Inā noiʻoe i nā kāne i keʻano o ka lole e makemake ai lākou i kahi kaikamahine, hikiʻole iāʻoe keʻimi i ka pane paneʻole. A he nui nā mea e'ōlelo nei heʻaʻahu no ka wahine o ka wahine, no laila,ʻaʻole ia he nani wale nō, akā, heʻeleʻele hoʻi. A uaʻae like mākou me kēia:ʻO ke kaikamahine i ka loleʻulaʻula nani e nānā aku i ka nani ma mua o ka "kapa kupuna kupuna".
A, e like me ka hōʻikeʻana o nāʻikepili, e like nā kānaka me ka lole ula. Akā,ʻaʻole ia he mea kānalua, no ka mea,ʻo kēlāʻano kelehe e kāhea e pili ana i ka huhū. ʻO nā kaikamāhine e komo ana i ka lole ulaʻula eʻike i ka mea e leʻaleʻa ai i kā lākou kāne
ʻO ka lole ulaʻula
E kūʻai aʻaʻole paha e kūʻai i ka loleʻulaʻulaʻulaʻula? E hōʻaʻahu au iā iaʻaʻole paha? ʻO kēia nīnau e hoʻopaʻi nui i nā kaikamāhine a me nā wāhine. ʻO ka kumu mua o iaʻehaʻeha,ʻaʻole ia eʻaʻahu nā lole a pau i ka lole ulaʻula. Akā,ʻaʻohe i loaʻa i kēia maka.
ʻO ke kumu kumuʻelua, hiki ke kapaʻia heʻano wahine me kona conservatism. Eia hou,ʻo ko mākou holomua o ke ola a me ka hui kaiaulu i ka kohoʻia o ke olonā e koi mai nei iā mākouʻaʻole i ka moekolohe, akā, i ka hana.
ʻAe,ʻaʻohe mea kānalua,ʻaʻahu keʻokeʻo aʻeleʻele paha, akāʻaʻole pono e hoʻopoina nā wāhine maikaʻi e pili ana i nā manawa maikaʻi o ke ola. I loko o ka loleʻulaʻula, e manaʻoʻia kekahi lede e like me ke kapa a me ka hoʻonā.
ʻAʻole hiki ke kapaʻia ka'ōmaʻomaʻo kalaʻula he kilakila, akā weheʻia kahi māla nui no ka noʻonoʻo. I ke kohoʻana i ka lole, nā kaikamahine, he wahine e pono ke hoʻomaha a hoʻomaha loa i nā makemake o kona mau makemake. ʻAʻole hiki i ko mākou mau lauʻeleʻele ke haʻi mua i kekahi mea maikaʻi, akā, ma keʻano he nui, makemake nā kānaka he nui e hōʻike i ka "diabolo" e noho ana i loko o mākou. No ka hanaʻana i kēia, e pena wale i kou mau lehelehe me ka lepeʻulaʻulaʻulaʻula, e kau i ka loleʻulaʻulaʻulaʻula a hōʻike i kāu pokii e hiki iāʻoe.
Ināʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka pono a me ka pono o ka loleʻulaʻula ulaula o nā wāhine, pono koke ia e hoʻomanaʻo i kaʻahaʻaina o St. Valentine. I kēia mau lā, piha mau i nā mea āpau a me nāʻano o kaʻulaʻula.
I ka hopena, nānā ka lole ulaʻula i ka wahine i meaʻono. A ma lalo o laila e pono anaʻoe i nā kapa o ke kala kūpono.
No laila, e hoʻi kākou i ka nīnau: he pono ke kūʻaiʻana i ka lole'ulaʻulaʻula? ʻO kā mākou paneʻaʻohe pololei -ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua kūpono ia. I kekahi manawa ponoʻoe e noho a hoʻomaha i ka wahine e mākaukau e hoʻokolohua.
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