Uaʻikeʻia he nui ka poʻe wale nō ka poʻe maikaʻi loa a me kaʻoihana hana e hiki ke kono i kahi kahu i kahi keiki. Aʻo kēia nō, no ka mea,ʻaʻole i uku nui nā kānaka no ka hana a kahi wahine. Eia naʻe, i kēlā me kēia makahiki ma ko mākou'āina, ua konoʻia aku nāʻohana i kā lākou wahine.
No laila, inā ma muli o kāu hana, a no kekahi kumu'ē aʻe, ponoʻoe e hāʻawi i kāu keiki i kahi mea'ē aʻe, ua mākaukau mākou e kōkua iāʻoe me ka'ōlelo aʻo, peheaʻoe e kuhihewa ai i ke kohoʻana i kahi wahine.
Auhea e hiki ai iaʻu ke imi i kahi mea nanny no ke keiki?
Nui nā koho no ka hoʻoholo i ka pilikia. ʻO kaʻaoʻao maʻalahi ka hoʻounaʻana i kekahi o kouʻohana (ka makuahine hanaʻole, niece-haumāna, a me nā mea'ē aʻe). Akā i kēia hihia, aia kekahi mau pōʻino. Hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻokuʻu iā ia, mai ia ia keʻano hopohopo e noi ai i ka hanaʻana i nā kuleana, a no laila, e hiki mai ana nā pilikia a me nā hoʻohaʻahaʻa.
ʻO ka koho hou aʻe - e kiʻi i kahi nanny ma nā'ōlelo a nā hoaaloha. ʻO ka pōmaikaʻiʻo ia ka hōʻoia pono o ka wahine, aʻo ka lalo hoʻi,ʻaʻole ia e maikaʻi meʻoe, aʻaʻole hoʻi e launa pū me kāu keiki. Akā, ma nā hihia, hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻole mau loa iā ia, a loaʻa i kahi nanny hou.
Aʻo ke kolu o kaʻaoʻao,ʻo ia ke kiʻiʻana i ka nanny ma ke ad. ʻO kēia ka kohoʻoi loa loa o nā mea i ho'ākākaʻia. E mākaukau no kaʻoiaʻiʻo e loaʻa ana iāʻoe ma mua o hoʻokahi mahina eʻike ai i ka wahine e kūpono iāʻoe.
Pehea e koho ai i kahi wahine no kahi keiki?
Ināʻaʻoleʻoe i hana mua i nā kahu hānai ma mua, ponoʻoe e hoʻoholo i nā papa inoa o nā koi e kau ai i nā moho. E helu wale aku mākou i kekahi o nāʻano pono e pono ai ka wahine nane.
- No laila, he mea pono loaʻoe e hoʻolohe i ka makahiki o ke kahu. ʻAʻole kēia he mea pili i ke kumukānāwai, akāʻaʻole hiki i ka 60 makahiki o ka wahine ke hahai i ka'ōpena lua makahiki;
- ka hōʻailona o ka kahu. Ua koiʻia nā kahu hānai me ka hoʻonaʻauao aʻo a pilikino paha. ʻIkeʻia kaʻike o nā malihini ma waena o nā moho hikiwawe;
- ke ola kino o ka kahu. He paʻakikī ke hōʻoia i kēia, akā, hiki i ka manawa ke hiki ke lawe i kahi kuleana haʻahaʻa i loko o kāna puke olakino a me ka heleʻana o kaʻikepili;
- Haʻalele i kēia, he pono, heʻano lokomaikaʻi ka wahine, eʻimi i kahi keiki e hele ai, e makaʻala, mahalo. Ponoʻo ia e pani i ka pēpē me ka makuahine i ka hapanui o ka manawa, no laila e ponoʻo ia e kū pono iā ia;
- He mea nui ia pehea kahi hui mua o ka wahine me ke keiki. Hiki iāʻoe ke kūpono ma ka lā mua e maopopo aiʻaʻole i kūpono ka nanny iāʻoe. E nānā i keʻano o kona nānāʻana i ke keiki, inā pahaʻo ia e makemake nui nei i ka hoʻokumuʻana i ka pilina, aʻo kāna mau hanaʻaʻole eʻoi aʻe ma mua o nā kuleana maʻamau.
Mahalo pinepine nā mākua i ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana i kahi keiki i kahi wahine. Akā e kali! No ke aha ke aʻo? Ināʻoluʻoluʻole ka pēpē me kekahi wahine nane,ʻaʻole anei eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e loaʻa i kahi'ē aʻe?
E hoʻomanaʻo i ka manaʻo o kā mākou mau keiki i ka maikaʻi o nā kānaka ma mua o mākou. A no nā kumu kumu a me nā kumu pilikino, hikiʻole i kēia kahu ke kūlike me lākou.
Mai haʻalele i nā manaʻo o nā keiki e pili ana i kahi kahu mālamaʻoleʻia. ʻO ka mea pōʻino, aia kekahi manawa i ka wā e kālaiʻia ai nā keiki hānai i nā keiki. He mea paʻakikī kēia, akā,ʻaʻohe mea e makemake e noho i kahi e hōʻeha aiʻo ia i kāna keiki.
Hoʻokahi nanny no nā keikiʻelua - hiki anei?
Hiki iāʻoe ke pane akuʻaʻohe mea hikiʻole. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he nui nā māmā e mākaʻi maka hoʻokahi no nā keikiʻelua, a hana hoʻi i nā haʻawina home. Akā ua hewa lākou, hiki iā lākou ke hana i nā mea he nui. No laila, inā liʻiliʻi nā keiki,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kēlā me kēia mea i kā lākou iho nanny. Akā no nā keiki iʻoi aku ma mua o 5 mau makahiki, hoʻokahi wahine no ka wahineʻelua.