ʻO ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki kahi o nā hanana loa loa. E hōʻoia i kaʻikeʻana i ka wahine hāpai a wahine paha e hele ana me ka'ōwili,ʻaʻole ia e hoʻohālike i kou manaʻo. ʻO ia ma ka hui a me kaʻohana me nā hana kūpono he mea maʻamau ke mahalo i nā mākua'ōpio,ʻo ka makuahine paha. Akā, he aha, he mea pono e hāʻawi no ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki a inā heʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo kēia kaikamahine?
He aha e hāʻawi ai no ka hānauʻana o kahi kaikamahine i kahi hoa?
ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻolimalima nui i ke kālā no kēlā makana, no ka mea, he hōʻailona wale nō ia, keʻoleʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale i ke kālā mai ka hui holoʻokoʻa a loaʻa kekahi mea pono no kou makuahine. Akā ma kēiaʻano, ponoʻoe e nīnau i kou mau mākua no ka mea e pono ai lākou, aiʻole e mahalo i ke kālā. Eʻike pono lākou i ka pono kūpono no ia mea.
Ināʻoe i kēlāʻano i hōʻoleʻole ka hui, a makemakeʻoe i kekahi mea e hāʻawi aku i kahi hoa hana no ka hānauʻana o kahi kaikamahine, kūpono a iʻole paha, e noʻonoʻo i nā koho no nā makana maikaʻi. Hāʻawi lākou i ke kau lole nui. E pono mau ana, a mai ka manawa eʻauʻau ai ka pēpē i nā manawa pinepine, maikaʻi nō inā he nui nā kāwele. I kahi e maloʻo ai, hiki ke hoʻohanaʻia kekahi. ʻO ka pāpale a me ka pākeke he mea maikaʻiʻiʻo nō. ʻO ka mea hana no ka pēpē,ʻaʻole loa ia he mea nui.
No ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki,ʻoiai he kaikamahine paha, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i kekahi mea hoʻomau a me ka mālamaʻana i kahi hoʻomanaʻo, e like me kahi kiʻi kiʻi kūikawā no nā keiki hou . E hauʻoli nā mākua i ka hoʻopaʻaʻana i loko o laila nā hana mua o ka pēpē a hoʻokomo i kona mau kiʻi. Ma mua o ka manawa, i ka manawa e ulu ai ke kaikamahine, he mea nui loa ia no ka nānāʻana iā ia iho i ka wā'ōpiopio. Hiki iāʻoe ke pale a hāʻawi i kahi papa kūikawā, kahi e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻolei i ke kī a me nā wāwae o ke pēpē.
Manaʻo ka poʻe he nuiʻole ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki no ka hāʻawiʻana i nā diapeka a me nā diapeka. Eia naʻe, mai wikiwikiʻoe e hele a puni lākou. E hoʻomaka kākou, ma keʻano o kēia au hou,ʻaʻole e hoʻokomo nā keiki, a he diapal,ʻaʻole kaʻoluʻolu, ke ola pilikino e hiki ai ke hōʻeha. No laila, pono nā mākua e koho i nā diapela.
He aha ka hāʻawiʻana i kāna wahine no ka hānauʻana i kahi kaikamahine?
Inā loaʻa kēia hana i loko o kouʻohana, a ua hāʻawiʻia aku kēia hana mana nani iāʻoe e kāu wahine aloha,ʻaʻole ia he mea e kahaha ai ua pihaʻoe i nā manaʻo a makemake e hāʻawi i kekahi mea iā ia. Eia kekahi, he hana maʻamau kekahi e hāʻawi i nā makana i ka wahine hānau keiki mai kāna kāne a me ka makuahōnōwai kāne. He mea maʻamau ka hāʻawiʻana no ka hānauʻana i kahi keiki, nā kaikamahine, he paʻakikī ke'ōlelo, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe mau canons paʻa.
No laila, ponoʻoe e hāʻawi aku i kahi mea e hōʻoluʻolu ai i ka mīkini a me ka leʻaleʻa. Hiki ke hauʻoli kekahi i ka mea e hoʻomoe aiʻole i ke kani,ʻo kekahi mea me ka mink coat he meaʻono ia. Ma hope mai, ua lilo i meaʻono ke kāpili i ka hauʻoli ma nā pākeka. He mea makana kēia i kāna wahine no ka hānauʻana i ke keiki, he kaikamahine. ʻO ka mea aloha aloha e hoʻoloi i kahi hōʻailona o ka makaʻala a me ka mahalo.
Eia naʻe, he mea pono e hoʻomaopopo i ka hoʻomākaukauʻana o ia makana i mea waiwai a me ka hana. Akā ināʻaʻoleʻoe i nui ke kālā e hāʻawi i nā palapala pākahi a me nā pāluʻu mink, mai hoʻonāwaliwali. ʻO kahi lālā nani o nā pua, i hāʻawiʻia mai ka puʻuwai,ʻo ia ka meaʻoluʻolu loa no kāu wahine.