ʻAʻohe mea e hakakā me ka pono e hoʻokaʻawale ka wahine. Akā i ka wā i ho'āʻo ai nā hoaʻelua i nāʻano a pau, hiki i nā wahi a me nā wahi, nui kaʻiʻini i loko o ka pilina, ke kāne mai kahi hana hauʻoli e lilo i ke ola o ka wā a me kekahi hana o ka home. ʻO keʻano o ka wahine me ke kanaka i alohaʻia e kōkua i ka pāʻaniʻana ma kahi moe. Heʻokoʻa ko lākou mau hiʻohiʻona a he palena wale nō kou mau makemake a me kou hiʻona.
ʻO nā'ōnaeho o nā pāʻani pāʻani i ka moe
E makemakeʻoe i kāu kanaka, pono e haʻi i kāuʻike. A e ho'ākāka ana mākou i nā hanana kaulana loa o ia mau pāʻani:
- ʻO ka meaʻoi loa o nā pāʻani pāʻani i kahi moe,ʻo ia keʻano "kauā wahine". ʻO ke kuleana nui e hanaʻia nei e kahi wahine,ʻaʻole pono kahi kāne e hoʻokō i nā makemake a pau o kona haku wahine. No nā pāʻani pāʻani o kēia kūlana, hiki ke maʻalahi kaʻaʻahuʻawaʻawa - i loko o kēlā me kēia pānaʻi kāne kāne he nui ka hui. ʻO kēia mauʻano likeʻole i hanaʻia me ke kauwela, nā lapalapa, nā makuka, nā lima lima a me nā mea.
- ʻO ke kuleana o ke kauā a me ka haiā wahine e hiki ke hoʻokaniʻia e kahi hoa. I loko o ka papahele he mau pūkope like, hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa kahiʻano wahine me ka hulu, me ke kōkuaʻana o ke kauā i ka moena. Eia ka mea nāna ke kanaka, ke kū'ē nei ka wahine i ka hoʻomakaʻana, a laila e hoʻokō pono i nā koi a pau o kona "haku."
- ʻO ka pāʻani "ma ka haukapila"ʻaʻole i waena wale o nā keiki. Hiki i nā mākua ke pāʻani nui. ʻO wai ka mea nui, e hoʻoholo no kou iho, no ka mea,ʻaʻole wale ka nānāʻana o ka kahu hānai i kaʻaʻahuʻaʻahu hāmama, akā,ʻo ke kauka paʻa loa.
- No ke aha e ho'āʻoʻole e pāʻani i kahi moʻolelo me nā kahu? ʻO nā mea hoʻomaʻemaʻe o nāʻauwai a me nā mechanics pūnaewele i ko kākou latitudes maukaʻole ke aʻa, akā, ua maikaʻi loa ka pulu. E koho i ka hoʻopiʻi kūpono no ka hoa, hāʻawi iā ia i kahiʻeke me nā mea hana a kali iā ia no ka piila. Hōʻike i ka mea hōʻeuʻeu hōʻea i kahi hanaʻole ma ka lumi kuke aiʻole i loko o ka lumipaku a hana i ke kūlana.
- ʻAʻole makemakeʻoe e noʻonoʻo iāʻoe iho he mea pāʻani? ʻAe,ʻaʻohe mea maʻamau, akā,ʻo ka mea i loko o nā manaʻo haʻalulu no nā kāne he nui,ʻo ka heroine o ka kiʻi no nā mākua? Inā he makemake nui kēia, a laila, pono e ho'āʻo i kēia mahele. Eia kekahi, no kēlā mau pāʻani pāʻani, e maʻalahi nāʻaʻahu'aloʻula - hiki ke loaʻa i ka lole lole wahine.
- Ma kekahi mau moku'āina oʻAmelika, aia ke kānāwai e hikiʻole i ke ahi ahi ke kuleana e hoʻopakele i kahi wahine inā ua'ōloheloheʻo ia. Akā,ʻaʻole mākou maʻAmelika a hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokani i ke ola o kekahi wahine maikaʻi i ke ahi. No ka hana pono i nā mea a pau, e loaʻa i kahi mea i alohaʻia e kahi mea aloha -ʻo kēia mai kahi hale lole a me kahi mea hana.
- ʻO ke kiʻi o kekahi haumāna hoʻolohe a iʻole ke haumana e hauʻoli nui ana. Eʻikeʻoe i kāu hoa eʻike iāʻoe i ke kiʻi o kahi kaikamahine halaʻole me nā huelo, ma kahi pōkole a me ka'ōleʻa.
- Hāpai nā manaʻo o nā kāne i nā haumāna wale nō, akā, i nā kumu. Mai makemakeʻoe e lilo i kahu kula nona, ma ke kaupaʻi paʻa, nā aniani a me ka pointer? Hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻino iā ia no kāna hanaʻino a hāʻawi aku e kala no kona hewa. A iʻole e hiki iā ia ke haʻi aku i kāna kumu i kona maikaʻi, a hoʻokō koke i kāna mau makemake.
- Ua hanaʻia kaʻona o ka Geisha i ke kiʻi o kahi geisha i kaulana loa. ʻAʻole makemakeʻoe e ho'āʻo iāʻoe iho ma kēiaʻano? E kau i kahi kapa'ōlohelohe i ka lole lauhuʻi lahilahi, e hoʻoulu i kou mau maka, ae hōʻiliʻili i kou lauoho i loko o kahi pā. Hoʻoponopono nā papa no ka hoʻoponopono a hoʻonohonoho paha i ka papaʻaina. Ma hope o ka hanaʻana iā ia i kahi pākiko paʻakikī, mai ka honiʻana e hele i ka puhi. Ma keʻano maʻamau, eʻoluʻolu i kāu kanaka e like me ka Geisha maoli aʻaʻoleʻo ia i moe.