o loko. Akā, ua hopohopo kekahi o lākou e komo i nā pili pili me nā kaikamāhine noʻonoʻo ma muli o ko lākouʻike kūpono, kūkino a me keʻano "pono lākou e mare iā ia, no ka mea, ua mālamaʻo ia iā ia iho a ua nui kaʻehaʻana ināʻo kāna kāne mua iā ia. e hele aku. " ʻO ke kolu o nāʻano o nā kānaka e noʻonoʻo pono ai i nā wāhine puʻupaʻa, e'ōlelo ana i ko lākou "ʻemaʻe hewaʻole he mea maikaʻi ". Ke manaʻo nei lākouʻaʻole kēia e makemakeʻia e kēia mau kaikamāhine, "no ka mea,ʻaʻohe mea e pono ai iā lākou," a paʻa iā lākou he "pōpili e pili ana i ko lākou kino a me ko lākou kino" aʻaʻole hoʻi iʻike i kā lākou makemake.
Heʻano likeʻole nā manaʻo o nā kāne no ka mea makemake lākou a pau i nā meaʻokoʻa mai nā wāhine. ʻO ka poʻe eʻimi ana i ka hoʻokipa, ka wahine me nā kuleanaʻole a me ka pilina liʻiliʻi,ʻaʻole lākou e mahalo i ka puʻupaʻa o ke kaikamahine. A inā he mea nui ke kanaka eʻimi i kahi kahi e lilo aiʻo ia hoʻokahi wale nō -ʻaʻole heʻano kūlikeʻole ka puʻupaʻa. ʻO kēlā mea.
He aha nā manaʻo o kānaka e pili ana i kā lākou mau wāhine a me nā wahine hānai?
'Ōlelo nā kāne: "ʻO ka wahine he ala maʻamau o ke ola, hope loa a me ka paʻa. Hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi aku iāʻoe i ka moekolohe a me ka makemake nui, i ka hilinaʻi i kou ikaika a me ka hanaʻole . " Aʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻoi aku ka nui o ka nohoʻana a me ka maluhia ma mua o ka moekolohe ma kaʻaoʻao. No laila, he mea maʻalahiʻole nā kāne ke haʻalele i kā lākou mau wāhine a ho'āʻo e hūnā i kā lākou mau hana mai iā lākou. A inā lākou e hoʻololi i ka mea huna - a laila e hoʻohanohano lākou i ko lākouʻohana a hoʻohanohano i kā lākou wahine, me kaʻole e nalowale.
"He wahine maoli ka wahine aʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo i kuʻu ola me kaʻoleʻo ia. A no nā manaʻo no ka haku wahine a me ka hoʻonāukiuki i ka manawa, a he makemake e kāpae i ka pilina me ia . " Ke hoʻololi nei nā kāne, me ke kuʻiʻole i ka'ōhumu,ʻoiai no ka mea,ʻaʻole like ka wahine me lākou. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke makemake e ola me kā lākou mau wāhine, no laila, mai haʻalele iā lākou. No nā wāhine wahine - i kekahi manawa e noʻonoʻo ai nā kāne e pili ana iā lākou me ke ākea: "ʻO ka nohoʻana me ia wahine, e hiki ke hoʻouluʻia; he aha kona mau pilikino pili pono, inā moeʻo ia me ka wahine i mareʻia, aʻo hea lā ka'ōlelo hoʻohiki e heleʻoleʻo ia mai oʻu aku? "
He aha nā manaʻo o kānaka e pili ana i keʻano o nā wāhine?
ʻO ke kanaka i ka nui a nui, ua ola a uaʻole paha ko lāua hoa, inā paha e kahi i nā wāwae aʻaʻole paha, inā he mau pimples kona a me kona lauoho. Akā hoʻokahi wale nō kūlana - inā makemake kēia kāne i kekahi wahine. "ʻAʻole mākou makapō aʻike mākou a pau. ʻO kā mākou wale nō ke mālamaʻole inā mākou i aloha nui, "wahi a lākou.He aha nā manaʻo o kānaka e pili ana i ke aloha a me ka mare?
"ʻAʻole mākou makaʻu i ka heleʻana o Mendelssohn . "
Akā, i ka wā e ikaika ai ko lākou mau manaʻo,ʻaʻole lākou e kamaʻilio pinepine e pili ana iā lākou aʻaʻole pinepine i ka'ōlelo e haʻaleleʻole i kā lākou mea aloha. Manaʻo lākou e maopopo ana,ʻoiai. Manaʻo lākou: "Inā wau maʻaneʻi, meʻoe -ʻoʻoeʻo kaʻu wahine a ua maikaʻi au iāʻoe. Inā he hewa ia iaʻu, e haʻalele au "
Makemake nā kānaka e hōʻike i ko lākouʻano i nā hana,ʻaʻole ma ka'ōlelo.