He mau haneli mau makahiki i hala,ʻaʻole hiki i nā wāhine a pau ke hoʻopaʻa aku i ke kaulahao ma ko lākou mau wāwae. Ma nā'āina'ē aʻe,ʻo kēia lei i ka wāwae o ka wahine,ʻo ia hoʻi, ua mareʻia ka wahine a ua hōʻike paha i ke kūlana nohona o kāna kāne. I ka Hikina, ua paʻa ka wahine mare i ka wāwae o ka lā mare me ke kaula kālā i kauʻia me nā pūpū. A hoʻopaʻa nā wāhine Chinese i nā kūpeʻe ma ko lākou mau wāwae me kekahi kaulalani lahilahi, no ka mea, heʻuʻuku nā kiʻi liʻiliʻi a he nui keʻano. I kēia lā,ʻo ke kaulahao wahine ma ka wāwae,ʻo ia hoʻi ka makemake o ke kaikamahine i ka nānāʻana a hahai i nāʻano.
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Hoʻoponopono lawelawe
ʻO ka manawa mua i kauʻia nā kaulahao lahilahi ma nā kuʻekuʻe ua lilo i kaulana i nā makahiki he kanalima o ka makahiki i hala. I ka wā mua, kēia mea hoʻonani ke kuleana o nā kaikamāhine'ōpio, a ma kēiaʻano i hoʻokūkūkīʻia i nā heke keʻokeʻo (he mea kaulana loa ia). A laila,ʻo ke kaula gula, uaʻaʻahuʻia i ka wāwae,ʻo ia hoʻi, he mea aloha kahi mea nāna i hāʻawi iā ia. Ke makemake nei nā loea hou iʻole e puʻuki i kēia mau nīnau. Inā makemakeʻoe i nā mea i hanaʻia i ke gula a me ke kālā,ʻo kahi kaula i kou wāwae he ala maikaʻi loa ia e hōʻoia i ka nani o nā wāwae. Ke nānā aku nei nā pale gula gula kūikawā nui loa me nā kāmaʻa nani ma kahi heʻe wāwae kiʻekiʻe loa. ʻO kēia mea hoʻonani ka mea e hoʻokau i ka pilikino o ka wāwae, e nānā ana. ʻO ia ke kumu o nā kāmaʻaʻelua, a me keʻano o kaʻili o nā wāwae, a me keʻano o ka'ōpili.
Akā,ʻaʻole i kūpono nā kaula gula no nā kiʻi ahiahi ahiahi . ʻO ka nani o keʻano o kēia mea nani e nānā i ka wāwae o kahi kaikamahine iʻaʻahuʻia i keʻano o ka pōhaku glam. Hiki maikaʻi, inā he mau mea hoʻolima'ē aʻe keʻano o ka kaulahao - nā pale, nāʻaʻahu, nā loka.
A e pili ana i ka wāwae e hoʻohana pinepine nei i ke kaulahao. He aha ka mea e pono ai? ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, ma kaʻikeʻeleʻeleʻole i manaʻo nuiʻia e hoʻohanohanoʻia kaʻaoʻao'ākau o ke kino i nā apo pepeiao, nā kūpeʻe lima a me nā maʻamau e nā lunamaka'āinana. Ināʻaʻole pilikia kēia manaʻo iāʻoe, e kau i ke kaulahao ma kou wāwae'ākau. Ma ke ala, ua hele kekahi mau kaikamahine i nā kaulahao ma nā wāwaeʻelua, akā i ka hapanui o nāʻano,ʻaʻole i nānā maikaʻiʻia. Hōʻoia nā papahana e kau palenaʻia i kahi hoʻolima, kahiʻoi aku i ka manawa o ke kauwela-kauwela.
ʻO nā mea a pau, a me nā kaulahao lahilahi e hoʻonani ana i nā wāwae o nā wahine, e kapaʻia he pono. E koho i kāu mea i makemake nui ai, ae kākoʻo wiwoʻole i ke kiʻi kiʻi.
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