Me ka loaʻaʻana o kekahi holoholona i waho, he paʻakikī ka hoʻoholo kokeʻana i kāna wahine. Inā noho wale kāu pipi, aʻaʻoleʻoe e manaʻo e nānā i nā kāne, a laila,ʻaʻole paha e hoʻonāukiuki kekahi nīnau like. Inā loaʻa ka makemake e kūʻai aku i ka hapalua o kāna hānaiʻulaʻula , a laila,ʻo ka nīnau i keʻano eʻike ai i kāna wahine e pili ana i ka pili. No ka hanaʻana i kēia, pono ka mea nona ka holoholona holoholona eʻike i nā nuances nui.
Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai i ka wahine o ka'umeleʻulaʻula?
No ka hoʻoholoʻana i ka mea like: noho kahi keikikāne a kaikamahine paha i kou home, ponoʻoe e kali a hiki i ka wā e ulu ke kuhukū . Hanaʻia kēia ma 6-8 mau makahiki. I loko o kēia wā, hiki ke lōʻihi o ka shell i 11 knm i mea eʻike pono ai i ka wahine o ka torto e pono e nānā pono i kona helehelena.
No laila,ʻo ka hiʻohiʻona mua e hoʻokaʻawale ana i nā kāne mai nā wāhine he hiki i ka lōʻihi lōʻihi. ʻO kēia ke kumu o ka hoʻokōʻana o ke kāne kāne male kāne i ka hula i mea e lanakila ai ka naʻau o ka wahine.
ʻO ka lua o ka mea e pono e hoʻoloheʻia kaʻaoʻao o ka shell. I nā wāhine, he palahalaha kona, ma nā kāne he male. Hāʻawiʻia kēia hiʻohiʻona e keʻano no ka pilina maikaʻi loa o nā kola. ʻOi aku ka lōʻihi o nā pani ma nā kāne.
ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona e hiki mai ana ke heleʻana o kahi huelo lōʻihi a me ka momona o nā kāne, no ka mea, hūnāʻia nā pūkolohe o nā kololaʻulaʻula. No ka wahine,ʻo ka hūnā huna i ka cloacaʻaʻole ia e hoʻopili i ka nui o kona huelo liʻiliʻi ma nāʻano.
Pono ia eʻikeʻia ka nui o nā kola: ua nui ka nui o nā wāhine ma muli o ka pono o ka hānauʻana. ʻO ka ihu o nā kāne he lōʻihi aʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka wahine. ʻO nā ho'ākāka o ka wahine o nā kolo uila-'eliʻona he meaʻoluʻolu loa a nānā pono. I ka wā mālie, hiki i kekahi ke nānā i ka hana kiʻekiʻe o nā kāne, kaʻimiʻana, ka hahaiʻana i ka wahine.