ʻO ka hapanui o nā wāhine a me nā wāhine i hāpai i nā mākua,ʻaʻole lākou i makemake i ka nīnau, "I ka manawa a me ke kumu eʻikeʻia ai ka'ōuli o ka'ōpū ma ka'ōpū?", "Akā, pehea e weheʻia ai kēia pila?". Ma hope o nā mea a pau, no kekahi mau mea e koe no kahi lōʻihi lōʻihi. A no nā mea hoʻomaka, eʻike kākou i nā mea a kākou e hakakā ai.
ʻO ka pēpili ma ka'ōpū ka hopena o nā hoʻololi hormonal i ke kino o ka wahine hāpai. Eia kekahi, he nui nā wāhine e hoʻomaopopo i ka wā o ka'ōpū, he lauoho ko lākou i ka'ōpū a me ka nūnū i nāʻeke - kahi i ho'ākākaʻia e nā loli o ka hormonal. Akā, hoʻi i ka pukaʻeleʻele. ʻO ka manawa o kona nānāʻana he mea like ia no nā mea a pau. Loaʻa kekahi i kaʻike i kahi hui hormonal i loko o ka malama mua o ka'ōpū, a ma kekahi mau mea,ʻikeʻia ma hope o ka hānauʻana (aʻaʻole paha iʻikeʻia). Akā naʻe,ʻike ka hapanui o nā wāhine i ka'ōuli pouli ma nā mahina hope loa o ka'ōpū. Aʻo ka hihia mua, ka lua, a me kaʻekolu, he mea maʻamau loa, aʻaʻohe kumu e hopohopo ai i ka hikiʻana a iʻole ka pukaʻole o kahi'ōpala.
Hiki i nā lā likeʻole, hiki keʻike i ka wahi likeʻole o kēia mau pā. Ma kekahi, no ka piko a ma lalo wale nō, a ma nā mea'ē aʻe ma o ka'ōpū.
Me ka hana hoʻonanea,ʻaʻohe mea e pono ai ke hana, i nā mahina ma hope o ka hānauʻana, e hala. ʻO ka mea pōʻino, uaʻike nā wāhine he nui i ka nalowale o ka'ōʻeleʻele o ka'ōpū mai ko lākou'ōpū mai. Pono kekahi e kali a hiki i ka loaʻaʻana o kaʻili ma ka'ōpū o ka'ōpū a me kaʻahu makahiki. Akā,ʻaʻohe mea'ē aʻe i noʻonoʻo pehea e hoʻolei aku ai i ka pēpē, koe wale nō keʻano o ke ahonui.
Aʻo kekahi hoʻopaʻapaʻa hope loa. Manaʻo nui ka poʻe i ka wā e loaʻa ai ka pūpū ma ka'ōpū, e manaʻo nā mākua i ka wā e hiki aku i ka hoʻoilina, akā ināʻaʻole kahi wehe - hoʻomākaukau no ka heleʻana o ke kaikamahine. Akā,ʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole ia he mea'ē aʻe wale nō, akā, uaʻikeʻia keʻikeʻana i ka heleʻana a iʻole ka pukaʻana o ka'ōpū ma ka'ōpū,ʻaʻole loa ia e pili pū me ka wahine o ke keiki i hānauʻoleʻia.