ʻO keʻano kālai'āina

Nui nā wahine i ka lohe i kona nani. Akā, he aha keʻano kūpono?

ʻAʻohe nani nani o ka lole, akāʻo nāʻano maikaʻi, nā hana kūpono,ʻo ia ka hiki ke mahalo a pilikino maikaʻi. I ko mākou wā, i ka manawaʻaʻole i nā'ōpio wale nō, akā,ʻo ka hanauna kahiko ke holo wikiwiki nei i kekahi wahi, no ka hopohopo i ko lākou mau pilikia a me nā pilikia, he mea paʻakikī ka nohoʻana i wahine maikaʻi. Akā, haʻahaʻa, e moeʻuhane nā mea a pau.

I kēia mau lā, e like me ka manawa maʻamau, e kaʻana like mākou i kekahi mau meaʻikeʻole i ka holomuaʻana o kekahi i kēia ao holomua.

ʻO keʻano o kahi wahine nani

E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i keʻano,ʻaʻole i nāʻano maikaʻi. No ka hālāwaiʻana i nā kānaka ma ko lākouʻaʻahu, e ho'āʻo mākou e hana i ka kiʻi kūpono, ka mea e hoʻokuʻu i nā kānaka a pau ma ka hoʻoponoponoʻana.

No nā mea hoʻomaka e makemake wau eʻike i keʻano o ka helehelena he mea nui i ka hanaʻana i kekahi kiʻi, keʻole ka mea kūpono. Hōʻailonaʻia nā lauohoʻano nani e keʻano maʻalahi a me ka nani. ʻAʻole pono e hana i ka lauoho maikaʻi, me ka nui o nā mea ulana a me nā hua'ōlelo. He lawa paha ka hōʻiliʻiliʻana i ka lauoho i loko o ka meaʻala a i ka pila. A iʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hana i ka peni nui a kau iā ia me kahi papa nani, a he mea maʻalahi a he nani.

Inā he wahine kālepaʻoe,ʻaʻoleʻoe e komo i ke kapaʻaʻahu a me ka hulu. Hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kahi kiʻi likeʻole ma kahiʻano pāʻoihana hoihoi me ke kōkua o nā mea uila. Eia kekahi laʻana, i ka heleʻana i kahi hālāwaiʻoihana, hiki iāʻoe keʻaʻahu i ke keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo, kahi hāmeleʻeleʻeleʻeleʻele (he peni penikala a me kahi kapa) a hoʻokō i kēia kiʻi me kahi mea'onike mua, e like me ke kaulaʻalani lahilahi. ʻO nā kāmaʻa e like me keʻano ma luna o ka kuʻekuʻe wāwae, a hana i nā kukui māmā a me ka lawe pūʻana meʻoe i ka hopena, e nānāʻoe i keʻano maoli a me ka nani.

Hiki i ka wahine ke nānā aku i ka nani wale nō i nā manawa kūikawā wale nō. Hiki i nā 'ano o ka lole maʻalahi ke kālepa i waho i waena o nā mea'ē aʻe, no ka mea, nui ka hapanui e makemake i nā'ōpiopio o nā kumuhana likeʻole , aʻaʻole paha lākou iʻike i keʻano o ka huiʻana i nā mea i mea nani aʻoluʻolu. He meaʻoluʻolu kūpono nā loleʻaʻahu nani. Akāʻo ka poʻe e hoʻopuni ana iāʻoe e hoʻolohe koke i kāu mea i hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻia a me ka maikaʻi. Aʻo kēia, heʻoiaʻiʻo, e huki iāʻoe i kahi kuleana kūpono a me ka nānāʻana mai nā poʻe'ē aʻe. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki iāʻoe keʻaʻahu i nā kāmeʻaʻeleʻele, i ka pāpale, i ka hapalua heʻeled nui a me kaʻaʻahu nani i kāhikoʻia. Loaʻa iāʻoe kahi kiʻi likeʻole, wahine a me ke aloha.

Eia kekahi i ka hanaʻiaʻana o ke kiʻi kiʻi kūpono he mea waiwai nui loa, he'āpana hoʻololi. No ka laʻana, e hoʻokomo i ka lole keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo ma kahiʻeleʻele nuiʻeleʻele, he keokeo wili a me kahi'āpana keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo, e loaʻa iāʻoe kahi kiʻi haʻahaʻa a maʻalahi e hoʻokūkū i kouʻano haʻahaʻa a me ka hanohano.