No ke aha e hiamoe ai au i nā kāmaʻa kāmaʻa?

ʻO ka moeʻuhane ka manawa e wehe ai ka meaʻikeʻole i kaʻike o kekahi kanaka, a ma keʻano hōʻailona eʻike i nā mea e hopohopo nei iā mākou i kaʻoiaʻiʻo. I kekahi manawa i kahi kiʻi'ē aʻe o kēia mau kiʻi, a laila manaʻo kekahi poʻe he mau hōʻailona kēia e kōkua ai e hoʻoponopono i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Eia naʻe, hiki i ko mākou lolo ke hoʻouna iā mākou i kahi hōʻailona i hōʻailonaʻia. He aha keʻano o kēia hōʻailona?

He moe no nā kāmaʻa kāmaʻa

ʻO ka manawa maʻamau, nā kāmaʻa i loko o ka moeʻuhane ua unuhiʻiaʻo ia he wānana e pili ana i ke alanui a no kahi pili aloha (he mau kāmaʻa like like!). No laila,ʻo nā kāmaʻa kāmaʻa ma ka moeʻuhane,ʻo ia hoʻi ka pilikia ma ke ala, kahi heleʻole, nā pilikia a me nā mea kūʻai. Aʻo ka manaʻo o ka haʻi aku i ke aloha (a aloha paha, ināʻikeʻia ka moe e kekahi kanaka).

ʻO kaʻikeʻana i nā kāmaʻa kāmaʻa ma ka moeʻuhane he mea maikaʻiʻole, akā,ʻaʻole i hōʻailona hōʻailona. ʻO ka manawa pinepineʻole nā ​​pilikia e hāpai ai i nā'ōlelo hoʻohiki i ka mea make.

No ke aha e hiamoe ai i nā kāmaʻa wāwae?

I kekahi manawa ua mālamaʻia kēia moe e like me ka wānana, hoʻolaha i nā hoʻolālā kālā, hiki paha i ka nui. Malia paha e pili ana i ke kūʻaiʻana i nā kāmaʻa hou e hiki ai ke haehae a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo.

Inā ma ka moeʻuhane ka mea iʻike nā kānaka i ka kāmaʻa kāmaʻa ma kona mau wāwae, a laila, na ka nalowale. ʻOiai he mauʻike'ē aʻe kekahi. Manaʻo kekahi he maʻi kēia a heʻeha paha i kēia wāwae, aʻo kekahi'ē aʻe - e mare i ka wahine me kahi keiki. ʻOiaiʻo nā koho a pau o kā mākou manawa, he mea kumukūʻai.

ʻO kaʻikeʻana i nā kāmaʻa kāmaʻa i loko o ka moeʻuhane, he mea hakakā me kahi mea aloha. He mea hoʻonani paha inā e paʻi mau ana ka pahu i ka wā e hele ana,ʻaʻole ia he hakakā, he mea hōʻino wale.

Inā he puka ma lalo, ponoʻoe e noʻonoʻo inā ua hanaʻia ka pololei i ka lā ma mua. ʻAʻohe moe.

Akā, ināʻoe e moeʻuhane i kahi pāʻina, akā i kahi kāleʻa maikaʻi, laila he hōʻailona maikaʻi kēia: e kali nei i kahiʻoihana hou e maʻalahi a holomua. Aia ma ke ala, aia nā puke moe kahi e mālamaʻia ai nā mea a pau i kaʻaoʻao'ē aʻe: nā kāmaʻa hou - i ka hemahema, a me kaʻelemakule, nāhaehae - i ka holomua. No laila, mai hāʻawi nui aku. He moeʻuhane wale ka moe.