Hiki i nā mākua a pau ke nānā aku i nā'ōkoʻomaʻa ma ke kino o ke pēpē a me nā huna lepo a pau e noho ana ma luna. A i ka nui o ka weliweli no lākou, i loko o hoʻokahi mahina, aʻoi aku paha i alohaʻia, hana hou ke keiki i nā hana likeʻole me nā lima a me nāʻaoʻao'ē aʻe o ke kino. He aha ke kumu o kēia maʻi a pehea e mālama ai i ke neurosis o ka hoʻoikaika ikaika? E kōkua nāʻaha kūkā a me nā'ōlelo a nā kauka e hoʻoponopono i kēia pilikia.
Neurosis o ka hoʻoikaika ikaika i nā keiki - nā hōʻailona
ʻO ka maʻi o ka hoʻoikaika ikaikaʻo kahi maʻi ia e hanaʻia ana i loko o nā kamaliʻi, e hōʻike ana iā ia iho i ka papahana a hiki ke hōʻailona o kahi maʻi holomua āpau a iʻole kekahi mea hōʻeha. Hiki keʻano likeʻole nā hana. Eia naʻe,ʻo ka hapanui o nā keiki e like me ka manamana wāwae, ka uwiʻana o nā niho, e luliluli i ke poʻo a iʻole ke kuʻiʻana ma kekahiʻaoʻao, ka liʻiliʻi lima, ka lauoho uila, keʻokiʻana i kaʻili, a pēlā aku.
ʻO ka hōʻikeʻana o kekahi hapa o nā hōʻailonaʻaʻole ia he hōʻailona maʻamau. Pono nā mākua e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia. I ka hapanui o nā hihia, he wahi wale nō kēia o ka hana o ka uluʻana, a ma hope e hala. Eia nō naʻe, inā i'ōlelo nuiʻia nā hana a me nā mea e nānā ai, e hōʻike no ka manawa lōʻihi a keakea i ka ulu a me ka hana maʻamau o ke keiki, ma kēia hana, he pono e nīnau i kekahi mea lapaʻau. ʻAʻoleʻikeʻia nā hanana nānā i nāʻano a me nā hōʻoia, akā hiki ke hana i kekahi o nā maʻi'ē aʻe, iʻoi aku ka maʻi nui. ʻO kahi laʻana, ka maʻiʻehaʻeha, ka hōʻailona o ka trichotillomania a me ka syndrome Turret. Hōʻike lākou a pau i nā makahiki'ē aʻe, ma nā keiki olakino a me nā mea me ka lola iki o kaʻike.
Neurosis o ka hoʻoikaika ikaika - ka lāʻau
Ma muli o ke kaʻina o ka hōʻike, hoʻonāukiukiʻia nā hanaʻeha i nā keiki ma nāʻano likeʻole. Inā hoʻopau maikaʻiʻoleʻia ka maʻi, hiki iā ia ke nalo me ka loaʻaʻole o kahi huakaʻi me kaʻole o ka lawelaweʻana i ka lāʻau, akā pono ma lalo o ka nānāʻana o nā kauka.
I ka hoʻonuiʻana i ka nānāʻana a ke kauka, pono nā mākua e hoʻomanaʻo i hiki iā lākou ke hoʻololi i keʻano o ka maʻi aʻaʻole paha iʻole e hōʻalo i keʻano o ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana. ʻO ke kūmālie a me ka kūpaʻa i nā manaʻo a me nā hana ka mea nui i ka uluʻana i kahi keiki maikaʻi. ʻO nā kāne i ka makahiki heʻelua e pono ana e hoʻonāukiuki, maʻa mau i ka hana, hoʻomaʻemaʻe a me ke kuokoa. ʻO ke kaʻina o ka lā, palekana i ka luhi a me ke kaumaha kaumaha e hiki ai i ke keiki ke kūʻokoʻa - eia nā mea kūpono e pale ai i nā mea hilahila a me nā neuro.